"A VERY THIN LINE HERE"

If someone does something to you that you would have never done to them...and this person was truly sorry......would you accept that or would it be over then and there??...(Its said that the 1st cut is the deepest)and then theres(1st time its shame on them..the 2nd time its shame on you.....Where are you on this?....Its seems to be a very thin line here.....
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you may lie one time to but i knew someone who lie he will do more hmmm
so i try people first thumbs up
and if i not trust i drop them and ignore them
That's what I think. They will do it again etc. Just a matter of time. Move on when you've had enough! peace
so i did drop a lot in here thumbs up
First time,accept the I'm sorry,second time,I would really think wasn't the first time sorry good enough.I would give the boot in my opinion.dancing
Show pity I beg you. We have today been struck down
by fortune, But tomorrow it may be thir own turn to die.

Live long and walk good..
peace peace
It would all depend on what it was they did to me that I wouldn't do to them kinda thing.
I was always taught to forgive....but also learned never to forget...we face trials of deception, unkindness through all circles in our daily living, sometimes easier if not emotionally connected to that person to let go, but also everything happens for a reason, people enter your life for a reason and leave for a reason, or you make them leave for a reason....teachings on both sides whether......not a thin line....its a desire we have inside ourselves to choose how strong we are and what we can handle....."If whatever you do, letting go of someone, or holding on to them for their wrong doings, we can only enrich ourselves either way.....we both learn a success is not failure and a failure in always a success"


I just made that up rolling on the floor laughing
Hiya Nam...I guess I'm a little different in that I prefer to forgive...not for what is done but for me as a person...I divorced my ex husband almost 16 yrs ago( we were married 15 yr)...I decided to remain friends and not be enemies.. it's not conventional but it's better that way... head banger
Some really good views stated on here, in my opinion....I do believe in forgiving whether it is asked for or not...like Butter, I don't necessarily forget...in that sometimes you have to keep your guard up, but it really only hurts you if you hold on to a grudge this is my thought....the way I strive to live.....handshake hug
Not everyone is able to forgive for whatever reason, their past experience?
What ever I have found that when not forgiving someone it is you yourself who pay the price, for not having peace in your heart.


Let it go, life is much too short too hold grudges.
When we look at all the trouble going on in the world it looks like our own resentments etc, are so trivial.

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Good advices are given, hope your day is goodwine wine
Hi Nam, I know I am late on this blog...so maybe you won`t see this and that is ok but feel I will just share my thoughts anyway.
When someone does something to hurt you.. it does just that it hurts..sometimes very deeply. What do we do about it is our choice. They have chosen to hurt you, maybe not intentionally but they have hurt you. Next step is ... WHAT do you do about this? How do we act/react?
Forgiveness to me a MUST!!! not something to consider but something I must do... for that person but also for myself and my personal peace of mind. What if this person then does it again.. well, this has happened to me and I go back to the first answer... FORGIVE. That does not mean you have stay close dear friends with that person.. you may be cautious of their intentions. However I do feel that you should NOT hold bad feelings in your heart, nor look to pull that person down either in your thoughts or to others. FORGIVENESS means to wish that person well in your heart whilst not feeling the need to seek that person out to hang around with. NO BAD FEELINGS towards that person though. These things brings peace to your heart... and gives that person a chance to move on. It may be that you can build your relationship back up... there is NO reason not to if they too are sorry. If they are not then .. maybe you should ... let them go with best wishes... and you too get on with your life with no resentment or bitterness.
These are my thoughts.. Nam and they have always worked for me and I have been able to sleep peacefully knowing I am peace in my heart with no bad feelings towards anybody.


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