Dilemma, or no dilemma?

Hello and good evening fellow blogsters!

I dunno.. but a question came up here for me that was abit unexpected and new kindof.
It has to do with relationships and the internet. We all have our net rutines, many here are much at cs instead of facebook too.
Let's say you met one at cs finally and she moves in with you. How much should one expect to share? What if there is only one pc and both happen to be at cs / fb, and use it parallelly. Like for instance in the morning with the cup of coffe in one hand and the siggie in the other. And later after dinner when you chill out in the sofa at night. Should ones share all even your account, and maybe even share pictures and that too maybe. It has it's advantages i suppose, but can it also rob you a bit of your own special personallity maybe, in some cases.
Just something to ponder abit on there for us all. Thank you for your input in advance.

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Hi morg cheers

We have shared a skype account for a while. Bit wary about my gmail account as my last GF deleted whole account while in a strop.

CS account I have been pretty open with - if you are not 2-timing and not flirting (over the top) so what.

Z wave
lady put up a similar question before.. Like i said to her as well.. I would never do it.. I would let my girl have access to my account but I wouldn't feel good about using the same profile to comment and talk to others. It makes things confusing for others and as i said to lady their might be ways to both be logged in at the same time. You just need different browsers. (it works for other blogs and social media so should work on CS)
Teddy - we have used skype like that. Easily solved ..when you change just put your name before comment.

z
No, your account is your account just like her account is her account, its important that you both retain a sense of individuality in your relationship, shared accounts can become easy targets for emotional outbursts and malicious behaviour if things in the relationship take a turn for the worse.

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Morg, Why don't you get a joint account . That way you can post together . You both also need to have your own private things and if need be you can take turns using the computer . This will be hopefully like your affair . What is yours and what is hers should be respected and then you can share the rest . If you both agree then that is the start of a working relaionship . . . cheers

The Evil Weivil . . . devil devil
nerd

Ok, let's talk more tomorrow, gotta go to bed here.

help bouquet
I have no choice. If I want the treat between her thighs, I must not deny her anything she requests! Just part of being a man!
morgen , you should do as thee others say and keep your account , cause what if you got suspended ? then both of you would miss out .......play it safe , and I'm sure you can use her account , I'm sure she wont mind , but axcidents will happen and dont get up set ....if you find , I've been sending roses her ......wave
yes , as you would yell out , ...some one said something in a blog/comment , what would you write back ? as a reply ?? dear , wave wave
This is how it is done Morgan...I just go into big trouble with my Bunny for talking to other women on here, so I must go now!

Have a nice evening! motorcycle
oooh sorry, actually a talked to both of u wink laugh
hey , waf ,if you do a re-install it will go away.......wave
Really how do you do that? grin doh wave
with a vacume cleaner ....banana
No mines a Compaq laptop Virgo i think ill leave it alone im safe for now no g/f. and i was making a joke with M. Gotta say your car looks terrific youve done a great job on that.thumbs up wave
yes , it now has vr heads with the roller rockers and the heads have been in a cnc shop , heads planed new valves , racing valve springs and ported , and the extra chasis pices as per speedway rules , same here and in the usa ...

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wow, how things change. first you were so obsessed about getting a woman...now you have one and don't know what to do....listen to yourself.....inside you know.
they are small things not big problem to manage all
that's my idea .......

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Good evening wave
Personally I wouldn't share & be on the same account/profile. Its not as tho I got something to hide. To me I like my privacy. I met someone from this site as well. I've read him my blogs. He trusts me enough that he doesn't need to worry & I trust him.

How I see it....it comes down to trust. If we (me & my bf) decide to move in together I think we would figure out time on the internet. Or take turns on each profile while together...or have a tandem profile. You can both have your own plus have a couple profile, so you two can blog together as a couple.
Good morning Morg,

From my own experience that i had with my ex husband some years ago, i will sugest you get her a notebook or a laptop for herlself because maybe she need read her stuff in the same time you my need yours and this can cause discutions between you guys and im sure none of you want that. So the solution is she needs one of her one. Or find different houres to stay at the pc when the other is cleaning or cooking or sleeping i don't know but im sure you guys will figure out.

No i am not agree with sharing my mails or nothing about internet as he never done that neither but yah i did show him sometimes so he don't feel insecure or that i cheet or chat with people he my not know. Hope this help teddybear
@. Snoopy a good friend of mine call me Bunny also and i call him the same strange he is from Miami also, but we never meet we are the best friends ever anyway he lives in Miami also. This is a bit strange to read your comments and see this i start geting scared and think if is any conection..Jezz i hope not then i have to explain everything yayy!! uh oh
We do not share the same ID card, do we? We have different personalities and thoughts, we are two different persons. So we don't grin
My first ex and I never had a computer at all. My second ex and I pretty much always had separate computers, if my lousy memory serves me right. We had separate emails, also. But the Skype on my present computer was set up by my last ex, so the Skype login is under her name. I don't know how to change that to my name. Someone mentioned just inputting one's name in front of Skype comments. Huh? I'm computer illiterate, remember.
Is it like two people sharing one toothbrush Morgen? laugh

Serious now, you know what you should do. wink If you feel like sharing your account and password, then share. If not, then don't.
Ok, if we're fast we can talk a bit here folks while she is still sleeping...

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Ok so it seems most think it's best not to mix up the accounts and the use of them too much. But what if Lady don't like it? What do i do then?

dunno
Topway, nice to see you're still together/meeting.
U live in the same place now?

teddybear

Agree snoopy seems like a stand up guy.

drinking
Ok let's talk. lol rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Tell her i said she should have brought hers with her. But wait till shes in a good mood grin doh doh
Tell her i said she should have brought hers with her. But wait till shes in a good mood grin doh doh
Btw, simmo is banned from blogging at the moment. Think somone rapported him. mumbling
good morning everyone wave

morgan what's going on here confused
Oh ehh nothing... blushing

Good morning my love!

Will you put on the coffy water for us? coffee coffee

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good morning hunny reunion lips lips

yes , lets have a cofee and breakfast

burger
what do ya whant to it hun ? heart1 teddybear

lady
Morgan, I am not trying to start trouble or anything but I think your answer will basically tell her how hot you think she is.

The hotter a woman is, the more sacrifices a man will make for her.
Morgan, are you an only child? If you are, you could make up the excuse that you are not use to sharingdunno
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Hi Morgen! wave We are not together right now but will be again soon. During our time together, we were too busy hanging out to use the computer! But most of the time I lent him my laptop so he could pass some time waiting for me.

I just wonder what gender you should choose if you both use one profile? help
Snoopy, you are a 101% right!
Thanks for showing me the way here with your loving guidance.
I think i must have been slightly lost there for a moment.
Hay, what is independence after all!

Lady it's all cool, let's share accounts aswell in our lives!

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And i think i can already say what Lady will answer:

applause YES YES YES MORGAN YOU'RE THE BEST!

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awwwww hunny lips lips heart1

yes , you are the best , simply the best
heart wings heart wings teddybear
Thank you!
Ehh what account is logged in now? confused laugh

drinking
Being PW (atleast seemingly..) is one of those underestimated joys of life. After years of singlehood.

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