mjpd67

Aug 2015

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Im walking away

Had a 3rd date over the weekend with a lovely girl but im 5 years single now and dont honestly know if i can settle down again, im stuck in no mans land

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Kivilcim●., Andalusia Spain

Aug 24, 2015●1 Blogs●114 Comments

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serena123●durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Aug 24, 2015●8 Blogs●57 Comments

Just as Rome wasn't built in a day.. The decision to "settle down" can't be decided after only 3 dates!.. Hell, Give it a while..maybe a few more dates before walkin away (the riGht time to settle will be when the fear of comittment is no lonGer there)

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miclee●Perla, North of the Straits of, Florida USA

Aug 24, 2015●344 Blogs●10,589 Comments

This condition may be more common than people would like to believe.

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

Thats me serena just cant make my mind up never give anything long enough

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itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Oh Lordy, and heres another that doesn't know what they want

Besides, isn't it early days to be counting your chickens just yet...unless of course shes already told you shes looking for a relationship from you???

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

very common problem miclee

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

god Itchy she whispered an awful lot of stuff in my ear just dont know anymore maybe i should retreat altogether and live like a hermit

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serena123●durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa

Aug 24, 2015●8 Blogs●57 Comments

Just don't become a Fossil ..

life is short...

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itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

Less of the secrets she told you MJ
i'm not really interested

But you can't make up your mind?well heres what i think...
i think your right to walk away.. not for your sake, but for the lovely girls sake... nothing worse than a man that can't make up his mind

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

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I agree Serena but Itchy hit the nail on the head with me i dont honestly know and can never make up my mind, suppose behind every good man is a good woman sadly not in my case though

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peonyjenny●Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates

Aug 24, 2015●86 Blogs●1,095 Comments

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In a way,if you can't decide to settle down,better to tell her from the beginning. It cause more problem if you force yourself in a relationship and break up. It will hurt her more.

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#12

It was said as a joke Itchy i honestly couldnt care less what your interested in you might be a good writer on here and nice looking woman but sadly you lack a sense of humor which is a must with most men not that im interested only my view

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OgGoDeo●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●47 Comments

#13

Ah God...typical men....yeer on here looking for a woman who's crazy about yee and then when she falls for yee hook, line and sinker yee are not happy either..

.... Would you ever go away and count your blessings and stop worrying!...

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#14

thanks Og wise words

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miclee●Perla, North of the Straits of, Florida USA

Aug 24, 2015●344 Blogs●10,589 Comments

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"...live like a hermit."
I've heard people use that very word.

And they DO it...
until the next time.
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Not pointing any specific fingers here,
but personal experience suggests...
The divorced might be more inclined to the frame of mind described in the OP.
(Once burned, twice cautious?
Do unto others BEFORE they do unto you?)

The widowed, less so.

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#16

Once bitten twice shy as they say Miclee

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Amornthep●Jakarta, Indonesia

Aug 24, 2015●4 Blogs●828 Comments

#17

Ptok...ptok...ptok...ptok.... What's that? Aha... Chicken sound..

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#18

Amornthep can i have rice with that please

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nonsmoker●Waterford, Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●282 Blogs●8,720 Comments

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How do you know the woman is looking to settle down,
did she ask you to go furniture shopping ?

Maybe your ego is running away with you, Happens to me all the time.

What was the move she made that gave you cold feet. ?

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Ian158●manama, Manama Bahrain

Aug 24, 2015●99 Blogs●1,213 Comments

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You cant commit because you're having fun...right ?

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miclee●Perla, North of the Straits of, Florida USA

Aug 24, 2015●344 Blogs●10,589 Comments

#21

"Once burned, twice cautious."
"Trap shy."
"Do unto others..."
Call it what you will.

Those old maxims got that way cuz there's truth in them.

Gotta admit...
I've heard some divorce stories that'd scare anyone into monastery/nunnery/hermithood!

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pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Aug 24, 2015●2,000 Comments

#22

" had a 3rd Date", I'll call these encounters.
How many hours are we talking here? Your emotions got stirred,
and the panic of our Male minds starts pondering a committed
relationship correct?

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miclee●Perla, North of the Straits of, Florida USA

Aug 24, 2015●344 Blogs●10,589 Comments

#23

It's not a uniquely "Male Mindset".

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

#24

Oh Lord - I just misspelt "lecture" in my last post!! (smack on back of hand)!

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#25

Heard a few stories myself Miclee im a normal fella not out to intentionally hurt or upset any female maybe im thinking the worst already and should just see what happens ps im not an attention seeker like a few ive met time wll tell what happens thanks for your comments anyways

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#26

close encounters of the female kind p59

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miclee●Perla, North of the Straits of, Florida USA

Aug 24, 2015●344 Blogs●10,589 Comments

#27

Shouldn't admit such things, pc...
I assumed it was intentional & you were being cleverly colloquial.

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#28

daddy day care pieceofcake no babies my nappy changing days are over

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#29

you forgot the e pieceofcake but whats an e amongst friends

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Cocheta●unknown, Western Cape South Africa

Aug 24, 2015●2 Blogs●639 Comments

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Thank you for the insights guys

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pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Aug 24, 2015●2,000 Comments

#31

I know, like teenage Boys.

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Amornthep●Jakarta, Indonesia

Aug 24, 2015●4 Blogs●828 Comments

#32

look like that women scary you.... any photo of your date?

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pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Aug 24, 2015●2,000 Comments

#33

Fear of a relationship, is a possibility.

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

#34

Mj - think I'll pass! I'll stick with the wine and cigarette!!

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#35

wine oh yuk im a lager lout

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OgGoDeo●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●47 Comments

#36

I actually agree with what the OP is referring to here.....in my opinion most of us on here don't have a clue what we are looking for....we are not happy when somebody shows us too much attention and we are not happy when they don't....everybody having a read to see what everybody else is thinking but not too many willing to put their words into action!....good to see some honest comments though from real people.......

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pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Aug 24, 2015●2,000 Comments

#37

True that. We only know what we don't want.

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miclee●Perla, North of the Straits of, Florida USA

Aug 24, 2015●344 Blogs●10,589 Comments

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#39

ah now itchy you know your a good writer less of your bull now

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 24, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#40

I prefer this one Itchywitch do you fancy a duet

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