RELATIONSHIP .SECRETS AND FRIENDSHIP,
you found out your friend spouse is cheatingshould u tell him/ her?
if so how? and what response do u expect?
if it was you would u want to be told?
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Comments (13)
I agree what kind of friend you would be if you didn't but again not everyone take kindly to be told the truth
I have a friend that would thin mexa bad ffriend if I keep it to.myself but then to tell her wouldbe bad as well
Acquaintance -no.
what if your friend spouse was hitting on you?
i understand its not your business but a friend? u can lose the friendship both ways .
i am not a chaterbox where is the friendship if u cant be honest?
thats like being caught inbetween 2 but cheeks
u know what i would do in that situation? pretend i dont know and thats y i have never seen nothing .
see no eveil hear no eveil
not everything good to eat good to talk
unless u didnt know then they cant be mad at u.
best way out
i have never caught a man with is pants down before but hahah i wouldnt bind though
i have seen where a lot of relationships are destroyed by keeping secrets and some are destroyed from being too honest so for me i just stop seeing things so no one can say i knew and didnt tell or it was me who told
even if i know i am sorry i am gonna play the big stupid dummy
but if the man made a pass at me i will avoid him also
at one time my very good friend said she saw her bf touched me and she was so angry at me said i was betraying her with her man.
now the full story was i knew the man was a like that because he has mane a lot of passes at me but i always tried to avoid him , never be alone with him
so one evening he came home and i was in the kitchen she was in a room at the same time he stepped in the kitchen i was rushing out he must have attempted to touched me but i was too fast now all she saw was that and she told me off properly. we are still good friend now because i think she realize she was so wrong
but i am not a chatter box and ended up experiencing the full wrath of my friend .
her dad did the same to me too. when i wasnt working had my first child she was a baby he offered me cash i couldnt sleep as i was staying with them at the time and his wife was sick i told him no and one night he wasnt taking no for an answer so i took the money and headed for his wife's room where he grabbed me and i had to fought him off only to fall flat on my face in her room because of the force he was using i gave her the money and told her what he was up to .
i had no choice coz i dont play around with married or taken men
sound like a great friend , people like those u keep
When I find out I have 2 choices...
1) Be their friend and tell them.
2) Don't tell, but that's not being their friend.
If they don't want to be my friend after I tell them that's their choice, but once I know the only way I'm still a friend is if I tell them.
She would never be told about it, but she might notice the fact that he was walking funny for a few days