A flower doesn't hurt. Sometimes it's just to make a joke. The last one was about his lovely poem. One day I've sent a flower to a handsome guy asking him what he was doing here. The result was that his profile was soon deleted! I think he thought that I'd recognised him!
Scared him off did you?
Nah.. I don't either, unless its a friend or someone I talked to before..
Jun 10, 2009 2:13 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago15 Threads374 Posts
nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago374 posts
sjenner: Just curious to find out if ladies online ever make the first move and contact a guy for a date or just to get acquainted?
Of course.. How else would someone know that you're interested! I mean, guys and girls are equally able or responsible for showing interest in the person they want to get to know. You cant take it for granted that Mr. Right will just pop up!
ApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa1,937 posts
Yes i have.
Why not? If i like something about them i will and have - not exactly proposing marriage and if they don't reply - so what... If they do reply and conversation runs dry, not a train smash. If it's a bad move - delete.
Jun 10, 2009 3:47 PM CST Ladies do you ever approach men online first?
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 Posts
retroprincessleek, Staffordshire, England UK183 posts
yes ive sent to a few people [never been replied too ] dont usually ask for a date tho just ask them how they are or that i find there profile intersting
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
Im confused with some of the posts on here that say members only reply to friends, and people that they already know..
How can you MAKE new friends, if you dont sometimes put yourself out and make the first move? Does that mean that you always expect people to come to you first??
hi, yes i have made first contact and almost always i don't hear back --- i decided most men don't like it, even if they say they do - or --- they like it if you are angelina jolie, but noone 'normal'! its ok! whatever
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I have made comments about men's profiles but I don't ask them out.