In response to: Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?
i do. and i've got some really great freinds to chat to now. Maybe one of them turns out to be Mr. Right or maybe Mr.Right is next door...who knows...but at least im putting myself out there in a safe way.
Jun 10, 2009 9:45 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
santarosaPaulSanta Rosa, CA, California USA173 Posts
santarosaPaulSanta Rosa, CA, California USA173 posts
petalbabe: Yes, I have..
I dont see a problem with it.
Just because you make the first move, it doesnt mean your a scammer or a tart. Men sometimes really appreciate the woman making the effort, and I dont think it should be all one sided, personally.
JMO though..
Right On! Men love it. It's nice to have a lady send you a little message saying hi.
But don't be just waiting for it sjenner... you gotta work it too man!
clara1956Punta Arenas, Magallanes Region Chile1,426 posts
cristina: I do!
A flower doesn't hurt. Sometimes it's just to make a joke. The last one was about his lovely poem. One day I've sent a flower to a handsome guy asking him what he was doing here. The result was that his profile was soon deleted! I think he thought that I'd recognised him!
there is nothing written in the constitution that men should first approach the ladies. nevertheless, men do it (no matter how shameless it is..lol). so women should appreciate the fact that men really take that shameless initiative to a noble effect. i guess what i am trying to say that we men also don't like to be shameless all the time.
bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada1,169 posts
mnowsa: there is nothing written in the constitution that men should first approach the ladies. nevertheless, men do it (no matter how shameless it is..lol). so women should appreciate the fact that men really take that shameless initiative to a noble effect. i guess what i am trying to say that we men also don't like to be shameless all the time.
ALL the time ! I get emails all the time from young HOT babes ! They usually say ; Hi, I'm Elena from Russia , I like your profile, and would love to get to know you .... Please email me soon at Elena.scammer.ru@gmail.com
I love the attention from these young girls ........
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
jvaski: ALL the time ! I get emails all the time from young HOT babes ! They usually say ; Hi, I'm Elena from Russia , I like your profile, and would love to get to know you .... Please email me soon at Elena.scammer.ru@gmail.com
I love the attention from these young girls ........
I was expecting for some "feminists" to come at me like the hurricane "andrew" to blow me off this earth, but, for some mysterious reason, it didn't happen yet...hmmmmm
bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada1,169 posts
mnowsa: I was expecting for some "feminists" to come at me like the hurricane "andrew" to blow me off this earth, but, for some mysterious reason, it didn't happen yet...hmmmmm
lol....yes i would. Actually, it spices up life a little more. i don't really like a woman to be nice and sweet all the time. sometime i want her to be bitter and murky. if she is not little spicy and sour ( as opposed to being sweet), the life would a very boring venture
bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada1,169 posts
mnowsa: lol....yes i would. Actually, it spices up life a little more. i don't really like a woman to be nice and sweet all the time. sometime i want her to be bitter and murky. if she is not little spicy and sour ( as opposed to being sweet), the life would a very boring venture
well, nobody has ever told me that i am sweet...why start now? haha
Yup! How else are you going to meet people? Can't sit and wait around for someone else to make the first move. If you connect it's great, if not, no harm. At least you tried.
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i do. and i've got some really great freinds to chat to now. Maybe one of them turns out to be Mr. Right or maybe Mr.Right is next door...who knows...but at least im putting myself out there in a safe way.