A big pickle jar
An inspiring story..Please spend your time to read. It's really worth.. hope to accompany your day.As I know, a big pickle jar is always there on the floor beside the cupboard in parents' room. Before go to bed, my father always empty his pants pockets and then put all the coins into the bottle. As a child, I was glad to hear the jingle of coins dropped into the bottle. The sound of dropped coins become louder if the bottle just have a little coins inside. The coins sound is low when the bottle is f ull. I like to squat on the floor in front of the bottle, admiring the pieces of silver and copper shimmered like pirate's treasure when the sun through the bedroom window.
If it is full, he poured the coins into the kitchen table, counting them before took him to the bank. Bring the chips in the bank is always a big event. The coins were arranged neatly in a cardboard box and placed in between me and my father in his old truck. Every time we go to the bank, Dad looked at me expectantly. "Because these coins you do not need to work in textile factories. Your fate will be better than mine. The old town and the mill can not keep you here. " Everytime pushing boxes of coins to the bank teller, Dad always smiling proudly. "This is my son's tuition. He would not work in a textile factory along his life like me."
Returned from the bank, we always celebrate it by buying ice cream. I always choose chocolate ice cream. Dad always choose the vanilla. After receiving the change from an ice cream, Dad always shows some coins that change me. "When we arrive home, we fill the bottle again. "
Dad always told me to put the first coins into the jar whi ch is still empty. As the coins dropped jingling loud, We looked at each other with a smile. "You'll be able to lecture because of this one penny, nickle, dime, and quarter, "he said." You must can study in college. I swear to you. "
Year after year passed. I finally did succeed in college and I graduated from college and got a job in another city. Ever, when I visit my parents, I'm calling from the phone in their bedroom. I noticed that the jar no more. That pickle jar had completed his task and was moved somewhere. My throat felt tight when my eyes looked at the floor beside the cupboard where the jar was used in place.
My father did not talk a lot, he never lectured me about the importance of determination, perseverance, and confidence. For me, that pickle jar had taught the values that more real than beautiful words.
After getting married, I told Susan, my wife, how important role of the jar that seems trivial in my life. For me, pickle jar that sy mbolizes how much my father’s love for me. No matter how deep the difficult financial circumstances is, every night my father was always filled pickle jar with coins. Even in the summer when the father discharged from textile factories and the mother had only presents canned beans for weeks, even one piece was never been taken from the pickle jar. Conversely, looking at me from across the table and poured the beans with a little sauce for having a little bit tasty, Dad more confirms his determination to find a way out for me. "When you've finished college," he said with his eyes flashing, "you do not have to eat beans unless you want to."
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Susan returned to the family room with the tears in her eyes. She put Jessica into my father's lap, then took my hand and without saying anything took me into my parent’s bedroom. "Look," he said softly, eyes at the floor beside the cupboard. I was surprised. On the floor, which was ever removed on, stood a bottle of old pickle there. Inside were a few coins.
I approached the bottle, reached into my pocket, and pulled out a handful of coins. With feelings of sadness, I put the coins into bottle. I looked up and saw my father. He was carrying Jessica and without voice has entered the room. We looked at each other. I know, My father also felt the same emotion. We could not say a word.
“We never know the love of our parents for us till we have become parents."
Henry Ward Beecher (Liberal US Congregational minister, 1813-1887)
Now have a wonderful week.
@ Waf : Deserve to read. Please look for time.
thank's for good story
I was worried in the beginning when you were squatting by the pickle jar, that you would pee in it.
But I think father should learn of 'compensating balances'. Coins, dollars, it is all the same if the numbers are the same.
Nice story.
Teacher.. Ok class, I'm glad you are all here this Monday now I will give you three words and I want you to put them all into one sentence OK?? The words are Delight Depot and Defence..
The hands shot up but little Jonny seemed very eager and the teacher was frightened to ask Jonny,but she hadn't asked him for a while so she said Ok Jonny can you do it??..Sure Teach said Jonny,De Light was out De Pot was full so I did it over De Fence..
I have 4 containers where I keep my coins separated by denomination. That way i can also see the dates they were minted and the ones I need to put in my collection go there. The rest goes for emergencies!
One would be surprised by how much the amount of money in a containers of dimes and quarters add up to!
@ all : Glad you take it inspiring. It's indeed for me. I received this story in 2009 and I guess I have to posted it back and back to everywhere. I means to me. Since my dad passed away few months ago, I often cried thinking of him, how he efforts for me and my family. It makes me real sad.
This proverb:
"“We never know the love of our parents for us till we have become parents."
Henry Ward Beecher (Liberal US Congregational minister, 1813-1887)
I just have a little cutie niece, not even one month old. Having her makes me think for lots of thing, such as how she will school later and I wish she will have better life than I and my family have. I can feel this story is very true for all of us.