Ice_Cream

Ice_Cream

Jan 2013

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I dont know how to put into words what i am feeling right now. I just found out that the one i really prayed, hope and ever wanted can never be mine.. There will never be future with us.. As i accidentally found out he is married, I am just confused but why he had to made me feel like there could be "us" that i am also special for him..He is all I ever wanted I was even imagining a future with him.well he was the same guy on my first few blogs, and after i posted some sad blogs something had changed i even thought it could be the start for us. Am i being played again? Or am i just gullible?

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Boban1●bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia

Jan 3, 2013●44 Blogs●1,278 Comments

He is married???

Ice_CreamOP●Singapore, Central Singapore Singapore

Jan 3, 2013●24 Blogs●109 Comments

Sadly yes..

mtncabingirl●boise, Idaho USA

Jan 3, 2013●613 Comments

you went separate ways and moved to singapore to start over?

Boban1●bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia

Jan 3, 2013●44 Blogs●1,278 Comments

Ah see
I don`t know where he is from ,but in some countries ,divorce is either quite expensive,or a long process ,I mean, being legally in a marriage doesn`t mean necessary that he is playing you ...

mtncabingirl●boise, Idaho USA

Jan 3, 2013●613 Comments

he has kids and she could be construed as interferring with their marriage..his divorce might shame him or cost him more money,child custody,etc.

mtncabingirl●boise, Idaho USA

Jan 3, 2013●613 Comments

accidently found ..he was not honest in beginning either

Ice_CreamOP●Singapore, Central Singapore Singapore

Jan 3, 2013●24 Blogs●109 Comments

If he is not playing and then what? He wants to gain friends? LOL i just really dont know how to deal with him anymore, i should just ignore him and totally move on..

mtncabingirl●boise, Idaho USA

Jan 3, 2013●613 Comments

praying hasn't worked for several bloggers ..i've noticed they all post the same thing ..they say 'i don't understand'

Boban1●bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia

Jan 3, 2013●44 Blogs●1,278 Comments

Ignoring him is one way...or having an open and honest discussion about it ...

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Jan 3, 2013●5,763 Comments

sorry you feel bad but it happens all the time on here you just think you have a rapuor going and poof there gone or silent. One day one might stay the distance in the mean time you can make friends here

mtncabingirl●boise, Idaho USA

Jan 3, 2013●613 Comments

i agree with your heartfelt message..why settle for 1/8..add it up his priority is him,ex,children however many,tied to his job and relatives,you are not part of the inner circle

mikenewtothis●Gippsland, Victoria Australia

Jan 3, 2013●46 Blogs●1,088 Comments

ICE CREAM THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS TO BE CRUSHED IN RELATIONSHIPS ,AS WELELA SAID YOU SHOULD BE NUMBER ONE BUT WEL YOU MAY BE FORGETTING EXACTLY AS BOBAN TRIED SAY THERE ARE MANY STAGES OF MARRIAGE BEING FINISHED SO FIRST YOU SHOULD ESTABLISH IF HE IS STILL LIVING WITH HIS (EX)EVEN IF HE IS SOMETIMES PEOPLE CANNOT AFFORD TO SPLIT FINANCIALLY OR FOR OTHER REASONS LIKE THE KIDS BUT IF HE TRUELY LOVE YOU HE WILL OR SHOULD HAVE MADE AN EFFORT

mtncabingirl●boise, Idaho USA

Jan 3, 2013●613 Comments

there is no such thing as naive at 29 yrs old-simply block separated and married etc on your profile.then focus on your career.. future happiness.being sad is a huge waste of yourself

Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA

Jan 3, 2013●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments

Ice Cream!

Listen carefully to Welela!!!!! Read her comment as many times as it takes to understand her.

virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Jan 3, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

move on and find some one else ........theresplenty of other bloggers here who are single ....and get a real picture on your profile

Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway

Jan 3, 2013●2,822 Comments

LOL Boban... I'm not! That man who was after me is not a good man, not for me or for his wife, even though she does not know how he is...yet!

Ice_CreamOP●Singapore, Central Singapore Singapore

Jan 3, 2013●24 Blogs●109 Comments

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, it really help me to contemplate more..and you guys are right I shoudnt be an "OPTION" or a partime partner , or number 2,3 ( who knows) with him. I deserve to be with somebody who knows how to value relationship.It wouldnt be easy at first but i know I will get by, and in time I will totally forget him and forget that it happened.. God Bless us all..

Welela●Secret City, Buskerud Norway

Jan 3, 2013●2,822 Comments

Good for you Ice Cream, I know it will be hard, but you can make it, I'm sure. Good luck in taking your life back. (sort of)

Kristia49●toowoomba, Queensland Australia

Jan 3, 2013●14 Comments

Bloody men, want their cake and eat it.

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