Which is the remedy...

How do u do not remeber the bad moments from a relation even past 8 months,I can't remember the good ones only the bad ones.Maybe because I gave that person all my love,everything and he didn't give me mothing just bad times.blues
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The good memories will come.. it just takes time. First you have to get over the hurt and the anger you feel because of the bad moments.
You too!! Its like the Ex that Shoved a Red Hot Meat Pie Down the Front of My Trousers!!! I'll never forget it!!!doh
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The remedy, I think is to take time for you, take care of yourself and think you're more important than anything.
most people would say forgive and forget but that's not easy and you cannot force yourself to that, just let it be for now, cry if you need coz in time you will not cry anymore, find interesting things to do and enjoy what's left without him, nature, literature, music, company of friends, shopping, travel..there are so many things to do with out him.
Do not settle for anything less than you deserve and the right one will be there one day to offer you all.hug comfort heart beating
I know how you feel. You give and you give and you try so hard, but it falls apart and you feel that even your best efforts aren't good enough. I know that pain too well. But I promise you that things will get better. My advice to you is this: Reclaim yourself. You are not the woman you were before, and that's okay. You can be a new version of yourself. You can become any kind of woman you like. Everything we experience changes us somehow. But that doesn't mean that we can't control how we change. I think the most important thing is to learn from what's happened. So I must agree with what's been said already. Take some time for you. Sing, dance, paint, do whatever makes you happy. In time, you'll be strong enough to look at the past and think "What did I learn from that? What can I take from this experience?" Looking at things that way, you can strengthen yourself for the future and learn to spot some signs. At least, that's what most of my experiences have taught me. Good luck. teddybear
You meet someone new,make new memories to replace the old ones.
Find someone who will make you feel better about yourself,and humanity in general.
Also in the meantime...use the old memories to try and figure out what went wrong. Learn from these and use them as a teaching tool.
Do this and perhaps next time it will all go better.thumbs up
Thank u all for u advice.hug teddybear bouquet lips
I never forget the bad moments. By remembering the bad moments you will be more careful the next time! Just don't dwell on moments or the person and move on! There's better out there waiting for you!
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