"IN SEARCH OF"

What A Crock Of Crap That Most Women(And Some Men) Come Up With
And Unfortunately...They Believe
They Have To Always Blame "ALL MEN" For Whats Happened To Them In Life
Maybe Its Because Of Their True Life Experiences?
Maybe Its Because Theyve Made All The Wrong Decisions?
Maybe Its Because They Picked The Brawn And Not The Brain?
Maybe The Money That This MAN Had Decided For Them?
Maybe They fell For The "Sweet Talk?"
Maybe They Were Desparate..And Desparation Took Over?
Maybe They Were Afraid Of Being Alone?
There Are Some Genuine Nice Decent Guys Out There
Please Dont Use The Word "ALL"
As You Are Putting US In The That Sorry Lot Of Men That Most You Women Decided Upon
I Would Come Home and Find A Man In The House On A Few Occasions
And I Still Clung On Because I Didnt Want To be Alone..After She Said It Wouldnt Happen Again(No..They Werent In Bed)...
The Final Straw Was When She Took Off With My 9 Month Old Son
And Cleaned Out The House
I Was Lucky To Find My Son The Next Day And Get Custody of Him
Otherwise..Im Probably Not Here Writing This Today
And I Dont Go Around Condemning Every Woman Because Of The Actions Of A Few
There Are Good Women Out There
There Are Good Men Out There
They Just Dont Fit The Physical And Monetary Decription Of What Most Are looking For
Therefore Most... Are Doomed... To Wander The World In Search of What Theyve Been Passing By Every Day In Their General Life
With What Youre Searching For
And The Qualifications That They Must Have
And At The Age You Are Now?
What You "In Search Of"......Doesnt Exist



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I really like your blogs Nam....you speak from the heart...
We each have to find our own truth...our own way....right or wrong
Luck, good fortune plays a big part.......
............
Cally
The Future Always Does The Deciding
We Are Part Of The Reason As To What Happens To Us As The Future Continues On Into The Next Second..Minute.. Hour.. Day.. Week.. Month..And Year................detective
They killed Guru Gwriting maybe swami killed him I'll be investigating sir bobby rolling on the floor laughing . in a more serious note wow man and you didn't give up your son works with you now your x-wife wanted 2 much more and more and more no good.........snowman
We All Have A Past Leony
We All Have A History
We All Have Our Crosses To Carry
And We Are All Haunted By Our UnWanted Past...............
detective
The past can be haunting, but as the old saying {you cant live in the future to you get out of the past}.

Yet this could be hard for some. thumbs up
your a brave man.........snowman
A good example of "Bad Decisions"..Is The Song By The Eagles
......................."Lyin Eyes".............detective
Wenny
By Haunting..I Mean

Its Always There In Your Memory............detective
Leony
I Aint A Brave Man

I Rely On My Son

Hes What keeps me Going
Hes All I Have

At least There Isnt Any Lyin In Me...............detective
No but you have a lion in you tip hat
@ Nam,, oh yes it has been my memory of some of my past that brings me back to reality,,doh
Yeah
I Got a lion In Me Alright
More Like The One On The "Wizard of Oz"....rolling on the floor laughing ............................detective
roll eyes roll eyes roll eyes ............detective
For All Of Us

It All Comes Down To

"If You Want To Play"
"Youve Got To Pay"......................detective
Nam,

Lots of "meat" in your blog today! As I use to say: Follow your head....instead of your heart! The heart can cloud your judgement!
jmo.thumbs up
Good Morning Nam, handshake , Like your blog, good Timing for it,yay I have a particular friend whos world is falling apart, and that person is blaming anyone, and everyone. And when I got in the line of fire, I told that person ,before they involve me in their disaster, they should have a good look in a mirror.
There are too many people around who can t take responsibility for their stupidity, its always someone elses fault,doh
Oh yes Nam, I am beginning to have some doubts about some of my friends,
Nam....if you ever find that 'special' person.....boy...will i be celebrating for you......cheering
Nam I wasn't going to say anything and just sit here in my spacecraft.transport


Yes I know there are some who will say that I'm just some old woman who probably doesn't have a clue as for the reason of your blog.But I will say though that I couldn't ever begin to know what it is like to have the life of a truck driver.

But I do know all to well what it is like to be lonely.

I see people everyday who appear to be happy too in my own neighborhood who are enjoying time with their families etc.I've also seen couples walk hand and hand at the local mall just a couple blocks from my home.


But then I sit and wonder and I ask myself are they really all that happy with the way their lives are. Even though they may be smiling on the outside but are they actually crying on the inside.
Yeah Oney

We all rconize The reality od it all
When its too Late...........................detective
Jim

Meat Is just Another Word For Truth........detective
Cincy

What you Say might be true

But Id rather be With Someone And be Miserable Together
Than Too be Miserable Alone
At The Least
Theres someone there to listen
Not Just Empty Rooms to Come back too...........detective
Caly
I Think That Celebration Youre speaking of

Will Be A long Time A comin..If Ever...
And I might As well laugh About itrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ....detective
Oh Yeah..I Got Money Sitting In The bank

But as The song Goes

"Money Cant Buy Me Love".................detective
I think that being with someone in the house where both are totally miserable would be far worse than actually being alone.

Personally if I had my choice I'd much rather be totally alone.

I could never ever force myself to remain in an unhappy relationship just to cure my loneliness.

I would see that as giving up the possibility of maybe finding the right person whatever that may entail.
I tend to agree with Ccincy, I d rather be alone, than be with someone and be miserable,yay (been there done that, or should I say doing that) , I also find theres much less wear on my pocket book,rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
You heard the saying Money can t buy happiness, well neither can poverty,
At least when I go to meet my maker, I ll have a few bucks in my pocket, and a smile on my face,yay yay
Indeed Nam, I agree with Jim. Truth you are never afraid of. A very rare and strong conviction on what you believe in and share in the open world where sometimes stones come falling as big as the size of your truck.

Be careful and go do live that life without you and the many truckers out there, there would be starvation and chaos.wave
Anyway...I Got To Go Now
Ill Close My Vents Nowrolling on the floor laughing
Ive Said enough for This Day
Oney
When you go
Remember...That The money wont be There in your pocket When They drop you Into The Hole(I Can Promise you That)rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Cincy
Id still Like to try being Miserable With Someone
Then Ill make a decision

So
Happy trails to You
Keep Smiling on Your Way

And be kind to Your web footed friends
For A duck Could be Somebadys Mother

And
"Good night Mrs. Calabash"
"Wherever You Are"

Talk To You later on Tonite!!....(I Hope)
detective
Lindsy

10/4..."Over And Out"...................detective
1to1to I wouldn't put myself or the other person through it.It just wouldn't be all that fair to them.

They deserve better than what they would be getting.
Hello Nam...

Maybe it is in woman's nature to to stay with one guy and when they feel like moving on, they start digging up the excuses for leaving him?

dunno
Anybody ever hear the saying "Misery loves company"? blues Personally I would just as soon be alone if I were miserable than know someone else is there and miserable too! But to each their own way...form of misery included! Hmmm...dunnopurple heart
avias Never had it said to me but I've heard the term "Misery Loves Company" said to others though.

But to each their very own miserableness I suppose.
Im Not Miserable
Bad Choice Of Words
Better The Word is
Unhappy............detective
And Its
Good Night From
Snow Shoe Pennslyvania............detective
gnite flower Safe trip to you Sir Nam: Glad you have been upgraded to simply unhappy in place of miserable:...we do care!:: thumbs up joy
Last night I spoke to someone in regards to this blog topic.

The persons comment to me was and I quote:

Doing fun things together means they are obviously already a happy person.
I personally feel that being with someone is worthwhile only if you are happy to begin with.

That person also agreed with what I had posted on here yesterday.


Nam I hope someday that you are able to find happiness.I sincerely mean that.thumbs up
Yikes!Was that really nessasary.
Was What Neccesary?............detective
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