spdspd
spdspd
Ayr, Strathclyde, Scotland, UK
Oct 2012
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The world is for two!

All my life I spent alone. I fought alone with each one obstacle.
Met alone each one joy.....and they were not too many! Fall and straightening alone!
Now I see that there are soooo many ppl like me!
What happen? When and why we lost the ability to love, to live together with our mate?
dunno wine
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single_again4u
single_again4u●Santa Cruz, Bolivia
Oct 19, 2012●42 Blogs●386 Comments
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it's because we don't care about the time and when we do most of the times is too late....comfort comfort
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Welela
Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway
Oct 19, 2012●2,822 Comments
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spd... you know what? I too have been alone for long period in my life, over and over again... so now think I may be alone for the rest of my life and enjoy it. I am not on any male hunt out here, I do look for friends to talk with and I have met someone too who has become good friends... I am not sure if I want to let a new man into my life, because the way I feel I live right now is the best way for me...hug teddybear bouquet
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spdspd
spdspdOP●Ayr, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Oct 19, 2012●52 Blogs●751 Comments
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@single, untill we are still young it seems, time is endless for us. And later......we lost ourself in the pursuit of career, money, power.....
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spdspd
spdspdOP●Ayr, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Oct 19, 2012●52 Blogs●751 Comments
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You sound great Welela!hug
To go every night alone is the bed still makes me too sad!
I would like soo much to be like you! maybe one day I will be.....
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Lady1980
Lady1980●oslo, Oslo Norway
Oct 19, 2012●2 Blogs●183 Comments
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spds i would not give up like Welela
yes , there is many people like you who wants the same
cool to be in realationship , just need to find right person

hug cheers
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snoopy4u
snoopy4u●miami, Florida USA
Oct 19, 2012●2 Blogs●66 Comments
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We want more than what we deserve, so everyone ends up rejecting everyone and you have what we have here. A group of lonely singles who refuse each other!
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spdspd
spdspdOP●Ayr, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Oct 19, 2012●52 Blogs●751 Comments
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Lady, don`t give up! You are still too young! But try at first to look in your life and to find where were your mistakes. I never found time to do that before..... my biggest mistake!
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snoopy4u
snoopy4u●miami, Florida USA
Oct 19, 2012●2 Blogs●66 Comments
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And usually people blame the other group of people as not being good enough quality for them. Like they are getting short changed. But both sides feel this way.

So is there a solution? Not really a great one, but I did read a blog on here that I thought could be helpful in making this problem less uncomfortable. The blog was called "end of love decisions", but I can not find it on here any more.
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spdspd
spdspdOP●Ayr, Strathclyde, Scotland UK
Oct 19, 2012●52 Blogs●751 Comments
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@snoopy, you speak about a part of a problem. But maybe we are too proud to understand that we are not the best ...... and forget that the person with us maybe think the same in the same momentconfused
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snoopy4u
snoopy4u●miami, Florida USA
Oct 19, 2012●2 Blogs●66 Comments
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You mean, we must target people with low self esteem? To sometimes achieve what we want in a partner? Like find a partner who does not know his true self worth? So we can get more than what we deserve?


confused

Good idea! cheers
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Welela
Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway
Oct 19, 2012●2,822 Comments
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spd, yes, I to hope you can feel the joy of being alone and not depend on a man. In my eyes it is not wort it.
I hope you will be there very soon, or find a man who can be there for you. Hugswink
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Lazly
Lazly●Bucharest, Muntenia Romania
Oct 19, 2012●1,645 Comments
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Some we don't have luck to find the true one, the one who is able to love without fear and the one who is able to make you laugh each day and night, the one your not living in fear with.., the one that knows to respect you as woman and also as friend and lover, the one that smile when your say a stupid thing like : I know how you can touch a star!, are less and less those men is hard to find the one who complete you.

I am a dreamer and i deserv a men who can make me dream and laugh if i can not have him i rather be alone. purple heart
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St_Elmo
St_Elmo●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa
Oct 19, 2012●17 Blogs●1,424 Comments
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Spd (x2)....grin Howdy!...wave How are you feeling?
I kinda understand it like this....."You always attract the person (people) & situations in life that you need to learn about..." so, if you constantly come across angry people; then you most probably need to understand your "own anger emotions". And likewise with other stuff in life...
This is from the studies I've undertaken... wine handshake hug
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saddestangel7
saddestangel7●Santa Clara, California USA
Oct 19, 2012●5 Blogs●200 Comments
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Spd I think too as we get older we are set in our ways too.
When we were young we didn't think before jumping into each relationship it just happened. Now, we over think it to the point we end up single maybe forever.dunno
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Calliopesgirl
Calliopesgirl●Nashville, Tennessee USA
Oct 19, 2012●322 Blogs●5,311 Comments
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I don't know, SPdspd, I have been alone for eleven years now(We don't count Donovan...) but I think I just chose unwisely and now my eyes are wide open.....sigh
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snoopy4u
snoopy4u●miami, Florida USA
Oct 19, 2012●2 Blogs●66 Comments
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The longer we wait the less we have to offer.
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