How to trust agaiiiin.....
I don't know why since yesterday, I feel so blue.Yeah, some few things boggled my mind.
Now, someone made me realized one thing.
If you don't trust someone, they won't be able to hurt you. Think of putting your trust in someone like giving someone some delicate possession of yours to hold. They now have the ability to drop it and hurt "you". If you never give it to them, they can't hurt you.
Well, because I can easily trust, "what a world if you don't trust anyway?"
The problems is from the person whom you trusted, and yet He fooled.
Yes, out of hundreds email I got here, I trusted "someone" THE ONLY ONE.
But He broke it....
People tend to place the most trust in the people they have the strongest feelings for, so when they hurt you it hurts much more, and because of it you intend not to trust again, it seems everybody will lied to you, and everything is a lie.
How ironic, everyone is looking for an honest person; and here I am an honest woman betrayed...yeah, I called it betrayal. I was being betrayed by being truthful, and yet hurt.
Man rarely places a proper valuation upon his womankind, at least not until deprived of them. He has no conception of the subtle atmosphere exhaled by the sex feminine, so long as he bathes in it; but let it be withdrawn, and an ever-growing void begins to manifest itself in his existence, and he becomes hungry, in a vague sort of way, for a something so indefinite that he cannot characterize it. If his comrades have no more experience than himself, they will shake their heads dubiously and dose him with strong physic. But the hunger will continue and become stronger; he will lose interest in the things of his everyday life and wax morbid; and one day, when the emptiness has become unbearable, a revelation will dawn upon him.
And suddenly, they will look upon you.
HOW I WILL TRUST AGAIN?
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Sounds good....r u trying to give me an idea?
What do u mean?
if people asked for credit in small stores they. had a sign saying is on the wall
But why.....
trust yourself first, then others with caution
Thank you.
I was a bit confused to reply between blog and labor stats.
Anyway, I do not like a man who is sycophantic... but weird right,
from my hundred emails I trusted him.
But it's okay I didn't lose anything, in fact He slipped and missed out something, NEVER EVER HE CAN FIND AGAIN.
Since I was a kind hearted woman I forgive Him.
But I am not sure if I can trust Him agaiiin.
sad
Just once.
Period!
"It was because I believe in woman's instinct (for not mentioning something beyond love) LOVE IS A COMPOUND FEELINGS. You may win or you may not. At the end of the day; it is better to be loved than not at all."
the same goes for trust
Definitions of trust...typically refer to a situation characterized by the following aspects: One party (trustor) is willing to rely on the actions of another party (trustee); the situation is directed to the future.
In addition, the trustor (voluntarily or forcedly) abandons control over the actions performed by the trustee. As a consequence, the trustor is uncertain about the outcome of the other's actions; they can only develop and evaluate expectations. The uncertainty involves the risk of failure or harm to the trustor if the trustee will not behave as desired.
Trust can be attributed to relationships between people. It can be demonstrated that humans have a natural disposition to trust and to judge trustworthiness that can be traced to the neurobiological structure and activity of a human brain.
Some studies indicate that trust can be altered, we have the option to lie or to be truthful..
I would rather choose to be hurt and TRUTHFUL and SLEEP WELL.
Trust is one of several social constructs, an element of the social reality, THAT YOU CAN NO LONGER TRUST EASILY.