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As for the modern world when all things are equal I would say whomever has bad experiences and has the most to lose or gain. Those who have had higher quality relationships are less likely to simply dive into a relationship until secure that the new prospect is at least equal to the old whom they left and, if they risk the safety of children or personal resources it makes them more gun shy.
So, the answer would have to be 'depends.' If a girl's crack head abusive boyfriend gets thrown in jail, I imagine she might pick up with anything however, if a rich widow who lived a fairy tale romance with her departed husband of thirty years contacts you or is contacted, it is doubtful she will simply throw it all in with the first guy who comes along.
I know this helped like a hole in the head but all things are not equal when posing a question such as what you presented.
But then they worry about what is it the other person feels, and are they on the same page. And even though they really would like to open up, they do not for fear the relationship is one sided.
Men stop seeing women after a date or two if they feel something better is out there.
Women demanding commitment right away want something that is not going to happen.
Patience is necessary.
Everyone has three lives; his personal life, her personal life, and a life together. Everyone needs some space.
Setting deadlines or extending ultimatums only leads to disaster.