does everyone not deserve a 2nd chance..?? (14)
deisecat: ok so have had the kids and the relationship broke up,but the kids are still happy healthy and beautiful....logging onto site thought maybe mite find the right man...but people get scared when they hear kids,they have a dad and dont want another...but i cant hide them in the attic and they are my world....anyone else experience the same....???do you agree kids must come first every time...or am i wrong.....
pls get back to me....deise cat
pls get back to me....deise cat
what comes first in your life ,is your choice only
i have chosen that my kid is above all
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i dont have kids DC but i do think they come first... BUT... you are not looking for a new dad for them, you are looking for someone for you.... you too must have a life...
whats the saying... love you, love your kids....
whats the saying... love you, love your kids....
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deisecat: ok so have had the kids and the relationship broke up,but the kids are still happy healthy and beautiful....logging onto site thought maybe mite find the right man...but people get scared when they hear kids,they have a dad and dont want another...but i cant hide them in the attic and they are my world....anyone else experience the same....???do you agree kids must come first every time...or am i wrong.....
pls get back to me....deise cat
pls get back to me....deise cat
Of course everybody deserves a second chance and a third, fourth fifth and however many you need to find that wee bit of happiness. Most folks on here over 30 have kids I'd say so you're no different. Never had kids myself but that's my misfortune I'd say. So enjoy those two princesses. Some lucky guy is gonna get three for the price of one!
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Godsgift: Of course everybody deserves a second chance and a third, fourth fifth and however many you need to find that wee bit of happiness. Most folks on here over 30 have kids I'd say so you're no different. Never had kids myself but that's my misfortune I'd say. So enjoy those two princesses. Some lucky guy is gonna get three for the price of one!
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Being a mom of teens,they've always come first.
But now as they're older,I feel that it's time
I live a life of my own too and not just worry
about putting food on the table.
But now as they're older,I feel that it's time
I live a life of my own too and not just worry
about putting food on the table.
In response to: ok so have had the kids and the relationship broke up,but the kids are still happy healthy and beautiful....logging onto site thought maybe mite find the right man...but people get scared when they hear kids,they have a dad and dont want another...but i cant hide them in the attic and they are my world....anyone else experience the same....???do you agree kids must come first every time...or am i wrong.....
pls get back to me....deise cat
pls get back to me....deise cat
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Godsgift: Of course everybody deserves a second chance and a third, fourth fifth and however many you need to find that wee bit of happiness. Most folks on here over 30 have kids I'd say so you're no different. Never had kids myself but that's my misfortune I'd say. So enjoy those two princesses. Some lucky guy is gonna get three for the price of one!
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deisecat: ok so have had the kids and the relationship broke up,but the kids are still happy healthy and beautiful....logging onto site thought maybe mite find the right man...but people get scared when they hear kids,they have a dad and dont want another...but i cant hide them in the attic and they are my world....anyone else experience the same....???do you agree kids must come first every time...or am i wrong.....
pls get back to me....deise cat
pls get back to me....deise cat
my child always comes first in everything including my love life
so what i did when i was having my ex over was make sure she was in bed before he cud call or one of the nights she was in her dads i never introduced her to anyone. i got away with that for the best part of 8n yrs
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just keep up the search thereis men out there who are willing jto like you even tho there is children involved ..keep the faith 
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Not everyone
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deisecat: ok so have had the kids and the relationship broke up,but the kids are still happy healthy and beautiful....logging onto site thought maybe mite find the right man...but people get scared when they hear kids,they have a dad and dont want another...but i cant hide them in the attic and they are my world....anyone else experience the same....???do you agree kids must come first every time...or am i wrong.....
pls get back to me....deise cat
pls get back to me....deise cat
No man want to come second, so you need to balance love for him as well as love for your children, men coming into a relationship where there are children are not doing so to become a substitute father, there are there because of the woman, both partners deserve and need quality time just as in a marriage that has never broken up, treat a guy in the same way and you can't go far wrong, in my view.
Remember your love for your children is unconditional, your love for a husband is conditional
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Polarbutterfly: Being a mom of teens,they've always come first.
But now as they're older,I feel that it's time
I live a life of my own too and not just worry
about putting food on the table.
But now as they're older,I feel that it's time
I live a life of my own too and not just worry
about putting food on the table.
PB Love the new pic sis!I concur. I put "my" wants to the side til my boys got older. Just within the last three years I decided to go after "my" wants as well since my oldest one just turned 18 and the youngest one just turned 15. A couple more years to go before the empty nest......I used to dread it. But now kind of looking forward to it.
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scorpiosiren: my child always comes first in everything including my love life
so what i did when i was having my ex over was make sure she was in bed before he cud call or one of the nights she was in her dads i never introduced her to anyone. i got away with that for the best part of 8n yrs
so what i did when i was having my ex over was make sure she was in bed before he cud call or one of the nights she was in her dads i never introduced her to anyone. i got away with that for the best part of 8n yrs
That would never have worked with me, if I felt you could not trust me to be introduced to your child then bye bye, a relationship gets to a point where there has to be shown commitment, FROM BOTH SIDES.
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No I don't believe everyone deserves a second chance. Some people do things that should never be forgiven.
My son will alway come before anything or anybody!
My son will alway come before anything or anybody!
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pls get back to me....deise cat