mjpd67

Aug 2015

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A girl goes to a bar by herself

What do guys think ? have had this conversation with some single ladies lately

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Amornthep●Jakarta, Indonesia

Aug 25, 2015●4 Blogs●828 Comments

Bar? Sorry dear, too busy for going there...

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

I would never go to a pub by myself. It is unfortunate but women on their own in a pub are a target for every drunk and likely lad in the vicinity. They seem to think that she is just there for one thing only. My brother was separated a couple of years after me and I used to envy him because he could go to his local and meet people. I wish it were different.

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

But its 2015 poc ?

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LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Aug 25, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

Not a bar but I've no problem with going to a pub or restaurant by myself.

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

It makes no odds Mj. Honestly, if you see a girl on her own in a pub, what do you and your friends think? Honest answer!

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

Bar and pub is the same here Lucy. I know a lot of women who would not sit in a pub all night on their own.

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Ccincy●Cincinnati, Ohio USA

Aug 25, 2015●1 Blogs●3,385 Comments

I have to agree with Pieceofcake on this one.

I'll never forget the time when I was young and I was on my way home from work and my car decided to breakdown for some reason.

It was late on the evening and no other business was still open except for a bar.

I had no choice but go there to use their phone.I had no more walked in the door and several men turned around and watching my every move.I was scared and hightailed it out of there.

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Titania48●Carlisle, Cumbria, England UK

Aug 25, 2015●230 Comments

I gave up years ago worrying about what people think of me, they can think bad even if I don't move out of the house, like Mj said, it is 2015, thank the lord.

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LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Aug 25, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

I wouldn't feel comfortable sitting in a bar or pub all night even if I was with someone. Too boring! But I have been in many pubs in Europe by myself and on a few occasions have had to tell someone to take a flying leap, but I usually leave before things start to get raucous.

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

#10

It's not the worry about what people think Titania, it's the consequences of that thinking - as in - being approached by guys thinking that you are fair game.

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Titania48●Carlisle, Cumbria, England UK

Aug 25, 2015●230 Comments

#11

Most bars in America are not like Uk, men look at a woman like they never saw one before. I never go out drinking alone anyhow, but if I needed to go into a pub, I would walk in with my head held high.

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Titania48●Carlisle, Cumbria, England UK

Aug 25, 2015●230 Comments

#12

I can handle men, they soon find out I ain't fair game.

No thats not me frustratetd, that's me doing a mean head butt. hehehe

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Titania48●Carlisle, Cumbria, England UK

Aug 25, 2015●230 Comments

#13

A man who keeps his hands to himself, is the man who gets the woman.

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#14

Never had a problem getting a woman t48 its keeping them is the problem

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#15

ouch poc

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LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Aug 25, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

#16

Very funny, Piece!

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#17

this is a serious blog solemente

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

#18

The blogger never returned Sol, so we took over!!

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

#19

Oops, wrong blog - sorry Mj - must be the drink!!

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#20

your outta your tree POC can i have what your drinking

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#21

Hi Molly

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

#22

Molly. I think that a local in a small community is probably ok, because most people will know each other. But, a large town or city is a different kettle of fish. Must get one of those signs Molly.

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

#24

I hope that is not for my benefit Mj!!

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#25

just for you POC

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OgGoDeo●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●47 Comments

#26

I don't think fellas nowadays think there is anything strange about a woman being in a bar on her own....it only shows that they are confident and independent....also makes it a little less intimidating for a fella if he sees a woman he fancies who is not surrounded by a crowd of other women.....would make it less embarrassing for him anyway if she tells him to clear off if nothing else!...

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pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Aug 25, 2015●2,000 Comments

#27

Here, you never see Women go to bar by herself, for the
same reasons already mentioned. Usually they go as a pair or
more. The Bars here are a lot less community oriented as well.
A double edged sword really, I would not even engage a Women
who is with someone else.

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LucyMaud●unknown, Alberta Canada

Aug 25, 2015●1 Blogs●657 Comments

#28

Pedal, I agree. Bars here are a different animal...pick-up joints. Not for friendly chatting.

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pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Aug 25, 2015●2,000 Comments

#29

I only go for a Pint every few months, and I live within 200
yards of at least 12 of them?

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Pieceacake●Cavan, Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●2 Blogs●543 Comments

#30

Mj, what did the women you spoke to say about it?

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 25, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#31

That men stare and gawk at them and they feel uncomfortable entering a pub alone

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LonelyfromAfrica●Darlaston, Western Cape South Africa

Aug 25, 2015●37 Blogs●302 Comments

#32

In SA, many pubs also have a dancing area. I like dancing... I am also independent and street wise... do not need to sit alone at my house only because I do not have a group or partner to go with me. There were many occasions where I went alone, partied (danced) until 5 am the next morning and got sober and alone back at my own house. Great times...these days I do more festivals and art gatherings than pubs and dancing on my own...but I can't see anything wrong with it...

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mjpd67OP●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 26, 2015●6 Blogs●171 Comments

#33

Im not here to ruffle anyones feathers god forbid

Itchys grand shes probably just fed up being grounded with her broomstick but hopefully shes whizzing around the place today as the weather has picked up

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itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Aug 26, 2015●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

#34

Aw thanks music" i'v only just now seen your post

for you

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musicfreak●Paradise City, British Columbia Canada

Aug 26, 2015●896 Comments

#35

@Itchy You're welcome. Thanks for the flowers!

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