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fobriencork, Cork Ireland3 Threads 24 Postsno offence to any one,but why is it women can have nice men who treat them good and love them to bits,yet go for men who treat them bad or hit them.i have known a girl i loved dearly(who had a guy that was on drugs and treated her like sh-t)i never dated her but told her how i felt(but she stuck with him and was never happy,and in the end finished with him)but was never with me even tho we talked about it.then i dated a girl for eight and a half years we were engaged(the whole time her ex who treated her like sh-t was on the scene)(there was nothing i could do or say, he had her brainwashed)she said every time to people i was the best and that i loved her like there was no tomorrow,yet he would meet her for a coffee or a drink and poison her mind.and she would say all these bad things to me(not her words his,what i knew was he wanted her back,so i had to go,if i said the sky was blue and he said it was black)(she would belive him)and also she is a twin(her twin has no friends or boyfriend,she is also a girl by the way and is sad and twisted and hates to see her sister have what she has not)her sister my ex fiancee is lovely and pretty she has a disability(in that she has a limp and a slight shake in her left hand but she is my soul mate and i love her no matter what),and since last september she finished with me cos of her ex and her sister,i cant say im perfect,but who is,but i am a good man and a nice guy and i have loved this girl(even before we were together)she had some one else so did i(but we never cheated,but we both were with bad people and were in the same place with the same friends.but i lost my love cos of bad people(she would never listen to me,only them)even she would say to me they treat her like sh-t and she was so unhappy(but she would say how she loved me,and that it was me or nobody)yet now i have lost her,my heart is dead,beyond broken,and she wont even talk to me.women dont want love they want there idea of love,and when they dont get it they tear out a good mans heart,or their mind is poisend by hatefull people and again a good mans heart is torn out.so why do women chose the wrong men or friends or listen to their twisted sister,and ditch a good man.any answers id like to know why my heart is broken and why i will never love again.
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sorry for the long story.
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"You can't make someone love you;it doesn't work that way.
If love was meant to be,it will be.You will love again,
you just need time to know that you are worth loving."
If love was meant to be,it will be.You will love again,
you just need time to know that you are worth loving."
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i dont understand it either :(
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X_REBEL: Maybe we should keep things simple and just tell them what us men want...take or leave it...
Not often I agree with you, but you get my support on this one, you long haired lout.
That is for calling me a spinster...
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why would a man be attracted to a woman with such emotional baggage with her ex?
its so sad, but some people just are that way.
you can love again.
its so sad, but some people just are that way.
you can love again.
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Sommerauer71: Not often I agree with you, but you get my support on this one, you long haired lout.
That is for calling me a spinster...
That is for calling me a spinster...
Ja good morning to you too...thanx for supporting the idea that men should get their backbones back and be more demanding than submissive....
Too bad you don't like my hair...you are one of a few women in their forties that don't like it...my favoutite spinster
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X_REBEL: Ja good morning to you too...thanx for supporting the idea that men should get their backbones back and be more demanding than submissive....
Too bad you don't like my hair...you are one of a few women in their forties that don't like it...my favoutite spinster
Too bad you don't like my hair...you are one of a few women in their forties that don't like it...my favoutite spinster
why is every conversation
in the end
about your hair?
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mindfful: why is every conversation
in the endabout your hair?
in the endabout your hair?
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Women only want what they can't have...until they get it.
Some Philosopher said that...
Some Philosopher said that...
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I read your story... come on, get real. What you experienced is life. There are thousands of men and women who experience the same or something similar. What's with the drama? (I will never love again), esp. on a dating site. If you're still pining after a girl who apparently doesn't love you quite the way she said, then what good are you to a good woman?
There's no answer to the question "what women want". Every woman is different in as much as every man is different. Take some time to get your head straight and then find one who's worthy of a good guy.
There's no answer to the question "what women want". Every woman is different in as much as every man is different. Take some time to get your head straight and then find one who's worthy of a good guy.
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if love is so easy to find why are all you guys on here looking for someone(its easy to love,its not so easy to get love back)eight and a half years is longer than most marriages last these days.its just if i had lost her cos i was a bast-rd i would say ok its my fault(but its cos some people around her or bad people,and she cant or wont see it,also her mother died and she is villnerable)and she just pushed me away.that was last september and still she wont talk to me(but she talks to her ex before me all the time.
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..............Hmmmmmmmm......Google search 'Guys that are to nice to Woman'.....that should answer your questions....Sorry to say this but you come across as to much of a 'Wimp'....'Harden up'...and learn to say 'No' to a Woman.....and stop been a 'Yes Dear','No dear'....'any thing you say dear'.....If you keep doing that all the time,of course a Woman will stomp you ruthlessly into the ground...its in there genes to do it,they just can't help it.....
J.D
J.D
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Geezuz... "all" of us? ...I'm not here looking for love and I'm certainly not saying that love is easy to find. What you had wasn't love either in the end. Maybe you loved her, but if she dumped you and won't talk to you, then either she didn't love you or just stopped loving you. These things happen.
Why are you making yourself crazy trying to figure out the reasons? Even if you got an explanation, it wouldn't change the fact that it's over. Would you really want her back after she dumped you?
Why are you making yourself crazy trying to figure out the reasons? Even if you got an explanation, it wouldn't change the fact that it's over. Would you really want her back after she dumped you?
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Tex799: i dont understand it either :(
the answer is very simple. everybody will get what he/she is worth of. Just because you are nice and nice to a woman, it doesn't necessarily mean that she deserves you. she will get exactly what she deserves and vice versa.
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Scubadiva: Geezuz... "all" of us? ...I'm not here looking for love and I'm certainly not saying that love is easy to find. What you had wasn't love either in the end. Maybe you loved her, but if she dumped you and won't talk to you, then either she didn't love you or just stopped loving you. These things happen.
Why are you making yourself crazy trying to figure out the reasons? Even if you got an explanation, it wouldn't change the fact that it's over. Would you really want her back after she dumped you?
Why are you making yourself crazy trying to figure out the reasons? Even if you got an explanation, it wouldn't change the fact that it's over. Would you really want her back after she dumped you?
Ok...with all due respect to the feeling of all the people lywho talk so much about "love", let me shed little light on this "enigma" . the truth is what we call love is nothing but some sort of "give" and "take" which is not a bad thing after all. the true love only exists between a mother and her children and also between god and HIS creations. the truth is a woman won't love a man if he is cripple and poor or ugly, for example.
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i still haven't figured out if his girlfriend dumped and then her sister which o9ne is he in love with
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Actually its both- however, when you open yourself up as a target or as con men would say make yourself an easy "mark" then you will be ripped off and jacked over a lot more in any relationship. And yes, there are women who are nice and taken advantage of by men often the thugs and players so it does work both ways. However, since I am a man, I speak from the male perspective. One must exercise caution and common sense in all matters.
Why must a man spend an ungodly amount of money on a first date with ANY woman he first meets? Such demands and entitlements are nothing but rude and arrogance on the part of "gold digger" types of women. No, a simple low cost fun date should be under $40. Tom Leykis who was a shock jock had some good tips on dating. While, I do not agree with everything that Leykis 101 teaches, he does give many tips on how to avoid bad situations in dating and relationships.
Why must a man spend an ungodly amount of money on a first date with ANY woman he first meets? Such demands and entitlements are nothing but rude and arrogance on the part of "gold digger" types of women. No, a simple low cost fun date should be under $40. Tom Leykis who was a shock jock had some good tips on dating. While, I do not agree with everything that Leykis 101 teaches, he does give many tips on how to avoid bad situations in dating and relationships.
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X_REBEL: Maybe we should keep things simple and just tell them what us men want...take or leave it...
I never thought i'd agree with you on anything concerning women, but you are absoluetly right.
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I have gorgeous male friends that just get emotionally broke down, over and over and over again. Come to me crying...(literally) and asking me why are the women they pick like they are. I just look at them.
One of them I have known for eight years, he gets his heart broke so much it is pitiful. But he picks the same type of woman every time. Last time it was Valentine's Day, a group of us were on a trip together. we're all writers. He curled on the foot om my bed in my room and fell asleep. But before he did, he said. If I could put your heart in her body then my life would be perfect. So you see, it is they way it is.
One of them I have known for eight years, he gets his heart broke so much it is pitiful. But he picks the same type of woman every time. Last time it was Valentine's Day, a group of us were on a trip together. we're all writers. He curled on the foot om my bed in my room and fell asleep. But before he did, he said. If I could put your heart in her body then my life would be perfect. So you see, it is they way it is.
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