Have you been in love with someone who treated you like dirt, still you clung to them. why? (44)
rob4u777Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)94 Threads 195 PostsLike i said ladies and gentlemen this is a entainment forum enjoy it
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I did in my younger days,,probably because i was insecure,,but now,HELL NO!!!
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Nope I haven't nor would I choose to remain in a relationship with someone who did.
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yes why coz i was an idiot at the time 
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rob4u777: Like i said ladies and gentlemen this is a entainment forum enjoy it
Yeah i actually have! he stood me up, lied to me, took money from me and finally left me for a girl he'd cheated on me with! But i always forgave him and stuck with him! I guess i thought i needed him and blamed myself for his behaviour thinking it was my fault for being useless but who needs someone like that!? Why is it so hard for people just to be honest? x
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I haven't experienced this! I guess I have been lucky.
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Kinda sad but treat em mean to keep em keen works more often than not. And yeah I have clung to people that have been bad for me in te past aswell.
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Yes. Because I was the mother of his child. But eventually, I not only grew out of love with him, but grew to dispise him. I packed me & my daughter up & got the hell outta Dodge, never to look back. 
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Oh yes. I was a clinger in my younger day too. Thought if I just loved em enough, they would love me back. I'm glad I'm not young anymore!
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Godsgift: Oh yes. I was a clinger in my younger day too. Thought if I just loved em enough, they would love me back. I'm glad I'm not young anymore!
Exactly!! Older & wiser, right?
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sweetowen: Exactly!! Older & wiser, right?
Absolutely, but on dark nights I still lie in bed and wonder with an honest regret,"What if......"------ This thread is Archived ------
Yes, in my first marriage. "I" was the dirt under his doormat. I was young and STUPID for staying until "he" left. Now I have found a "true gentleman" that knows how to treat his wife. And he has my utmost respect.
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Godsgift: Absolutely, but on dark nights I still lie in bed and wonder with an honest regret,"What if......"
Never go backward, go forward. If the person treated you like dirt, most likely, they were just using you. You don't need that.
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Godsgift: Absolutely, but on dark nights I still lie in bed and wonder with an honest regret,"What if......"
It is that "...What if...." that allows others to control us.
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Godsgift: Absolutely, but on dark nights I still lie in bed and wonder with an honest regret,"What if......"
No I haven't. Have only been in love 3 times, besides my family and dear friends.
First was puppylove, second was married to for 36 years and third was married to for 2 years. Guess like John, I am one of the fortunate ones.
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Yes I have.
I wouldn't say that I
clung to him,I loved him
therefore I felt I had to
try to salvage the relationship.
Not gonna happen;a relationship
takes 2 people to make it work.
I wouldn't say that I
clung to him,I loved him
therefore I felt I had to
try to salvage the relationship.
Not gonna happen;a relationship
takes 2 people to make it work.
In response to: Like i said ladies and gentlemen this is a entainment forum enjoy it
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Polarbutterfly: Yes I have.
I wouldn't say that I
clung to him,I loved him
therefore I felt I had to
try to salvage the relationship.
Not gonna happen;a relationship
takes 2 people to make it work.
I wouldn't say that I
clung to him,I loved him
therefore I felt I had to
try to salvage the relationship.
Not gonna happen;a relationship
takes 2 people to make it work.
So true. When we went to see our minister before we got married, he told us something that will always stick with me. He said, "Marriage is not 50/50... it's 100/100... you BOTH have to give it your all."
If one is giving 200% & the other isn't even trying, is that fair? Would you ever totally feel content, happy, & at peace with the relationship? I've grown so much since then. If someone isn't giving me what I want, I move on. And there is always someone new down the road.
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Yes i have - and still stayed with him because in my mind i was hoping things would change, it was my first dating experience too so i was all new to it and ignored advices my mum gave me or was giving me at the time "big mistake". At the end he left me.My world was revovled around him.. Lesson learned.
After a few months of feeling like crap because of it "I felt that i could breath again" :) lived my life the way i wanted and be happy and still am!
After a few months of feeling like crap because of it "I felt that i could breath again" :) lived my life the way i wanted and be happy and still am!
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sweetowen: Never go backward, go forward. If the person treated you like dirt, most likely, they were just using you. You don't need that.
I have to disagree here on this one sis. Not necessarily true about being used if you're treated like dirt. Some men were raised to be chauvinists. Meaning they were taught that they are "superior" to women.
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hopefloats: I have to disagree here on this one sis. Not necessarily true about being used if you're treated like dirt. Some men were raised to be chauvinists. Meaning they were taught that they are "superior" to women.
You have a very good point there, Merky.
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