RELATIONSHIP .SECRETS AND FRIENDSHIP,

you found out your friend spouse is cheating

should u tell him/ her?


if so how? and what response do u expect?


if it was you would u want to be told?
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I would cuddle my friend and tell and hope someone would do that for me.hug
wave Redex
I agree what kind of friend you would be if you didn't but again not everyone take kindly to be told the truth

I have a friend that would thin mexa bad ffriend if I keep it to.myself but then to tell her wouldbe bad as well
How would you deal with that
Good friend- yes

Acquaintance -no.
Georgie No I wouldn't say a thing and would keep my nose out of it.
wave molly

what if your friend spouse was hitting on you?

i understand its not your business but a friend? u can lose the friendship both ways .


i am not a chaterbox where is the friendship if u cant be honest?

thats like being caught inbetween 2 but cheeks


u know what i would do in that situation? pretend i dont know and thats y i have never seen nothing .

see no eveil hear no eveil
ok CC i understand u as i have been in the same situation

not everything good to eat good to talk
unless u didnt know then they cant be mad at u.

best way out
wave Seri2016

i have never caught a man with is pants down before but hahah i wouldnt bind though rolling on the floor laughing

i have seen where a lot of relationships are destroyed by keeping secrets and some are destroyed from being too honest so for me i just stop seeing things so no one can say i knew and didnt tell or it was me who told

even if i know i am sorry i am gonna play the big stupid dummy

but if the man made a pass at me i will avoid him also

at one time my very good friend said she saw her bf touched me and she was so angry at me said i was betraying her with her man.

now the full story was i knew the man was a like that because he has mane a lot of passes at me but i always tried to avoid him , never be alone with him


so one evening he came home and i was in the kitchen she was in a room at the same time he stepped in the kitchen i was rushing out he must have attempted to touched me but i was too fast now all she saw was that and she told me off properly. we are still good friend now because i think she realize she was so wrong
sometimes we are the one being victimize and we have to stem up and make it be known before it destroy us like that coz if i had told her how he was then all that could have been avoided

but i am not a chatter box and ended up experiencing the full wrath of my friend .

her dad did the same to me too. when i wasnt working had my first child she was a baby he offered me cash i couldnt sleep as i was staying with them at the time and his wife was sick i told him no and one night he wasnt taking no for an answer so i took the money and headed for his wife's room where he grabbed me and i had to fought him off only to fall flat on my face in her room because of the force he was using i gave her the money and told her what he was up to .

i had no choice coz i dont play around with married or taken men
@kay


sound like a great friend , people like those u keepbouquet
i defiantly would tell him/her wine
Yes I tell them.


When I find out I have 2 choices...

1) Be their friend and tell them.

2) Don't tell, but that's not being their friend.


If they don't want to be my friend after I tell them that's their choice, but once I know the only way I'm still a friend is if I tell them.
Georgie, if my friend's spouse hit on on me, I can guarantee you that he would never try it a second time!very mad
She would never be told about it, but she might notice the fact that he was walking funny for a few daysgrin
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