Is Anyone Serious Or Is This Just A Game To Everyone? ( Archived) (41)

This is a dating site, right? Are we all in agreement on that? So, with all the threads reading, "I've been on this site for 60 years(just a little stretch there) and still haven't found him/her," or "why doesn't any women want a real man and not a rich man?" or " does CS work?" I do realize that we are all over the world on this site and that the chances for you to find someone that you are interested in who just happens to be right down the block from you is next to nil, but is anybody really looking for someone who is honest, sincere, compassionate, loyal(and no, I'm not talking about your dog)and is not into playing games with people? I read that soo many times on the threads. I guess it would be nice if we could divide the place up, the gamers on the right and the serious hopefuls on the left. Wow, what a thought, if only it could be that simple....oh well...just putting my 2 cents worth in, for what 2 cents is worth these days.

I'm serious about being here, just like you said, no one around here in my area really that's looking for the same thing.

Iv got friends here ,a lot more than was expected .Love ? It comes for those who are open to receive it (I think) .But then you get the ones who want you ill something better comes along .Seems we are all searching for the same thing but in a different way .

Im not really here to date now .Not saying I wouldn't but It does look unlikely .



I wish all you guys luck

There are good people here, participate in the forums , sombody will get to you. Just don't rush it.

I would go along with that. But in todays world this is the Internet you are going to get all walks of life jumping at ya even though defying the logic of it, to me the internet is a great tool for when boredom sets in and am sure most people who are registered on here see it that way aswell NOT that am one of them, just telling it how I think it is that's all.

I look at the forums as a game...it's fun you just have to know when to stop...maybe I found someone through this maybe not only time will tell. There are serious people out there you just have to look....I can understand why you would feel this way but honestly it's just fun. You meet really great people here and some really not so great people gotta ignore the scammers and just enjoy yourself. Love isn't going to happen overnight you have to really get to know a person and this is just an escape from "life" at least for me and I'm sure that many others will agree-not everything written here is supposed to be taken seriously...have fun with it why not JMO