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No, I can't say that I've had this. I have met someone who seems so right for me and everything I've gotten to know about him is great, only to have it not be the right timing for either of us...and so, the future will tell. If it's right, it will work when we're both ready. If it's not, then it won't. Neither of us got cold feet, but both of us got life obstacles that make it so that neither of us can give everything it takes to more than friendship at the moment.
Life is not easy, nor perfect.
Life is not easy, nor perfect.
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yes...this is what is keeping from moving in with Sharon yet. But we are working through my doubts
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Shirley49WV: Have you ever met someone that seemed so right for you. And everything you got to know about them was just great. But because of past experiences just got cold feet?
Just wondering how others have dealt with this.
Just wondering how others have dealt with this.
yes, i used to met one person at online, he is really perfect match..so good..we interested the same things, personality, characters, most of everything..we can get along with...being good friend...it amazing
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Thank you all for you posts. I guess that I have been done dirty a few times and having a hard time. I do believe my man but just having a hard time digesting it. I know I was weird. 
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Shirley49WV: Thank you all for you posts. I guess that I have been done dirty a few times and having a hard time. I do believe my man but just having a hard time digesting it. I know I was weird.
please nice to him..learn to give first...give what you want from him to give you? I think..it really will work for you...because sometims, we only expect what we want from other, we forget, what we should give?
so i only can advice is, give first, deserve first..other will follow, hehe
Hope the best, your dream come true
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moonlove: please nice to him..learn to give first...give what you want from him to give you? I think..it really will work for you...because sometims, we only expect what we want from other, we forget, what we should give?
so i only can advice is, give first, deserve first..other will follow, hehe
Hope the best, your dream come true
so i only can advice is, give first, deserve first..other will follow, hehe
Hope the best, your dream come true
thank you so moon love for you advise
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I do understand Starlin...and hope you and Sharon get this worked out.
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No, I can't say I have. I have had others do it to me, though. . . 
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evilcherryqueen: me too hunni, it's not fair and it certainly doesn't feel good...
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Yes, but ended up in a relationship with her for a couple of years anyway. 
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Red flags!
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rwantin: Yes, but ended up in a relationship with her for a couple of years anyway.
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pretzelman: yes...this is what is keeping from moving in with Sharon yet. But we are working through my doubts
I know how it is and I don't know why we let the negative thinking try to take over. I'm working on it and hope that you and Sharon get through this as well.
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moonlove: yes, i used to met one person at online, he is really perfect match..so good..we interested the same things, personality, characters, most of everything..we can get along with...being good friend...it amazing
Are you still in contact with this perfect man for you?
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Red flags!
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Shirley49WV: I know how it is and I don't know why we let the negative thinking try to take over. I'm working on it and hope that you and Sharon get through this as well.
It's called fear...we spend sooo much time fearing each other that we plain forget how to just love each other....Sooooo we end p treating our partners like the enemy instead of the person we love the most....
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Shirley49WV: And how did you deal with this?
I dealt with it the best way I knew how too. Chilled the situation out, if I'm not ready I'm not ready. I cannot force myself to be ready, that alone is a recipe right from the beginning.When I am truly ready to open up again, I will know and then and only then do I feel any relationship I enter will have a chance of succeeding.
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Shirley49WV: Thank you all for you posts. I guess that I have been done dirty a few times and having a hard time. I do believe my man but just having a hard time digesting it. I know I was weird.
Ah Girl, I feel your pain!
It's not like I don't find a certain guy genuine..... It's like I'm expecting the worst to happen which is not a good frame of mind and is totally irrational. Although logic is hard to integrate into emotion..
Best of luck!
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Just wondering how others have dealt with this.