Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men ( Archived) (147)

May 8, 2009 9:46 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
He says all the right things at the right time. It’s hard to think someone is a scum when they are telling you that you are pretty, and smart, and that they really, really like you. A smooth talker can make you believe that even your closest friends are wrong.


He does small things that make you think he cares. However, if you start to notice, these small gestures don’t really cost him very much.


He is good looking. You feel really good about being in the arm of a man who turns heads. Who does not want to have the hottest boyfriend around? But there is more to a relationship than looks.


You do not want to be the only single one in your group of friends. If everyone else is married or seeing someone, you don’t want to feel left out or be the third wheel.


Your friend set you up on a blind date, and now you feel like you owe it to them to keep dating him.


You are thirty (or some other magic age) and feel like it is time to settle down. Do not let age define you, and do not settle for someone just because you feel like you should be married.


You do not think anyone else is interested. Again, this is a very bad excuse for staying with someone. Do not let yourself fall for someone just because you do not think there is someone better out there.


Being with someone who is not quite right is better than being alone. Do not let yourself think this -- you deserve to be with someone who makes you completely happy.


He is not right, but I can change him! Oh, sweetie no, you really cannot change him even if you tried. If he is wrong for you, he is wrong for you. Move on before you find yourself so far into him that getting out simply becomes very difficult.
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May 8, 2009 9:49 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
sometimes were just plain stupid frustrated cheers grin
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May 8, 2009 9:51 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
sasseez: sometimes were just plain stupid


blinded with those sweet words.
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May 8, 2009 9:52 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
sasseez: sometimes were just plain stupid
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May 8, 2009 9:56 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
You listed many reasons why I am NOT in love....or with someone at present. If it's not right, it's not right. Simple concept, isn't it? I'd rather be alone than to have a relationship that isn't based on reality, love, honesty (and being with someone because "it's better than being alone" is a very dishonest approach) and a complete acceptance of the man, as I would want from him. No trying to change him, no deception, no sacrificing my own self-worth...not for me. Unless the end result will be a complete picture, I don't want to waste my time on the jigsaw puzzle.
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May 8, 2009 9:56 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
whaaat: He says all the right things at the right time. It’s hard to think someone is a scum when they are telling you that you are pretty, and smart, and that they really, really like you. A smooth talker can make you believe that even your closest friends are wrong.


He does small things that make you think he cares. However, if you start to notice, these small gestures don’t really cost him very much.


He is good looking. You feel really good about being in the arm of a man who turns heads. Who does not want to have the hottest boyfriend around? But there is more to a relationship than looks.


You do not want to be the only single one in your group of friends. If everyone else is married or seeing someone, you don’t want to feel left out or be the third wheel.


Your friend set you up on a blind date, and now you feel like you owe it to them to keep dating him.


You are thirty (or some other magic age) and feel like it is time to settle down. Do not let age define you, and do not settle for someone just because you feel like you should be married.


You do not think anyone else is interested. Again, this is a very bad excuse for staying with someone. Do not let yourself fall for someone just because you do not think there is someone better out there.


Being with someone who is not quite right is better than being alone. Do not let yourself think this -- you deserve to be with someone who makes you completely happy.


He is not right, but I can change him! Oh, sweetie no, you really cannot change him even if you tried. If he is wrong for you, he is wrong for you. Move on before you find yourself so far into him that getting out simply becomes very difficult.



Sounds like a poster with experience. Been there too.
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May 8, 2009 10:01 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
jlb684: You listed many reasons why I am NOT in love....or with someone at present. If it's not right, it's not right. Simple concept, isn't it? I'd rather be alone than to have a relationship that isn't based on reality, love, honesty (and being with someone because "it's better than being alone" is a very dishonest approach) and a complete acceptance of the man, as I would want from him. No trying to change him, no deception, no sacrificing my own self-worth...not for me. Unless the end result will be a complete picture, I don't want to waste my time on the jigsaw puzzle.


i once stayed with a person cause everyone thought he had everythig a woman can ask for, (looks, good heart, nice job etc) but to tell u the truth my heart was not totally with that person. we broke. when i look back i don't regret breaking up.
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May 8, 2009 10:02 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
hopefloats: Sounds like a poster with experience. Been there too.


yes dear out of experience crying
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May 8, 2009 10:07 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
whaaat: yes dear out of experience



Sometimes the learning process REALLY SUCKS! But the wisdom gained is usually PRICELESS!teddybear teddybear
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May 8, 2009 10:09 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
You fall in love with the same person over and over again...different bodies, same M.O.
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May 8, 2009 10:09 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
whaaat: He says all the right things at the right time. It’s hard to think someone is a scum when they are telling you that you are pretty, and smart, and that they really, really like you. A smooth talker can make you believe that even your closest friends are wrong.


He does small things that make you think he cares. However, if you start to notice, these small gestures don’t really cost him very much.


He is good looking. You feel really good about being in the arm of a man who turns heads. Who does not want to have the hottest boyfriend around? But there is more to a relationship than looks.


You do not want to be the only single one in your group of friends. If everyone else is married or seeing someone, you don’t want to feel left out or be the third wheel.


Your friend set you up on a blind date, and now you feel like you owe it to them to keep dating him.


You are thirty (or some other magic age) and feel like it is time to settle down. Do not let age define you, and do not settle for someone just because you feel like you should be married.


You do not think anyone else is interested. Again, this is a very bad excuse for staying with someone. Do not let yourself fall for someone just because you do not think there is someone better out there.


Being with someone who is not quite right is better than being alone. Do not let yourself think this -- you deserve to be with someone who makes you completely happy.


He is not right, but I can change him! Oh, sweetie no, you really cannot change him even if you tried. If he is wrong for you, he is wrong for you. Move on before you find yourself so far into him that getting out simply becomes very difficult.






OK ONE MORE THREAD ABAUT ME


yay yay yay
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May 8, 2009 10:09 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
whaaat: He says all the right things at the right time. It’s hard to think someone is a scum when they are telling you that you are pretty, and smart, and that they really, really like you. A smooth talker can make you believe that even your closest friends are wrong.


He does small things that make you think he cares. However, if you start to notice, these small gestures don’t really cost him very much.


He is good looking. You feel really good about being in the arm of a man who turns heads. Who does not want to have the hottest boyfriend around? But there is more to a relationship than looks.


You do not want to be the only single one in your group of friends. If everyone else is married or seeing someone, you don’t want to feel left out or be the third wheel.


Your friend set you up on a blind date, and now you feel like you owe it to them to keep dating him.


You are thirty (or some other magic age) and feel like it is time to settle down. Do not let age define you, and do not settle for someone just because you feel like you should be married.


You do not think anyone else is interested. Again, this is a very bad excuse for staying with someone. Do not let yourself fall for someone just because you do not think there is someone better out there.


Being with someone who is not quite right is better than being alone. Do not let yourself think this -- you deserve to be with someone who makes you completely happy.


He is not right, but I can change him! Oh, sweetie no, you really cannot change him even if you tried. If he is wrong for you, he is wrong for you. Move on before you find yourself so far into him that getting out simply becomes very difficult.






OK ONE MORE THREAD ABAUT ME


yay yay yay
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May 8, 2009 10:12 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
hopefloats: Sounds like a poster with experience. Been there too.
hello sweety wave think she knew my ex laugh bouquet
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May 8, 2009 10:12 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
hopefloats: Sounds like a poster with experience. Been there too.


hi hope how are u doing?
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May 8, 2009 10:14 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
morgan5: hello sweety think she knew my ex


The world is small, u ever know rolling on the floor laughing lol. How are u morgan? any plans for the weekend. iam just gonna relax.

Hopefloate will be sweet out of her feet! isn't it Hope?heart wings
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May 8, 2009 10:15 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: OK ONE MORE THREAD ABAUT ME


Try to sweet talk another lady and your dead very mad
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May 8, 2009 10:16 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
whaaat: Try to sweet talk another lady and your dead


if i dont there is no point to be alife

wine
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May 8, 2009 10:16 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
hopefloats: Sometimes the learning process REALLY SUCKS! But the wisdom gained is usually PRICELESS!


u got it right.angel
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May 8, 2009 10:18 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: if i dont there is no point to be alife


Big flirter laugh who is the next victim lol.
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May 8, 2009 10:19 AM CST Reasons Why Women Fall In Love With The Wrong Men
whaaat: He says all the right things at the right time. It’s hard to think someone is a scum when they are telling you that you are pretty, and smart, and that they really, really like you. A smooth talker can make you believe that even your closest friends are wrong.


He does small things that make you think he cares. However, if you start to notice, these small gestures don’t really cost him very much.


He is good looking. You feel really good about being in the arm of a man who turns heads. Who does not want to have the hottest boyfriend around? But there is more to a relationship than looks.


You do not want to be the only single one in your group of friends. If everyone else is married or seeing someone, you don’t want to feel left out or be the third wheel.


Your friend set you up on a blind date, and now you feel like you owe it to them to keep dating him.


You are thirty (or some other magic age) and feel like it is time to settle down. Do not let age define you, and do not settle for someone just because you feel like you should be married.


You do not think anyone else is interested. Again, this is a very bad excuse for staying with someone. Do not let yourself fall for someone just because you do not think there is someone better out there.


Being with someone who is not quite right is better than being alone. Do not let yourself think this -- you deserve to be with someone who makes you completely happy.


He is not right, but I can change him! Oh, sweetie no, you really cannot change him even if you tried. If he is wrong for you, he is wrong for you. Move on before you find yourself so far into him that getting out simply becomes very difficult.
and why men fall in love wth wrong women?confused
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