Why do you do thid? ( Archived) (103)

Apr 29, 2009 12:12 PM CST Why do you do thid?
whitesoul
whitesoulwhitesoulrome, Lazio Italy6 Threads 142 Posts
You contact people, you start talking, you can feel there is something nice going on between you, might that be friendship, love or just a happy moment.....all of a sudden they vanish....but you see them on line here....but on your messenger you see they are not connected (with you at least...) ....

The question is why don't you just say "I dont feel like talking to you anymore?" why don't you undesrtand playing this silly game it hurts more to hide and treat you like if you are an idiot.

What do you think? Have you done it? Do you still do it? Any opinion in regards? Or am I just beeing heavy and asking to much respect from people?
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Apr 29, 2009 12:20 PM CST Why do you do thid?
I've not done anything rude to anyone in what you're describing in your post nor would I think of ever doing it.

I think that people who do this don't have the guts to just come out and tell someone that they don't wish anymore contact with whomever.I also find that being rude and darn right inconsiderate of the other persons feelings.

No you're not asking to much to be respected.I'd be upset too if this happened to me.
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Apr 29, 2009 12:35 PM CST Why do you do thid?
whitesoul
whitesoulwhitesoulrome, Lazio Italy6 Threads 142 Posts
somechick: I've not done anything rude to anyone in what you're describing in your post nor would I think of ever doing it.

I think that people who do this don't have the guts to just come out and tell someone that they don't wish anymore contact with whomever.I also find that being rude and darn right inconsiderate of the other persons feelings.

No you're not asking to much to be respected.I'd be upset too if this happened to me.


yes i am upset because it is not nice to be ignored..... at least a "F##k O##" ... would be nice ...

And yes i do feel treated like a jerk.... very mad

wouldn't you?

If you have been treated like this what did you do or what would you do?
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Apr 29, 2009 12:37 PM CST Why do you do thid?
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
I suppose its a temporary feeling of loss. Like a call not received, a change of plans, not getting the present you wanted, etc. It does feel like a lack of respect. But, may be as simple as that feeling of loss.

Most people aren't superviligent about online connection or disconnections.

Acceptance of this fact helps in moving on. Those affected by this happening do not need to change the kindness of their giving to others by what was displayed by someone else. Keep on being kind and respectful and you will attract the right people to you.
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Apr 29, 2009 12:39 PM CST Why do you do thid?
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
*vigilant
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Apr 29, 2009 12:39 PM CST Why do you do thid?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
whitesoul: You contact people, you start talking, you can feel there is something nice going on between you, might that be friendship, love or just a happy moment.....all of a sudden they vanish....but you see them on line here....but on your messenger you see they are not connected (with you at least...) ....

The question is why don't you just say "I dont feel like talking to you anymore?" why don't you undesrtand playing this silly game it hurts more to hide and treat you like if you are an idiot.

What do you think? Have you done it? Do you still do it? Any opinion in regards? Or am I just beeing heavy and asking to much respect from people?


People can like you Hate you or Ignore you

you may like it or not,but it`s just like real life

handshake
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Apr 29, 2009 12:40 PM CST Why do you do thid?
whitesoul
whitesoulwhitesoulrome, Lazio Italy6 Threads 142 Posts
Dusty45: I suppose its a temporary feeling of loss. Like a call not received, a change of plans, not getting the present you wanted, etc. It does feel like a lack of respect. But, may be as simple as that feeling of loss.

Most people aren't superviligent about online connection or disconnections.

Acceptance of this fact helps in moving on. Those affected by this happening do not need to change the kindness of their giving to others by what was displayed by someone else. Keep on being kind and respectful and you will attract the right people to you.


Thank you so much for your words.....they gave me a feeling of wellness and made me more peacefull .... there is not an emoticon big enougth to rapresent the hug i am sending you ...

thank you.
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Apr 29, 2009 12:40 PM CST Why do you do thid?
whitesoul: yes i am upset because it is not nice to be ignored..... at least a "F##k O##" ... would be nice ...

And yes i do feel treated like a jerk....

wouldn't you?

If you have been treated like this what did you do or what would you do?



Hey don't holler at me I was agreeing with you. I know you're upset and I don't blame you.I'd be very po'd myself if someone did what someone did you.I'd be really,really upset.
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Apr 29, 2009 12:41 PM CST Why do you do thid?
whitesoul
whitesoulwhitesoulrome, Lazio Italy6 Threads 142 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: People can like you Hate you or Ignore you

you may like it or not,but it`s just like real life


true but in real life you can just walk to the highest peack and shout out your dissapointment....via email it turns out to be violence laugh
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Apr 29, 2009 12:42 PM CST Why do you do thid?
gordy22222
gordy22222gordy22222whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada22 Threads 3 Polls 938 Posts
i havent thid with anyone for a long time ,i might not remember how to anymore
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Apr 29, 2009 12:42 PM CST Why do you do thid?
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
whitesoul: Thank you so much for your words.....they gave me a feeling of wellness and made me more peacefull .... there is not an emoticon big enougth to rapresent the hug i am sending you ...

thank you.


You are welcome, sweety. hug
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Apr 29, 2009 12:43 PM CST Why do you do thid?
whitesoul
whitesoulwhitesoulrome, Lazio Italy6 Threads 142 Posts
somechick: Hey don't holler at me I was agreeing with you. I know you're upset and I don't blame you.I'd be very po'd myself if someone did what someone did you.I'd be really,really upset.


i wasnt attacking you, sorry....your words were very welcomed to me and i was just blattering more about my situation with you looking for further help form your self....
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Apr 29, 2009 12:53 PM CST Why do you do thid?
whitesoul: i wasnt attacking you, sorry....your words were very welcomed to me and i was just blattering more about my situation with you looking for further help form your self....



Apology accepted.handshake I'm so very sorry for what happend to you.Yes I know it hurts and upsets you.Like I said I'd be upset too.

I've had someone do something similair but not from here or in email.It was in real life. I vented for awhile,cried and threw things cause I was mad, hurt ,plus feeling bestrayed and used cause I thought he and I had a very good friendship going.He neglected to tell that he already had a girlfriend.I've since got over it and have moved on.
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Apr 29, 2009 1:03 PM CST Why do you do thid?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
Dusty45: I suppose its a temporary feeling of loss. Like a call not received, a change of plans, not getting the present you wanted, etc. It does feel like a lack of respect. But, may be as simple as that feeling of loss.

Most people aren't superviligent about online connection or disconnections.

Acceptance of this fact helps in moving on. Those affected by this happening do not need to change the kindness of their giving to others by what was displayed by someone else. Keep on being kind and respectful and you will attract the right people to you.



HI DUSTY,HOW ARE U?MISS Uhug bouquet
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Apr 29, 2009 1:09 PM CST Why do you do thid?
SensualVixen
SensualVixenSensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA30 Threads 1,726 Posts
Some simply do not want to hurt other's feelings by just ignoring after discovering they no longer wish to converse with one.
Me, I am upfront and tell them I am no longer interested....
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Apr 29, 2009 1:14 PM CST Why do you do thid?
teacherman
teachermanteachermanMilwaukee, Wisconsin USA5 Threads 260 Posts
this is the internet and by it's nature it provides safety in identification anonymity. one of the things it provides is a safety net for people to disappear when they want to from anyone thy don't want to talk to for whatever reason
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Apr 29, 2009 1:23 PM CST Why do you do thid?
whitesoul
whitesoulwhitesoulrome, Lazio Italy6 Threads 142 Posts
teacherman: this is the internet and by it's nature it provides safety in identification anonymity. one of the things it provides is a safety net for people to disappear when they want to from anyone thy don't want to talk to for whatever reason



And what about self respect in respecting one another? it doesnt mean that because many do disrespect someone else we all shall do it.... why not give the wright lesson first our selfs....
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Apr 29, 2009 1:26 PM CST Why do you do thid?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Dusty45: *vigilant



vigilante


oh waituh oh this isnt the word association threaddoh


laugh
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Apr 29, 2009 1:31 PM CST Why do you do thid?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
whitesoul: You contact people, you start talking, you can feel there is something nice going on between you, might that be friendship, love or just a happy moment.....all of a sudden they vanish....but you see them on line here....but on your messenger you see they are not connected (with you at least...) ....

The question is why don't you just say "I dont feel like talking to you anymore?" why don't you undesrtand playing this silly game it hurts more to hide and treat you like if you are an idiot.

What do you think? Have you done it? Do you still do it? Any opinion in regards? Or am I just beeing heavy and asking to much respect from people?


I have to agree that I'd rather be told honestly that someone doesn't want to talk to me anymore than have them just ignore me. That's both rude and childish.
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Apr 29, 2009 1:31 PM CST Why do you do thid?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
whitesoul: You contact people, you start talking, you can feel there is something nice going on between you, might that be friendship, love or just a happy moment.....all of a sudden they vanish....but you see them on line here....but on your messenger you see they are not connected (with you at least...) ....

The question is why don't you just say "I dont feel like talking to you anymore?" why don't you undesrtand playing this silly game it hurts more to hide and treat you like if you are an idiot.

What do you think? Have you done it? Do you still do it? Any opinion in regards? Or am I just beeing heavy and asking to much respect from people?


Hi wave

Maybe the person has changed her mind about chatting to anyone dunno

It may not be personal against you .

Your expectations of folk on here are high I think. The IM is not to make captives out of anyone , all of us here are as free as a bird . Sorry if you got hurt by someone here but you are taking it very seriously and seem a bit heavy ,yes.

If you only talked to the person for a few weeks or so , I can't see how that would devestate youdunno Surely the sharing wasn't that deep or profound that you were left exposed and hurt .

I wish you well handshake
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