I need , tonight, just sick of this game called love.
Wondering what am I doing here, as I am enjoying writing in the forums, moreso then the men who are pursuing a relationship.
I actually find myself being rude and not caring, not answering messages, avoiding , which is not like me, but just sick of it . Sick of love, sick of believing in all the love songs, and here I am, again, single, and back in the freaking game of it.
Just feel like it is all a gamme. A game, I just do not want to play.
Today a elderly lady told me " that sometkmes love is not enough"
Are we just all here , believing and hoping in a fairy tale?
Maybe I bought into to many lies of the media, maybe it is time to be realistic, and knowing like movies like the Notebook, only happen in movies.
" Are we just all here , believing and hoping in a fairy tale? "
We all need to believe in something good.
" Need Hope, send some."
Hope huh, well that is a tough one,I've been hoping for a long time now,hoping that of the 12 ladies I sent friend requests to more than 2 would at least reply,I keep hoping that the next one I talk to or try to flirt with in a store or whatever will give me the time of day,I hope I can still recognise a comeon if(and when )I get one.
Might not be what u wanted: Sometimes u find what ur looking for when u stop looking,or so I've heard.
shootingstar77: I need , tonight, just sick of this game called love.
Wondering what am I doing here, as I am enjoying writing in the forums, moreso then the men who are pursuing a relationship.
I actually find myself being rude and not caring, not answering messages, avoiding , which is not like me, but just sick of it . Sick of love, sick of believing in all the love songs, and here I am, again, single, and back in the freaking game of it.
Just feel like it is all a gamme. A game, I just do not want to play.
Today a elderly lady told me " that sometkmes love is not enough"
Are we just all here , believing and hoping in a fairy tale?
Maybe I bought into to many lies of the media, maybe it is time to be realistic, and knowing like movies like the Notebook, only happen in movies.
Need Hope, send some.
I have been where you find yourself now. I could easily say it will pass. But I won't sugarcoat it. Love is strong, and when we give it and don't have it in return it can sting. It takes time for the pain to pass. The only thing I can say to do that may be of some consequence is, always remember, you are never alone, many around this world at this very moment feel the way you do. What most do not realize is, when the day comes and they find that special someone that seems to come from their dreams, all the pain of past loves, relationships and things of the such, will all be worth it the moment that the one they have been waiting for all their lives, finally takes you into their arms.
Only then is the pain of past relationships truely over, when we find the one that makes us remember no other.
I know these aren't words of hope, but I hope you find them words of encouragement in that, the pain we feel in this game of love, is only temporary, but the love we find with that special someone is forever.
shootingstar77: I need , tonight, just sick of this game called love.
Wondering what am I doing here, as I am enjoying writing in the forums, moreso then the men who are pursuing a relationship.
I actually find myself being rude and not caring, not answering messages, avoiding , which is not like me, but just sick of it . Sick of love, sick of believing in all the love songs, and here I am, again, single, and back in the freaking game of it.
Just feel like it is all a gamme. A game, I just do not want to play.
Today a elderly lady told me " that sometkmes love is not enough"
Are we just all here , believing and hoping in a fairy tale?
Maybe I bought into to many lies of the media, maybe it is time to be realistic, and knowing like movies like the Notebook, only happen in movies.
Da10th: I have been where you find yourself now. I could easily say it will pass. But I won't sugarcoat it. Love is strong, and when we give it and don't have it in return it can sting. It takes time for the pain to pass. The only thing I can say to do that may be of some consequence is, always remember, you are never alone, many around this world at this very moment feel the way you do. What most do not realize is, when the day comes and they find that special someone that seems to come from their dreams, all the pain of past loves, relationships and things of the such, will all be worth it the moment that the one they have been waiting for all their lives, finally takes you into their arms.
Only then is the pain of past relationships truely over, when we find the one that makes us remember no other.
I know these aren't words of hope, but I hope you find them words of encouragement in that, the pain we feel in this game of love, is only temporary, but the love we find with that special someone is forever.
Da, that was beautifully stated, and it's so true. I've had that, and I'd like to have it again. It might not have lasted forever, but it did last until death we parted.
shootingstar77: I need , tonight, just sick of this game called love. Wondering what am I doing here, as I am enjoying writing in the forums, moreso then the men who are pursuing a relationship. I actually find myself being rude and not caring, not answering messages, avoiding , which is not like me, but just sick of it . Sick of love, sick of believing in all the love songs, and here I am, again, single, and back in the freaking game of it. Just feel like it is all a gamme. A game, I just do not want to play. Today a elderly lady told me " that sometkmes love is not enough" Are we just all here , believing and hoping in a fairy tale? Maybe I bought into to many lies of the media, maybe it is time to be realistic, and knowing like movies like the Notebook, only happen in movies. Need Hope, send some.
I know how you feel Don't despair, friend. Sometimes things look bleaker than they actually are! One day I did feel like you do and I was soooooo down and you know what? I found real love the very next day!! I lost it though, sadly, after seven wonderful years but having known true love I cannot despair and let my mind take me places I should not be going. CHEER UP!! THE SUN SHINES FOR EVERYONE ALWAYS
shootingstar77: I need , tonight, just sick of this game called love.
Wondering what am I doing here, as I am enjoying writing in the forums, moreso then the men who are pursuing a relationship.
I actually find myself being rude and not caring, not answering messages, avoiding , which is not like me, but just sick of it . Sick of love, sick of believing in all the love songs, and here I am, again, single, and back in the freaking game of it.
Just feel like it is all a gamme. A game, I just do not want to play.
Today a elderly lady told me " that sometkmes love is not enough"
Are we just all here , believing and hoping in a fairy tale?
Maybe I bought into to many lies of the media, maybe it is time to be realistic, and knowing like movies like the Notebook, only happen in movies.
Need Hope, send some.
May Cupid's arrow strike you in your left buttock for being such a wimp!
Saw a old high school flame of mine today. He came to my door. Glad it is over, but just put me in a bad mood all day.
We told each other secrets in our teenage years, and just happened to reunite during a difficut period in our lives.
Funny thing is , he told me , no matter how old you are , I am going to find you, cept when he found me, we found out we really did not mix.
Could not even look at him today, I was so pissed at him, but I guess it is better then being pissed on.
Thing is , I was married to a high school flame, that pursued me for years, they were good friends and it ended in tragedy, so I give myself permission tonight , to boo-hoo, and still believe somewhere , out there, love will find me again.
I think it hits to close to home, and will be glad when takes his stuff, I do not need them, take his memories and leaves them and now going to bed, just thankful for this outlet.
Da10th: I have been where you find yourself now. I could easily say it will pass. But I won't sugarcoat it. Love is strong, and when we give it and don't have it in return it can sting. It takes time for the pain to pass. The only thing I can say to do that may be of some consequence is, always remember, you are never alone, many around this world at this very moment feel the way you do. What most do not realize is, when the day comes and they find that special someone that seems to come from their dreams, all the pain of past loves, relationships and things of the such, will all be worth it the moment that the one they have been waiting for all their lives, finally takes you into their arms.
Only then is the pain of past relationships truely over, when we find the one that makes us remember no other.
I know these aren't words of hope, but I hope you find them words of encouragement in that, the pain we feel in this game of love, is only temporary, but the love we find with that special someone is forever.
Saw a old high school flame of mine today. He came to my door. Glad it is over, but just put me in a bad mood all day.
We told each other secrets in our teenage years, and just happened to reunite during a difficut period in our lives.
Funny thing is , he told me , no matter how old you are , I am going to find you, cept when he found me, we found out we really did not mix.
Could not even look at him today, I was so pissed at him, but I guess it is better then being pissed on.
Thing is , I was married to a high school flame, that pursued me for years, they were good friends and it ended in tragedy, so I give myself permission tonight , to boo-hoo, and still believe somewhere , out there, love will find me again.
I think it hits to close to home, and will be glad when takes his stuff, I do not need them, take his memories and leaves them and now going to bed, just thankful for this outlet.
Sweet Dreams.
Well, I hope tomorrow brings less heartache. Always remember, this is a good place to vent and no matter what the problems may be, there is alway someone here that is willing to help you through your trials. Good to meet you
Saw a old high school flame of mine today. He came to my door. Glad it is over, but just put me in a bad mood all day.
We told each other secrets in our teenage years, and just happened to reunite during a difficut period in our lives.
Funny thing is , he told me , no matter how old you are , I am going to find you, cept when he found me, we found out we really did not mix.
Could not even look at him today, I was so pissed at him, but I guess it is better then being pissed on.
Thing is , I was married to a high school flame, that pursued me for years, they were good friends and it ended in tragedy, so I give myself permission tonight , to boo-hoo, and still believe somewhere , out there, love will find me again.
I think it hits to close to home, and will be glad when takes his stuff, I do not need them, take his memories and leaves them and now going to bed, just thankful for this outlet.
Sweet Dreams.
If it helps to get it off your chest - go for it!
I am sure your annoyance and anger can be channeled into more positive things in the morning..... you've been nice in posts to other CS members and you deserve a break yourself!
Wake up with a smile and when you're brushing your teeth think what a lovely person is staring back at you in the mirror - even if she's foaming at the mouth a little!
HDALE: " Are we just all here , believing and hoping in a fairy tale? "
We all need to believe in something good.
" Need Hope, send some."
Hope huh, well that is a tough one,I've been hoping for a long time now,hoping that of the 12 ladies I sent friend requests to more than 2 would at least reply,I keep hoping that the next one I talk to or try to flirt with in a store or whatever will give me the time of day,I hope I can still recognise a comeon if(and when )I get one.
Might not be what u wanted: Sometimes u find what ur looking for when u stop looking,or so I've heard.
I've dated 2 gals I've met on this site. One local and one from back east. The local was a one niter The one from back east was a 6 weeker. It just didn't work out after thousands of emails and bunches of phone calls. Dale you call it a comeon I call it get'n hit on. Why? Cause a gal needs to use a hammer before I even realize she's interested most times!! I ain't give'n up. Just figure'n the third time might just be the charm!!
Thank you all for your inspiration and encouragement .
Forgive me for projecting my own doubts and fears, on you all, but I am so grateful for the hope that was passed on by you all. I know we all are in the same boat and it is nice to know we can row together, until our ship comes in.
This morning, when I was doing my daily readings on my back porch, right in front of me, a beautiful bird was making a nest and one strand at a time, she kept at it. It helped me to remember to keep pressing on to my own dreams and not give up.
I love this song, and pray it brings encouragement.
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Wondering what am I doing here, as I am enjoying writing in the forums, moreso then the men who are pursuing a relationship.
I actually find myself being rude and not caring, not answering messages, avoiding , which is not like me, but just sick of it . Sick of love, sick of believing in all the love songs, and here I am, again, single, and back in the freaking game of it.
Just feel like it is all a gamme. A game, I just do not want to play.
Today a elderly lady told me " that sometkmes love is not enough"
Are we just all here , believing and hoping in a fairy tale?
Maybe I bought into to many lies of the media, maybe it is time to be realistic, and knowing like movies like the Notebook, only happen in movies.
Need Hope, send some.