Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home ( Archived) (77)

Apr 30, 2009 7:45 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
caspatch: not only that but you don't have to all dressed up you can dress comfortably and enjoy yourself. not worrying if your dressed for the occasion
True, but still nice to be for the guy to be clean shaved and sweet smelling and wearing his best looking comfy clothes.laugh tongue
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Apr 30, 2009 7:45 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
mylifewithu: Well then if he couldn't afford to go out, you would still call him a cheapy, Would you be willing to pay for the date then if you really want to go out with him.
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Apr 30, 2009 7:46 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
mylifewithu: True, but still nice to be for the guy to be clean shaved and sweet smelling and wearing his best looking comfy clothes.
Just shoes Lela uh oh devil
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Apr 30, 2009 7:47 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
retroprincess
retroprincessretroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
In response to: Has Anyone On Here Dated Guys Who Just Wanna Rent A DVD Or Watch Yours? Who Wants To Stay Home On The First Date, I Think They Are Cheapies Myself.


yes i would be prepared to pay for the date if he cudnt afford it , ive brought men tickets to a gig or concert in the past , ad i meant men who can afford it but just want to stay in in fact some clubs are free
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Apr 30, 2009 7:48 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
mylifewithu: Well then if he couldn't afford to go out, you would still call him a cheapy, Would you be willing to pay for the date then if you really want to go out with him.
she was never wined and dined by a pro she would change her mind if she werelaugh laugh
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Apr 30, 2009 7:49 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
sxc666: Just shoes Lela
Hello Tina, Well I think I will have him save the just shoes for the second date.rolling on the floor laughing wave hug wine
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Apr 30, 2009 7:51 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
sxc666: If a woman really wants to go out, whats wrong with her shouting these days? Throw on the bbq, grab a bottle of wine have a chin wag. Yeppers thats more my cup of tea.
thumbs up thumbs up my kinda of thinking
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Apr 30, 2009 7:55 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
retroprincess
retroprincessretroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
mylifewithu: Well then if he couldn't afford to go out, you would still call him a cheapy, Would you be willing to pay for the date then if you really want to go out with him.



yes i would definetly pay for the date if he cudnt afford it , ive brought guys concert tickets in the past , but i meant men who could afford it and some clubs are free anyway dancing
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Apr 30, 2009 7:59 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
retroprincess: yes i would definetly pay for the date if he cudnt afford it , ive brought guys concert tickets in the past , but i meant men who could afford it and some clubs are free anyway
Well that is very cool thenapplause wave thumbs up
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Apr 30, 2009 8:01 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
bradlee
bradleebradleeVegas, Nevada USA2 Threads 109 Posts
Cougarwoman00: Has Anyone On Here Dated Guys Who Just Wanna Rent A DVD Or Watch Yours? Who Wants To Stay Home On The First Date, I Think They Are Cheapies Myself.



WOW...what an assessment after just one date!!doh
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Apr 30, 2009 8:05 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Sommerauer71: I prefer to stay home anc cook dinner.

You can tell alot about a man when he chops his onions.


For a first date, I would assume I have been asked out. I would not go and dismiss his suggestion and replace it with, "Why don't ya come over to my place?".

So, as much as I like being home, I think making such a suggestion for a first date is err...

...suggestive.JMO
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Apr 30, 2009 8:31 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
FreshFilly
FreshFillyFreshFillySydney, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 100 Posts
A first date for this lady is always a meeting in a public place with a nice coffee and chat. I don't invite someone i don't know into my home until i know that i would be safe in doing so.
Then again each to his/her own....i don't judge others actions...well not always rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 30, 2009 8:43 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
buzzy
buzzybuzzybiddeford, Maine USA24 Threads 1,492 Posts
Sommerauer71: I like a man who likes to stay at home.

I'm a home bird.

Why are they cheapies?

Do you measure a man by how much he spends on you? You won't have much luck here, it's a free dating site.


That is why she is on here. She is a cheapy! laugh
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May 1, 2009 9:39 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
lrrh77
lrrh77lrrh77college station, Texas USA5 Threads 1,451 Posts
ladyfingers: I see nothing wrong with staying home on a first date if you know the guy well enough to be alone with him on the first date.

As for cheapie...thats ridiculous. With the economy the way it is, I always offer to go dutch if we are going somewhere 'big'.
(usually they say no)

I wouldn't want someone that I'd been chatting on the net with to come to my house the first time.


I do the same and agree with you completely
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May 1, 2009 9:42 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
Mercedes1
Mercedes1Mercedes1Sydney, New South Wales Australia101 Threads 1 Polls 3,764 Posts
For me it meant that the guy I call IT rented a DVD with a couple of my girlfriends in their homes when I could of sworn he said he was going to the shop to buy milkgrin

Came back without the milk 2 weeks laterconfused

He often did thatgrin
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May 1, 2009 9:53 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
Sommerauer71: I dislike when a man tries to impress me. He should impress me right from the word go, he did and still does, naturally.

I'm intrigued as to why Cougarwoman thinks that a man would be a cheapie if he stayed home and rented a DVD:


Well I have only read this thread up to this post, But my opinion on the matter is this....For a first date, I do feel that staying home and watching a movie is not only a bad first impression but I would think it might make the girl feel uncomfortable, because she doesn't really even know the man yet, and like Ambose said, most guys that would do that are only wanting that home court advantage, and is going to try to make a move almost as soon as the movie starts... Plus many relationships dull at least a little as time goes on, and if that is the highest point, well ladies it your life....laugh cheers
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May 1, 2009 11:01 PM CST Guys Who Just Wanna Stay Home
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Personally I prefer a "roadtrip". I have a 4WD and the back country of Arizona is unique in my weird head. I usually like to end up at the Rock Springs Cafe in Rock Springs, AZ. it is an old stage stop from the 1800's and they have very good food and homemade pies..grin

Be an "Old Buzzard", I still believe it appropriate to ask her where she would like to go & what she would like to do..dunno
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