Words or Actions????.... ( Archived) (30)

Interesting that unlike a jigsaw puzzle, people do not always fit together perfectly. Personalities are unique.

Some are busy, get it done types, for whom people are a menas to an end. Others are more laid-back, they talk about getting something done, but never quite get to it. To them, people and relationships are the end.

When different types of personalities get together, they can despair over the other's failures, and become blind to their own. Or we can see those conflicts as opportunities for our own growth.




Sometimes I think we need to be reminded of how human we really are.

words express,show,even remind of intent

actions reveal/demostrate commitment to those said intentions.

and just like any recipe that requires to be cooked slow the more seaoned it is, the better it will become. words ,actions touches, attentiveness, sincerity, these are just some of the many spices that can enhance and secure something truly wonderful.

As for me right now I'm doing the pot pies and TV dinners
I sure do miss the good stuff,

just a Wednesday afternnon opinion... I think by doing this "day" crap I'll start to see a pattern on my emotional opinion scale.....

dang it Cat. Spell much?

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Just a thought I have on subject, I believe "words" are positive and "actions" are negative in most cases. Example: At Columbine when he asked with gun pointed at her "do you believe in GOD?" she responded "yes" and he did the unthinkable which was an action to her word.
So in this case...yes words are forever and more powerful to me

I'mnot sure either had power of each other then...
they would have regarless...

someone acting out a crime cannot use anothers words for justification...

if that were the case, we would all be dead.

Just saying that whenever something like this incident comes up in the news etc the first thought to me is the words spoken... so then I add this to other situations in life and always see the words as having the most impact

I think often times we feel inadequate or incompetent when our relationships fail. We become overconfident about them, or are not adequately prepared for them and often times we are unrealistic in our expectations of each other.

As long as things change, insights expand, human facades remain impenetrable and behavior unpredictable, we will make mistakes again.

Which is indefinite................

Nice post...



and I happen to like where your brain is...



nibble -n- kisses

The more i think of this...I do believe it is a combination of both. The negative is usually so obvious and hurtful, we don't miss when it happens. The positive words, the subtle hints, the little touches and a whispered loving word...sometimes go unnoticed or are forgotten. We all say things when we are hurt or angry that we regret, wouldn't a perfect world prevent us from doing this? Or would it be a perfect love? If we love someone wouldn't we try to avoid saying hurtful things? even in anger? Is that possible? I wouldn't want to hurt someone I love...with words or with actions. BUT we know that person and he/she would know us better than anyone else, we know the things that would hurt the most....hmmmmm...sorry, babbling and typing as I think...can anyone honestly say they haven't used those things against thier loved one in some way?