TIRED OF THE GAMES

I see so many blogs about this question. Here's the scoop.

If you have an attitude like that, chances are it's probably showing in your emails. We dont have to respond if we're not interested. We don't have to WASTE our time to TELL you we're not interested. NO RESPONSE means NOT INTERESTED. We don't OWE you anything. We didn't ASK you to email us. Just accept the lack of response as a "NOT INTERESTED" and move on to someone who just might be.

I get so many emails my head will explode if I respond to ALL of them...even the ones I'm not interested in. And usually, if a guy compliments me and is very sweet in his email..yes, I will respond with a Thank you for the compliments but.....

It's only the ones with an attitude that I don't feel inclined to have to answer. So maybe YOU need to change your approach in your emails.....just re-think them.

And if that doesn't work...then online dating is NOT for you....

i don't think anyone should be rude and say go to Hades to anyone who thinks enough off them to sent a kind email/flower. thanks would be appropriate. what about people who put on their profile that they r looking for a honest person and a relationship. then they give u their number and won't answer the phone! when asked, u get the most bogus story out there and then get told he is "Not" looking for a relationship right now because he has been so traumatized by a previous one. also, what about the ones who request "No Drama". who u start talking to 'em they could make a movie out of their drama. I back u up man. been there myself!

Hi.. just a couple of thoughts form another guy

I thought the same as you at first and if someone messages me I will always respond back, interested or not, with a thanks as I always appreciate them messaging me. It would be nice if it was the same here, but it isn't and that's the way it is,- I can't expect other members to behave as I want them to.
The lady above made a good point.. from what I understand women tend to receive more messages and maybe don't get the time.
I also have to be honest with myself.. if someone doesn't answer me is my irritation based on their 'rudeness' oris it my ego?

Being honest I have to say its the second.. I can't control a persons response but I can control my reaction and if someone's not interested in me I have to learn not to take it personally,no-one's going to appeal to everyone!
Anyway, that's my experience, I hope it might be of some help

WOW that is the most mature response i have ever seen on here...seriously.
Everyone has a point here, because everyone comes with their own experiences, and attitudes about how that has made them feel. But, if we can all rise above and learn something about ourselves in the process, then it is ALL GAIN/NOT LOSS. That is one more thing we can add to our
experience that will make us a better partner for the one who is right for us...one way to look at it.

I think everyone here has a good point.
Did not get to read them till after my last post.

I totally disagree with that. I am HONEST and I dont play any games, but when I replied to someone that I was not interested, however very grateful for kind letter I was told I was rude, snob, and even worse. So to be honest I stopped writing back coz I did not deserve such treatment.

Why make a big deal about it? If someone does not respond, it just means they're not interested,or they did not like what you said. Maybe you need to write better emails?
At they least they opened their mail,some don't even do that.