Ladies do you ever approach men online first? ( Archived) (112)

Jun 10, 2009 9:40 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
lrrh77
lrrh77lrrh77college station, Texas USA5 Threads 1,451 Posts
In response to: Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?


i do. and i've got some really great freinds to chat to now. Maybe one of them turns out to be Mr. Right or maybe Mr.Right is next door...who knows...but at least im putting myself out there in a safe way.
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Jun 10, 2009 9:45 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
santarosaPaul
santarosaPaulsantarosaPaulSanta Rosa, CA, California USA173 Posts
petalbabe: Yes, I have..

I dont see a problem with it.

Just because you make the first move, it doesnt mean your a scammer or a tart. Men sometimes really appreciate the woman making the effort, and I dont think it should be all one sided, personally.

JMO though..


Right On! Men love it. It's nice to have a lady send you a little message saying hi. flirty bouquet

But don't be just waiting for it sjenner... you gotta work it too man! rose in teeth
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Jun 10, 2009 9:46 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
clara1956
clara1956clara1956Punta Arenas, Magallanes Region Chile37 Threads 1 Polls 1,426 Posts
cristina: I do!

A flower doesn't hurt.
Sometimes it's just to make a joke. The last one was about his lovely poem.
One day I've sent a flower to a handsome guy asking him what he was doing here. The result was that his profile was soon deleted! I think he thought that I'd recognised him!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Just TOO good. Thank you for a good laugh!!!
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Jun 10, 2009 9:52 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
clara1956
clara1956clara1956Punta Arenas, Magallanes Region Chile37 Threads 1 Polls 1,426 Posts
Oh, what a shame!

Kako si? Dobro?

Good luck!
BOBANBOBAN: Well let me put it this wey

am here 5-6 months and still got no messages

(only from the moderators)
hug cheers
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Jun 10, 2009 9:53 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
there is nothing written in the constitution that men should first approach the ladies. nevertheless, men do it (no matter how shameless it is..lol). so women should appreciate the fact that men really take that shameless initiative to a noble effect. i guess what i am trying to say that we men also don't like to be shameless all the time.laugh
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Jun 10, 2009 9:54 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
mnowsa: there is nothing written in the constitution that men should first approach the ladies. nevertheless, men do it (no matter how shameless it is..lol). so women should appreciate the fact that men really take that shameless initiative to a noble effect. i guess what i am trying to say that we men also don't like to be shameless all the time.
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Jun 10, 2009 10:02 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
ALL the time ! I get emails all the time from young HOT babes !
They usually say ;
Hi, I'm Elena from Russia ,
I like your profile, and would love to get to know you ....
Please email me soon at Elena.scammer.ru@gmail.com

I love the attention from these young girls ........doh rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 10, 2009 10:03 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
jvaski: ALL the time ! I get emails all the time from young HOT babes !
They usually say ;
Hi, I'm Elena from Russia ,
I like your profile, and would love to get to know you ....
Please email me soon at Elena.scammer.ru@gmail.com

I love the attention from these young girls ........



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Jun 10, 2009 10:04 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
I was expecting for some "feminists" to come at me like the hurricane "andrew" to blow me off this earth, but, for some mysterious reason, it didn't happen yet...hmmmmmlaugh
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Jun 10, 2009 10:07 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
mnowsa: I was expecting for some "feminists" to come at me like the hurricane "andrew" to blow me off this earth, but, for some mysterious reason, it didn't happen yet...hmmmmm

would you like it to?doh laugh
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Jun 10, 2009 10:14 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
bestat45: would you like it to?


lol....yes i would. Actually, it spices up life a little more. i don't really like a woman to be nice and sweet all the time. sometime i want her to be bitter and murky. if she is not little spicy and sour ( as opposed to being sweet), the life would a very boring venturegrin
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Jun 10, 2009 10:15 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
clara1956: Oh, what a shame!

Kako si? Dobro?

Good luck!


Thank you......am fine(puno srece i zdravlja ti zelim)handshake
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Jun 10, 2009 10:16 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
mnowsa: lol....yes i would. Actually, it spices up life a little more. i don't really like a woman to be nice and sweet all the time. sometime i want her to be bitter and murky. if she is not little spicy and sour ( as opposed to being sweet), the life would a very boring venture
well, nobody has ever told me that i am sweet...why start now? haha
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Jun 10, 2009 10:17 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
bestat45: that one could get you the not so nice response you guys seem to be waiting for


Please tell me than, HOW do I sneak up on that one to ask for it ? laugh
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Jun 10, 2009 10:19 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
jvaski: Please tell me than, HOW do I sneak up on that one to ask for it ?
sorry, got no answer for ya. have to figure it out for yourselflaugh
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Jun 10, 2009 10:19 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
bestat45: well, nobody has ever told me that i am sweet...why start now? haha


you sound like you are always up and ready for the challengerolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 10, 2009 10:20 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
mnowsa: you sound like you are always up and ready for the challenge

well, truer words were never spokelaugh
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Jun 10, 2009 10:29 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
bestat45: sorry, got no answer for ya. have to figure it out for yourself


Want some candy little girl ? devil
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Jun 11, 2009 7:46 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
lovingheart2
lovingheart2lovingheart2Madrid, Madrid, Madrid Spain12 Threads 492 Posts
sjenner: Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?


well, not in my case, i guess....roll eyes

Imshy to approach the guy first no matter how i tried...I just couldnt make the first move...wave
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Jun 11, 2009 7:56 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
amahlala
amahlalaamahlalaAberdeen, South Dakota USA21 Threads 8,314 Posts
Yup! How else are you going to meet people? Can't sit and wait around for someone else to make the first move. If you connect it's great, if not, no harm. At least you tried.
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