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Mar 20, 2009 9:09 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
.....on meeting a significant other here?

It seems to me most people have, and are simply members of a little social club.

Nothing wrong in that of course, it´s a very nice club much of the time, but it´s not really what most people had in mind when they joined is it?

Do you think we have all become a little too over-familiar and as a result, lost the romantic element?
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Mar 20, 2009 9:11 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Jan1305: .....on meeting a significant other here?

It seems to me most people have, and are simply members of a little social club.

Nothing wrong in that of course, it´s a very nice club much of the time, but it´s not really what most people had in mind when they joined is it?

Do you think we have all become a little too over-familiar and as a result, lost the romantic element?



I haven't given up...BUT then I don't actively look either...I am just here to socialize while waiting for my SO to pop his head in some day....wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating grin
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Mar 20, 2009 9:12 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
yep-
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Mar 20, 2009 9:13 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
For me it is more a matter of excepting reality, in that we are not all destined to be part of a couple.
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Mar 20, 2009 9:13 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
takeit4granted
takeit4grantedtakeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 785 Posts
Jan1305: .....on meeting a significant other here?

It seems to me most people have, and are simply members of a little social club.

Nothing wrong in that of course, it´s a very nice club much of the time, but it´s not really what most people had in mind when they joined is it?

Do you think we have all become a little too over-familiar and as a result, lost the romantic element?


nice legs grin
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Mar 20, 2009 9:14 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Given up... I joined to meet someone special. It isn't happenning. So yes its over for me.
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Mar 20, 2009 9:15 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
In response to: .....on meeting a significant other here?

It seems to me most people have, and are simply members of a little social club.

Nothing wrong in that of course, it´s a very nice club much of the time, but it´s not really what most people had in mind when they joined is it?

Do you think we have all become a little too over-familiar and as a result, lost the romantic element?


I am only on this site to make friends but you never know when something might happen for someone. People have at times been on here for a couple of years and then all of the sudden they meet someone and they get married. The path to love is never an easy one.
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Mar 20, 2009 9:15 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
Thought I might snag one, but I guess not. Forums are fun anyway so all is not lost.frustrated frustrated
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Mar 20, 2009 9:16 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
g33kgurl
g33kgurlg33kgurlMelbourne, Victoria Australia41 Threads 1,995 Posts
kinda have given up yes... nearly there i reckon.. frustrated mumbling
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Mar 20, 2009 9:16 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
In response to: .....on meeting a significant other here?

It seems to me most people have, and are simply members of a little social club.

Nothing wrong in that of course, it´s a very nice club much of the time, but it´s not really what most people had in mind when they joined is it?

Do you think we have all become a little too over-familiar and as a result, lost the romantic element?

I guess if it happens, it happens, if it doesn't it doesen't, but for the most part it is a good time while you are here. We are able to converse, debate and talk and who knows, maybe someone you never thought you would care to meet on more than a casual level happens to light the candle one night.
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Mar 20, 2009 9:18 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
Im just too durn stubborn, I wont give up till I find the one Im looking for
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Mar 20, 2009 9:23 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
In response to: .....on meeting a significant other here?

It seems to me most people have, and are simply members of a little social club.

Nothing wrong in that of course, it´s a very nice club much of the time, but it´s not really what most people had in mind when they joined is it?

Do you think we have all become a little too over-familiar and as a result, lost the romantic element?



Given up not really just not looking right now.Before I could ever get into another relationship again I want to make sure that I'm really ready for one.Besides I've got some things I need to take care of first in my life before I could ever let a man in my life. It just wouldn't be fair to let a man into my life right now if I'm not really ready for him to do so.That would be misleading and very unfair to him.
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Mar 20, 2009 9:23 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
I see a lot of very hard work going into the flirting here by many people, yet it doesn´t seem to result in the desired aim. dunno

Why is that? I think I know of only three successful couples here in the 4 years I´ve been here.

The statistics are not promising are they?

But yes, the forums can be fun, if, and only if, they do not become a daily lifeline in the faint hope of something happening.
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Mar 20, 2009 9:24 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
The social clublaugh

I've been calling it that for two years already.


Nope, haven't given up on anything, doubt I ever will. I'm stubborn that way.
cowboy
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Mar 20, 2009 9:24 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
USThumper: Im just too durn stubborn, I wont give up till I find the one Im looking for
same here and says so in my profile as wellwave
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Mar 20, 2009 9:27 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
Just before I go to my leaba can I ask, do ppl not feel that in continously searching for another to make their lives complete that they are missing out on enjoying what they have?
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Mar 20, 2009 9:28 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
All I can say is I Never Give Up , cause to find real love , in the end it will have all been worth it. But it takes work.wink yay laugh
I still haven't found it, but hey I can go out still hopeful.tongue laugh
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Mar 20, 2009 9:30 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
vonney: Just before I go to my leaba can I ask, do ppl not feel that in continously searching for another to make their lives complete that they are missing out on enjoying what they have?


Not me because I don't search and my life is complete...I fully enjoy what I have...but also would like someone to share my life with someone..NOT to complete me...I can only complete me....wave wink hug kiss hug heart beating
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Mar 20, 2009 9:30 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
takeit4granted
takeit4grantedtakeit4grantednew berlin, Wisconsin USA4 Threads 785 Posts
vonney: Just before I go to my leaba can I ask, do ppl not feel that in continously searching for another to make their lives complete that they are missing out on enjoying what they have?


I know I forget at times,,,reality checks are needed blushing
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Mar 20, 2009 9:30 PM CST Have people accepted and given up....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
mylifewithu: All I can say is I Never Give Up , cause to find real love , in the end it will have all been worth it. But it takes work.
I still haven't found it, but hey I can go out still hopeful.



Heyyyyy dolllll...good to see ya...I missed ya....hug kiss hug heart beating yay
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