Joys and pains of working abroad

For numerous reasons, many expats like me venture out into foreign countries to work and live for a number of years. Some of us, go to a country where we have family, friends and relatives who are already working there. While for most of us, we bravely say goodbye to what we have been accustomed to, with BIG dreams of a better future for our families, go forth and work in a country that we haven't even heard of.

Working and living abroad takes courage. Not everyone is cut out to be expats. Some people stay only for few months and go back, while others stay for many many years.

Being an expat means being flexible and open to new experiences and culture. Living abroad is stressful at first but we eventually adapt. It takes time, effort and being open to everything that makes the whole experience enjoyable!
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so have you thought about emigrating to here and starting a new life , and live here for ever happy ever after banana
Dear Virgo...New Zealand is one of the countries I have in my list as a country to go and work for...
Well done I say the world is broader than our own borders and growth comes from understanding other cultures.
Very exciting too and hopefully a rewarding experince for you.
Wishing you wellhug
Hi Mnemosyne wave

I think it takes a lot of bravery to do what you have done. I have never needed to but I'm not sure I could.

Being on an international dating site and having dated foreign ladies obviously I have thought seriously about moving. But that is not the same as being alone.

Yes you would have to be very tolerant and flexible especially in the gulf states where women do not enjoy the same rights and freedoms they do in other countries.

I salute you for your bravery - putting family first.

z hug
Redex...yes its really an exciting and exhilarating experience! One has to be open to these experiences for one to enjoy it!

So far, it has been one exciting ride for me...cheering
Z...

Thanks for the comment and yes...family comes first for most us.
we have a minimum wage here , $13.50 per hour , I drive a truck for $17.00 per hour ...

my only problem with my job , is the tax rate , after tax my $17.00 turns into $10.00 for 10 hours driving ,=$420.00 tax per week

wave
just pray ....everything will work out fine soon....hug
You're not only supporting your family but are also an integral part of the economic machinery of your host country. For what I have seen so far, Expats work way harder than the local population with more focus and resolve.

By the way Muscat is a dead place comparing with a metropolitan city hustle bustle....but Oman in general is beautiful, calm and quiet. Way better beaches than the UAE. Very hot in temperature though! I always prefer to drive to Muscat (almost 5 hours).

And you're lucky you can have a vacation in Salalah....amazing place. cheers grin
But to leave your children and only see them - what - once a year?

Oman is not the most oppressive state - I know shay is in saudi - and social life is much more restrictive.

Max - when you have a family to support - holidays are not always affordable - only dreams of a better future.

z
Respect! thumbs up for you Sister..wave I know, I could never do that! handshake hug bouquet
Dear takeme....thank you for the nice words and the respect you have for expats especially Asian expats.

Yes, Oman is such a lovely country and wonderful people.
StElmo...thank you for the comment...
Hi Ate Don. The Middle East is not the most welcoming place for any place down spirited person. But why I am here, because I choose to. Why not other country expect here in the gulf? Because at this time its the good thing I can do not just to myself but to the people I love. Why settle for the good when I can possibly get the best? Its because the best is still to come. I know I can reach for the best, but that requires time and money for me. Hopefully one day, I will finish what I have to be doing here and reach for the best.

The welfare of my family is the priority for me right now. One brother and a sister already finished college and got their job and I helped them. I still have two siblings in college, I am sending them enough to get thru everyday. Few more years (2 years) and they are done. By that time I will be a very proud older sister and that I have been a part of their journey to success. And that's my number one reason (of my soooo many reasons why I am here).
Hello Shay....My respect and salute to you..Well done girl!

I have read in one article that its not the situation or the circumstances that prevents us from being successful. Its the ATIITUDE and you have it...the right one.

Go for the BEST!
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