Why do alot women have a problem when a man tells them, they dont want to ever get married (42)
Women think that marriage makes for a perfect relationship or something... of course, ask them to explain the appaulingly high divorce rate! 
I think there's a fundamental flaw in marriage... people quit trying to "romance" and "attract" each other once they're married. After all, the vows were for "till death do you part", so why make an effort to keep the other person's interest anymore? When you know that the person you love has the option to walk away, I think it probably keeps you on your toes.
I can't ever see myself being married... I can't even see myself ever having a girlfriend at this point. The singles scene in Texas is just aweful. I ran out of good ideas a long time ago, so now I'm on CS... and it ain't workin out any better than anything else I've tried unfortunately. I have mostly women from other continents checking my profile out... which doesn't do me a bit of good.
- Michael ("American by Birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
I think there's a fundamental flaw in marriage... people quit trying to "romance" and "attract" each other once they're married. After all, the vows were for "till death do you part", so why make an effort to keep the other person's interest anymore? When you know that the person you love has the option to walk away, I think it probably keeps you on your toes.
I can't ever see myself being married... I can't even see myself ever having a girlfriend at this point. The singles scene in Texas is just aweful. I ran out of good ideas a long time ago, so now I'm on CS... and it ain't workin out any better than anything else I've tried unfortunately. I have mostly women from other continents checking my profile out... which doesn't do me a bit of good.
- Michael ("American by Birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")
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I am one of "those" who does not wish to marry again. Life partnership, most certainly, but I am past child bearing age, self supportive, receive a decent income, and am totally happy with my life. I am not seeking a man to complete me, just include me in his ideals and dreams. Huge difference so I have no need for marriage.
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maybe the women YOU DO meet are the ones that want to get married....and that is probably your problemo!
You can TELL them that you don't want to get married but in some instances, I for one, would think , ok, not married..but does that also mean NOT to get serious?
word it differently....
maybe say something like "I love the idea of being with someone for the long haul but I DON"T see myself getting married"
hope that helps!
Good luck to ya!
Curvy
You can TELL them that you don't want to get married but in some instances, I for one, would think , ok, not married..but does that also mean NOT to get serious?
word it differently....
maybe say something like "I love the idea of being with someone for the long haul but I DON"T see myself getting married"
hope that helps!
Good luck to ya!
Curvy
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Baddabing66: I notice alot older women tell me that dont want to get married. I respet their decisions. But When I tell them, I dont want to get married, they have a problem. Men can be happy without getting married just like women.
Please, dont respond by telling me I will find somebody special.
I hear that all of the time.
They want to get their balls & chains around your neck and ankles... but by telling them you're not interested in marriage they realise there's not much chance of thatPlease, dont respond by telling me I will find somebody special.
I hear that all of the time.
so that's when they have a problem 
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Zellarrone1: They want to get their balls & chains around your neck and ankles... but by telling them you're not interested in marriage they realise there's not much chance of that so that's when they have a problem
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Because if you don't marry them, they then have to stay with you for at least 7 years to take everything you have
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Sharon and I have a firm understanding...neither of us want to get married. I can see no reason for marriage if no children are involved.
After four marriages, I have learned my lesson. What is the purpose of marriage, anyway?? I can commit without a legal document.
After four marriages, I have learned my lesson. What is the purpose of marriage, anyway?? I can commit without a legal document.
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rasgumby: Because if you don't marry them, they then have to stay with you for at least 7 years to take everything you have
Oh Please...
Who would want to do ANYTHING for seven years in a row.
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arabella: Oh Please...
Who would want to do ANYTHING for seven years in a row.
Who would want to do ANYTHING for seven years in a row.
Good answer!!
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Baddabing66: I notice alot older women tell me that dont want to get married. I respet their decisions. But When I tell them, I dont want to get married, they have a problem. Men can be happy without getting married just like women.
Please, dont respond by telling me I will find somebody special.
I hear that all of the time.
Please, dont respond by telling me I will find somebody special.
I hear that all of the time.
They weren't being honest, then. If I feel that I don't want to get married again, and I tell you that, and then you tell me the same...well, why would I freak? It means that we're on the same page. A piece of paper doesn't make a marriage...hearts do.
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Baddabing66: I notice alot older women tell me that dont want to get married. I respet their decisions. But When I tell them, I dont want to get married, they have a problem. Men can be happy without getting married just like women.
Please, dont respond by telling me I will find somebody special.
I hear that all of the time.
Please, dont respond by telling me I will find somebody special.
I hear that all of the time.
Because answering in the negative to a marriage proposal from a woman is a MAJOR letdown for most. Some never really recuperate and become men-haters and the rest never fully bring themselves to trusting any guy... Not that we help
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Marseilles: Because answering in the negative to a marriage proposal from a woman is a MAJOR letdown for most. Some never really recuperate and become men-haters and the rest never fully bring themselves to trusting any guy... Not that we help
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i thin its your choice whether you want to et marriued or not and as long as you tell the women early on in the relationship i dont see why they should ahve a problem wih it . not sure whether youve put on your profile that you dont want to get married , if you have then only the women who are ok with that will answer you. well apart from the kind who think they can change someone
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I man can be happy wihout ever getting married just like a woman. Why do women have a problem with that? We men have same right as women do.
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Baddabing66: I man can be happy wihout ever getting married just like a woman. Why do women have a problem with that? We men have same right as women do.
Not all women have a problem with that. Find one who doesn't...there are many of us out here.
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I say each to their own in their choice marrying or not,,
I have never been Married until last year...
My husband was before and never thought he would again..
You dont have to be Married to prove anything..
I have never been Married until last year...
My husband was before and never thought he would again..
You dont have to be Married to prove anything..
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kissmedeeply: I say each to their own in their choice marrying or not,,
I have never been Married until last year...
My husband was before and never thought he would again..
You dont have to be Married to prove anything..
I have never been Married until last year...
My husband was before and never thought he would again..
You dont have to be Married to prove anything..
"So true.I was married before and,when..
it happens again,we will be happy regardless
of a piece of paper."
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Polarbutterfly: "So true.I was married before and,when..
it happens again,we will be happy regardless
of a piece of paper."
it happens again,we will be happy regardless
of a piece of paper."
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Please, dont respond by telling me I will find somebody special.
I hear that all of the time.