Ladies do you ever approach men online first? ( Archived) (112)

Jun 10, 2009 1:02 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
sjenner
sjennersjennerSan Diego, California USA4 Threads 1 Polls 101 Posts
Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?
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Jun 10, 2009 1:05 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA36 Threads 3 Polls 4,493 Posts
sjenner: Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?


Seldom to never... at least for dating.
Now, if I run across an outstanding wit of a man... or woman, I will gladly let them know I appreciate the effort they put into their profile.
grin thumbs up
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Jun 10, 2009 1:05 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Na I never do. But that's because I'm not looking. I will mail friends but not strangers. wine
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Jun 10, 2009 1:06 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
sjenner: Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?


Man, you really need to get out more.
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Jun 10, 2009 1:16 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
I rate photos.
Some send flowers, with thanks.
Your welcome. comes after that.
Some ask questions.
Answers come after that
Some send emails.
But be prepared to respond to the emails.
They have taken the time to write, so be nice.
These are some of the tools given to us to use to
connect. Once we spend time chatting, emails, IM
Then we can take the time to meet. If it is not to far,
find a place in the middle.
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Jun 10, 2009 1:18 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
sjenner: Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?

Read their profiles before you get to involved.
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Jun 10, 2009 1:19 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
Just be yourself and have some humility.

Humor (timed right) is a good place to start. Women love to laugh, same as you and me.
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Jun 10, 2009 1:20 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Read their profiles before you get to involved.


Right! And remember what you read when conversing with them.


laugh
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Jun 10, 2009 1:21 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Yes I have but it has not been a positive experience. But I am not one to give up....so still looking. cheering
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Jun 10, 2009 1:23 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
When someone IM me, I look at the profile as soon as I can. I will even say give me a minute I want to see who I am chatting with. Always be honest and straight forward with people.
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Jun 10, 2009 1:23 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
drivenbysound: Right! And remember what you read when conversing with them.
Yeah like that time you asked for another copy of me in my fish net stockings, and I said what fish net stocking. roll eyes
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Jun 10, 2009 1:25 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
sjenner: Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?


arhem... no
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Jun 10, 2009 1:27 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
sxc666: Yeah like that time you asked for another copy of me in my fish net stockings, and I said what fish net stocking.



giggle

































Fibber.. scold


laugh
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Jun 10, 2009 1:28 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: When someone IM me, I look at the profile as soon as I can. I will even say give me a minute I want to see who I am chatting with. Always be honest and straight forward with people.


Damn, you're good.



handshake
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Jun 10, 2009 1:30 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
At least, not at first.


laugh
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Jun 10, 2009 1:32 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound: At least, not at first.
Just remember you get what you give. BE NICE!
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Jun 10, 2009 1:42 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Just remember you get what you give. BE NICE!


Yes, of course.


grin
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Jun 10, 2009 1:43 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
chocolatespice
chocolatespicechocolatespicegauteng, Gauteng South Africa1 Threads 103 Posts
NOT I - scared of rejectionrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing but then again everybody is different
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Jun 10, 2009 10:55 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
sjenner
sjennersjennerSan Diego, California USA4 Threads 1 Polls 101 Posts
Well not all of us are rock stars or movie stars like you Bruce, by the way can't wait to see your new action film this summer!

And I do get out to fund raising events and golf tours so do meet new people. OK have to meet a client for a meeting. Later!
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Jun 10, 2009 11:03 AM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
sjenner: Well not all of us are rock stars or movie stars like you Bruce, by the way can't wait to see your new action film this summer!

And I do get out to fund raising events and golf tours so do meet new people. OK have to meet a client for a meeting. Later!


doh
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