Has this ever happened to you? (25)
sweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 PostsHave you ever met someone with whom you became instantly infatuated & then within a few weeks, they're gone? Then you meet someone who you're attracted to & you're not sure about your feelings. Guy #1 came on strong & left. Guy#2 treats you like gold. Why does it seem (at least for me) that guy #2 always takes a back seat? Why do we sometimes pass up the genuine ones for the challenges?
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That word infatuation ,thats the problem for me right there . 
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i kind of look for someone with character. if they kind of start flaking out on me that early, i have already lost interest.
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sweetowen: Have you ever met someone with whom you became instantly infatuated & then within a few weeks, they're gone? Then you meet someone who you're attracted to & you're not sure about your feelings. Guy #1 came on strong & left. Guy#2 treats you like gold. Why does it seem (at least for me) that guy #2 always takes a back seat? Why do we sometimes pass up the genuine ones for the challenges?
I don't know, they tell us what we WANT to hear instead of being authentic.
I am guilty of that but from now on I am going to say it like it is. If someone doesn't like it that's their problem.
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well... was it here?... maybe the same nickname as in my case :) my? ...or our ? 
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sweetowen: Have you ever met someone with whom you became instantly infatuated & then within a few weeks, they're gone? Then you meet someone who you're attracted to & you're not sure about your feelings. Guy #1 came on strong & left. Guy#2 treats you like gold. Why does it seem (at least for me) that guy #2 always takes a back seat? Why do we sometimes pass up the genuine ones for the challenges?
If I offer you a bite from a chocolate bar then take it away and someone else offers you a bite from an apple and leaves it for you to finish you still want the chocolate, you know the sweet is bad for you and the apple is good but the very fact you can't have the choc bar makes you want it more.
We all want what we can’t have
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I would really be worried about the #2 treating me like Gold, or if a guy came on strong..
I wouldnt chose any of them..
I wouldnt chose any of them..
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rizlared: If I offer you a bite from a chocolate bar then take it away and someone else offers you a bite from an apple and leaves it for you to finish you still want the chocolate, you know the sweet is bad for you and the apple is good but the very fact you can't have the choc bar makes you want it more.
We all want what we can’t have
We all want what we can’t have
Wow, very good summation!!
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avecaim: I don't know, they tell us what we WANT to hear instead of being authentic.
I am guilty of that but from now on I am going to say it like it is. If someone doesn't like it that's their problem.
I am guilty of that but from now on I am going to say it like it is. If someone doesn't like it that's their problem.
don't tell them you want them to be authentic.
then they'll just be authentic cause that's what you want..
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avecaim: I don't know, they tell us what we WANT to hear instead of being authentic.
I am guilty of that but from now on I am going to say it like it is. If someone doesn't like it that's their problem.
I am guilty of that but from now on I am going to say it like it is. If someone doesn't like it that's their problem.
I’m authentic and original, but believe me, that doesn’t work either
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rizlared: I’m authentic and original, but believe me, that doesn’t work either
Oh well, I gotta be me
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avecaim: Oh well, I gotta be me
Yep thats how I see it, what you see is what you get
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sweetowen: Have you ever met someone with whom you became instantly infatuated & then within a few weeks, they're gone? Then you meet someone who you're attracted to & you're not sure about your feelings. Guy #1 came on strong & left. Guy#2 treats you like gold. Why does it seem (at least for me) that guy #2 always takes a back seat? Why do we sometimes pass up the genuine ones for the challenges?
nope..i don`t mess with guys
and you should slow down .....
(just kidding)
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How you accept guys is up to you, but take it slow I think you are going to fast.
See for # 1 it was going fine and left and # 2 comes by and you are not sure. In between you should make a pause, that's my opinion I respect yours.
See for # 1 it was going fine and left and # 2 comes by and you are not sure. In between you should make a pause, that's my opinion I respect yours.
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southmiami: How you accept guys is up to you, but take it slow I think you are going to fast.
See for # 1 it was going fine and left and # 2 comes by and you are not sure. In between you should make a pause, that's my opinion I respect yours.
See for # 1 it was going fine and left and # 2 comes by and you are not sure. In between you should make a pause, that's my opinion I respect yours.
Good advice
break time 
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rizlared: If I offer you a bite from a chocolate bar then take it away and someone else offers you a bite from an apple and leaves it for you to finish you still want the chocolate, you know the sweet is bad for you and the apple is good but the very fact you can't have the choc bar makes you want it more.
We all want what we can’t have
We all want what we can’t have
In the immortal words:
'Life's a box of choklits'
I don't know.
I'm very serious and very intense.
Some people are very laid back.
I'm not - I'm a whirlwind of intense emotions....... some women get scared off, and some are fascinated.
Some people like to be bored - boredom equates to security.
I like security too......... but I also love being spontaneous and really spoiling another person with nice surprises (when I can afford to, and even if I can't I have the imagination to come up with something crazy but nice).
I adored my parents, but my dad most of all.
He'd do crazy romantic things even after 55+ years of marriage.
'Joyce' he'd say to my mum:
'I'm bored.... let's go to the carnival!'
and he'd fly her off to Rio de Janeiro for a couple of weeks of dancing until she'd worn out a new pair of dancing shoes!
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Oh yes...very recently also...now, bot of them are gone...
maybe it wasn't meant to be... I'll live.
maybe it wasn't meant to be... I'll live.
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sweetowen: Have you ever met someone with whom you became instantly infatuated & then within a few weeks, they're gone? Then you meet someone who you're attracted to & you're not sure about your feelings. Guy #1 came on strong & left. Guy#2 treats you like gold. Why does it seem (at least for me) that guy #2 always takes a back seat? Why do we sometimes pass up the genuine ones for the challenges?
Because your women you take challenges and try to bite on more then you can chew.
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Because we always remember bad things...they stay long very long
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RobertC2: In the immortal words:
'Life's a box of choklits'
I don't know.
I'm very serious and very intense.
Some people are very laid back.
I'm not - I'm a whirlwind of intense emotions....... some women get scared off, and some are fascinated.
Some people like to be bored - boredom equates to security.
I like security too......... but I also love being spontaneous and really spoiling another person with nice surprises (when I can afford to, and even if I can't I have the imagination to come up with something crazy but nice).
I adored my parents, but my dad most of all.
He'd do crazy romantic things even after 55+ years of marriage.
'Joyce' he'd say to my mum:
'I'm bored.... let's go to the carnival!'
and he'd fly her off to Rio de Janeiro for a couple of weeks of dancing until she'd worn out a new pair of dancing shoes!
'Life's a box of choklits'
I don't know.
I'm very serious and very intense.
Some people are very laid back.
I'm not - I'm a whirlwind of intense emotions....... some women get scared off, and some are fascinated.
Some people like to be bored - boredom equates to security.
I like security too......... but I also love being spontaneous and really spoiling another person with nice surprises (when I can afford to, and even if I can't I have the imagination to come up with something crazy but nice).
I adored my parents, but my dad most of all.
He'd do crazy romantic things even after 55+ years of marriage.
'Joyce' he'd say to my mum:
'I'm bored.... let's go to the carnival!'
and he'd fly her off to Rio de Janeiro for a couple of weeks of dancing until she'd worn out a new pair of dancing shoes!
That's awsome!! What a great guy!
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