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Her response was interesting, intelligent as she is an intelligent person, hell a woman that took him off my hands and made him a decent, loving human being, gets my thumbs up anyday.
She said that many people were against her, her friends dropped her, and she felt alone, yet she felt no guilt towards me. I knew this lady as she was my ex husband's assistant, when I first found out about it and he was leaving me, she said that was when the pain and hurt kicked in, as she felt a self loathing when she saw my pain and I had asked her back then, did she ever feel any guilt.
SHe told me then, 'no, I love him' I could only resonate that I had once felt the same about him.
SHe and I are great friends now, she is a wonderful mother and a fabulous stepmother to my children, who love her immensely. I have embraced that relationship rather than feel threatened by it. I gained a friend. We have never been in competition with each other, aside from the fact that her Shepherd's Pie is crap and my son tells her, 'not like my mum's' I feel proud at that.
So, my question is this, has any person been the co star in the marriage/partnership? How do you feel or how did you?
How do people feel about the 'other person?' Many people would feel scorn and be nasty to them, but we must remember that they are people and that they too have feelings, why are we so against people who have affairs?
Purely, from a discussion standpoint. I am genuinely interested.