Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question? ( Archived) (34)

Sep 17, 2009 3:14 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
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Sep 17, 2009 3:15 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Sojourner: Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
If your referring to me..it was a joke..doh
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Sep 17, 2009 3:17 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
tattoedtrev
tattoedtrevtattoedtrevCrowley, Texas USA64 Posts
It's not always what you ask but how ask it.
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Sep 17, 2009 3:18 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
they are nervous to give a simple answerlaugh
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Sep 17, 2009 3:19 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
Sojourner: Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?



I gave up along time ago trying to figure out why some people do what they do.I just move on cause it's not really you they're upset with it's something within themselves.
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Sep 17, 2009 3:19 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
hankjr5362
hankjr5362hankjr5362New Castle, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 1 Polls 151 Posts
Because they're simply "Rude". doh doh doh
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Sep 17, 2009 3:22 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I think its what i said in the men dont like women who..

and i said men dont like women period.

and she didnt find that funny..

I wasnt being rude at all
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Sep 17, 2009 3:23 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
somechick: I gave up along time ago trying to figure out why some people do what they do.I just move on cause it's not really you they're upset with it's something within themselves.
thumbs up You are some smart chick.thumbs up
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Sep 17, 2009 3:29 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
Sojourner: You are some smart chick.



I don't know about that but I've just learned that people are who they are and you can't change them.

That's what so hard sometimes about not being able to see to whom you're conversing with over the internet cause it's very tempting sometimes to assume a different meaning into what that person may have posted.
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Sep 17, 2009 3:33 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
Sojourner: Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
I think people learn rudeness from their parents. When a child grows up hearing a parent calling the other a stupid @#$%^& or mocking him/her in front of other people it sends a message to the child that this is acceptable behavoir, after all, it must be ok because the grownups are doing it. There are a few on here who are very rude and I doubt they even realize it. It's just normal to them.
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Sep 17, 2009 3:37 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
Sojourner
SojournerSojournerAndorra la Vella, Andorra31 Threads 2 Polls 472 Posts
ooby_dooby: I think people learn rudeness from their parents. When a child grows up hearing a parent calling the other a stupid @#$%^& or mocking him/her in front of other people it sends a message to the child that this is acceptable behavoir, after all, it must be ok because the grownups are doing it. There are a few on here who are very rude and I doubt they even realize it. It's just normal to them.
That makes a lot of sense. Poor kids....sigh
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Sep 17, 2009 3:44 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
kissmedeeply: If your referring to me..it was a joke..


reunion

Hows it goin Jo........hug

You goofin around again........laugh

Glad you haven't turned to the ''other side'' and retained your sense of humour......grin

Hope you and that husband of yours are well.

wine
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Sep 17, 2009 3:45 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
In response to: Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
whats the simplest question
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Sep 17, 2009 3:48 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
tattoedtrev: It's not always what you ask but how ask it.
thumbs up wine agreed you should make ur questions more clear ..so people dont mis understand wine
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Sep 17, 2009 3:50 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
kissmedeeply: If your referring to me..it was a joke..


why do you care? devil








wave

Seriously, I have no idea sweetie...
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Sep 17, 2009 3:52 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Sojourner: Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?


Hi Sojourner.......wave

Some people are extremely rude.......I agree.

It does depend on one's definition of rude though and how WE allow someones words affect us.

There can also be misunderstandings.

Nice to meet you.......handshake
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Sep 17, 2009 3:52 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
tattoedtrev: It's not always what you ask but how ask it.


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...and whom you ask, I should add...
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Sep 17, 2009 3:55 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
I think what Ooby said makes a lot of sense, but also some people here tend to wade in with a knee-jerk reaction, without thinking about what they are saying and how they are coming across.

To be fair, it is easy to do that via this medium of communication and doesn´t necessarily reflect the true character of a person.

Of course if it is a regular occurrence from the same person or people then that is different. They are just plain rude.
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Sep 17, 2009 3:55 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
It could possibly be the same question has been asked ten other times that day............that's the only reason I can come up with.dunno confused help sigh uh oh
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Sep 17, 2009 3:56 PM CST Why do people get rude when you ask a simple question?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Jan1305: I think what Ooby said makes a lot of sense, but also some people here tend to wade in with a knee-jerk reaction, without thinking about what they are saying and how they are coming across.

To be fair, it is easy to do that via this medium of communication and doesn´t necessarily reflect the true character of a person.

Of course if it is a regular occurrence from the same person or people then that is different. They are just plain rude.



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