Is he the ONE?
With social media and the high speed internet, chatting is the easiest mode to get to know another person we meet in this website. We exchange mails, we chat on a daily basis. As days turn into weeks, then months and you are still chatting and you have come to know the person yet you have not met yet.Is he just a friend? Or is he the ONE?
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I will just answer in my own experience. There are guys like that po, they just want someone to talk/chat without the intention of getting into further than that. Have you two been clear the intention of your relationship (friendship or more than that)? Did he ask/tell you or did you ask? If not yet and he did not make it clear, then its time to ask.
I have once experienced here in cs (also a blogger), someone I talked/emailed constantly for more than 2 months. I thought there is something special only to find out that I was wrong. I assumed. He was very sweet, a gentleman indeed, but I misinterpreted his time given to me, his concerns, his humor to be of something when in fact its only friendship he could offer. 'Though its not me, I am happy for him that he have found his love. And that through that step, I did know him and we continue to be friends now.
Ask po. You may be happy or sad of his answer but the thing is you know what is been the real score between the two of you. It should be clear po from the start of any correspondence.
I resemble that!!! Oops, resent....
I wish you all the best, Mnemos.
In my opinion, it's good to get to know someone through this social media of course but after experiencing to see the person I chatted with, I really didn't know what to say. Everything seemed perfect and smooth that time talking through screens and cams but when we met in person, there was lack of chemistry so it ended with a non-happy ending scene
Mon Apr 30, 2012 2:46 PM AWST
Your post made a lot of sense. What you said is so true yet sad at the same time.