misspm82

misspm82

Dec 2013

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moving out!!!

Fellow bloggers pls tell me of i am overreacting. I have been living abroad for 10 years and now i am back in South Africa and that means moving back in with my mom until i find a good job and move out. Now she feels the need to use all my face creams and not bring anything back and when I ask her about the whereabouts of my stuff she acts like she can't hear me or gets annoyed and then denies ever touching my things......mind you she is the only one who can take these things because I live with my brothers and I don't have a sister. This now gets on my nerves and seriously feel like the moving out process should be quicker. Its not so much about the creams but its about the principle. If sh could just give me my stuff back so that I can use them I would be happy! I have ultra sensitive skin.....i would love to take a bubble bath but I can't because skin has simpler taste than me! Now she is taking away all that I have.
rant over and Xmas ruined

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Smartassss●Jakarta, Indonesia

Dec 15, 2013●102 Blogs●2,184 Comments

Miss... why does she do that to you? does she know what your have ultra sensitive skin? is she not happy with your return home?
I dont understand with her... she is your mum, right ?

jarred1●eindhoven, North Brabant Netherlands

Dec 15, 2013●2,426 Blogs●2,041 Comments

me i ask you how many names you use here

misspm82OP●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Dec 15, 2013●6 Blogs●28 Comments

Smatasss, she does know all that. She is just being selfish as usual. The fact that she denies taking my stuff is what gets on my nerves the most. Its prescribed so there is no way she can miss it or not know about it. She just like taking my stuff and when I want it back she has that lost look on her face.

misspm82OP●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Dec 15, 2013●6 Blogs●28 Comments

Jarred1. I only have one profile and the name that I use is the one you see

jarred1●eindhoven, North Brabant Netherlands

Dec 15, 2013●2,426 Blogs●2,041 Comments

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Dec 15, 2013●2,426 Blogs●2,041 Comments

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misspm82OP●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Dec 15, 2013●6 Blogs●28 Comments

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misspm82OP●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Dec 15, 2013●6 Blogs●28 Comments

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jarred1●eindhoven, North Brabant Netherlands

Dec 15, 2013●2,426 Blogs●2,041 Comments

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Dec 15, 2013●2,426 Blogs●2,041 Comments

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Dec 15, 2013●2,426 Blogs●2,041 Comments

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leahkathrine●st.paul, Minnesota USA

Dec 15, 2013●141 Blogs●1,318 Comments

well sometimes moms believe they can do just about anything without having to explain, in a lot of cases she can, however have a respectful talk with her, but yes seek employment and move into your own. Remember because you are her child you can easily hurt her feeling so talk with caution,

virgosingle●greymouth, West Coast New Zealand

Dec 15, 2013●409 Blogs●8,106 Comments

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Nicefeet●Venice, Veneto Italy

Dec 16, 2013●327 Comments

If a parent wants respect they also need to offer it to their children. I would feel very betrayed by the one person you need most in your life to be trustworthy. It may sound like a small thing to some , but the underlying essence of the situation is she is not doing her job as a mother to you . It's not easy dealing with a mother who does this type of thing to a child. Don't be afraid to put your cards on the table with her , and don't ever do it to your own kids , it's a good lesson for you to take note of for your own happy future as a mother one day. Nothing in life is really bad if you can learn something from it . Maybe she just wants to be alone , and she's manipulating the situation to make you leave . Selfish exists , it's the not getting hurt by it , that's up to you to deal with. Good luck with your mum , and good luck to you as well I hope you can resolve it without bitterness .

misspm82OP●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Dec 16, 2013●6 Blogs●28 Comments

Thanks guys. Its tough for me because I lived my own life for such a long time. I feel like all she needs to do is just ask and bring it back and that's just about it. I feel like to save myself from a situation where I will lose respect for her, its better that I move out. She is really taking advantage.

Catfoot●Around here, Western Cape South Africa

Dec 16, 2013●616 Blogs●16,678 Comments

Frankly
I don't understand the problem here. You had been away for 10 years and now you're back in your mother's house. She had opened her house to you while she still has some of your siblings in the house.

You say you are unemployed and probably contributing nothing to the household. Come on girl.

Be a loving daughter and give her some of your face creams. She is probably battling too much to keep a roof over your heads to buy her own.

misspm82OP●Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Dec 17, 2013●6 Blogs●28 Comments

I do contribute to the household. I have money to move but I need more money coming in to be able to move out into a place where I will be comfortable. Its not so much about the face cream its about the invasion on privacy and someone taking the stuff that you need the most. I have to take allegex if the sun is too hot so I do need the creams. I have to go and view some flat and home my little income can cover me for a while. I do work in sales but I just wanted something much better so that I can be comfortable. Thanks guys for the advice, ideas and opinions.

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