Being a woman.....

A lot of men act like they are doing a woman a favour by asking for her hand in marriage but lets think about this :
She changes her name. Changes her home. Leaves her family. Move in with you. Builds a home with you. Gets pregnant for you. Bears children for you. Pregnancy destroys her body, she get fat. Almost give up in the labour room due to the unexplainable pain. Even the kids she delivers bear your name. Till the day she dies. Everything she does benefits you, so who is really doing who a favour?

Dear men... appreciate your wife today because it is not easy to be a woman

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there are self-centred men. there are selfish women too. i will not go into that debate or blame game or whatever. i am disagreeing ( and that too for the sake of an intellelectual discussion ) on "bears children for you". a woman does not have a baby just because her husband wants it. she wants to enjoy motherhood too.

i also do not agree with "pregnancy destroys her body, she gets fat". such statements project wonderful events like pregnancy in a negative light which is totally illogical and unjustified.
I`ll appreciate all women ...as long as they stay away from driving cars
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Hiii behaan..
Wanna see nice n ur blog. ... like nd read n ur blog daily..keep it like this.. where u will be getting these life oriented articles. .
Dear All.... I found this from an article that I got from someone. I, myself don't really agree with what it said.
I accept his hand in marriage bcos of LOVE...
I proud I carry his surname, carry his baby, I am happy to live with him and serve him as my husband, someone I really love...
since my man did not appreciate what I did, sooo I dumb him
grin
In South Africa the Law states that if your first wife gives you 'permission' then you may marry another or second wife. Now some guys might marry the first for love etc and the second for financial gain. laugh Its hard enough with one, just can't imagine 2.. wow moping
But Smarty
It now sounds as if you think you'd be doing him a favour by saying yes.grin

Maybe I misunderstand the concept of marriage. I thought it was a mutual agreement between to persons in love wanting to share their lives with each other.confused dunno
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Lukeon;I know that honest men can't handle more than 1 women and I just wonder is there anywhere law that women can marry few men ? One can bake cake, second chop logs... rolling on the floor laughing
I agree with you totally!! Its all so true. Well said thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Prenge, you need to read more on Common-Law and why most states in America threw it out a long time ago. Yes, what you write is true. Women lost all ownership rights under Common-Law once they married. Many of the marriages were arranged marriages where a large Dowry had to be paid to the parents. Likewise under Common-Law a thing called 'rule of thumb' existed. That meant the man could beat the woman with a stick any time he felt like it, BUT the stick could be no thicker than the man's thumb. Also in rural areas many wives disappeared frequently. When asked husband's reported they caught a fever and died over the winter. There were no autopsies in those days. Instead some men would just order a new wife from a newspaper ad, mail-order brides they were called. Countries shipped them by the boat load to early America. Many disappeared without a trace.

For an unknown reason many women didn't like Common-Law and once suffrage gave them the vote, it disappeared as it should have.
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