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ScorpioMale25Tucson, Arizona USA1 Threads 1 PostsShould a person date and go out if he is married but in the process of getting a divorce? or should they just do it? Would you date someone like that if you knew?
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Nope..divorce first..sign..sealed and delivered
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not me, my attorney told me to lay low until it was over cause they can use it against you with proof, even in no fault states if there is court appearances to settle it
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In response to: Should a person date and go out if he is married but in the process of getting a divorce? or should they just do it? Would you date someone like that if you knew?
There's no way I would date someone who was still married even if if they were in the process of getting a divore.There's always that chance that the the man could reconcile and go back to his wife.
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kissmedeeply: Nope..divorce first..sign..sealed and delivered
Say that to someone in Ireland. Irish law only allows couples to divorce if they have been living apart for four years!
Some people are separated for years, yet for many reasons have not formally finalised their divorce.
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somechick: There's no way I would date someone who was still married even if if they were in the process of getting a divore.There's always that chance that the the man could reconcile and go back to his wife.
$&%#@* NOPE< What she said!
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Jan1305: Say that to someone in Ireland. Irish law only allows couples to divorce if they have been living apart for four years!
Some people are separated for years, yet for many reasons have not formally finalised their divorce.
Some people are separated for years, yet for many reasons have not formally finalised their divorce.
GOOD Then they should be a little more careful the decisions they make, ha
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Not no, but hell no... I wouldn't date someone in the process....
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Jan1305: Say that to someone in Ireland. Irish law only allows couples to divorce if they have been living apart for four years!
Some people are separated for years, yet for many reasons have not formally finalised their divorce.
Some people are separated for years, yet for many reasons have not formally finalised their divorce.
Exactly..
Laws vary from country to country, so this is a difficult question to answer.
However, from a personal point of view there is no way that I would wait 5 years before dating. Thats ridiculous to expect anyone to remain alone and/or celibate for that amount of time.
Once a legal Separation Agreement is in place, its pretty much like a "semi' divorce, and both parties should be free to date accordingly in my opinion.
Having a legal Separation Agreement put in place is costly and time consuming, and would not be undertaken unless both parties are PRETTY sure that the marriage is over. Therefore, the chances of reconciliation are slim.
I would say that I would be hesitate to date someone who had only very recently separated, yes. But after a period of time, I think it would be safe enough.
There are no guarantees in any relationship, and anything can happen in 5 years. There would be NO WAY I would waste all that time being lonely and alone.
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HotrodLarrys: GOOD Then they should be a little more careful the decisions they make, ha
Well that may make sense for younger people who haven´t been married long and give up at the first hurdle, but for older. long married people, then I think many may have decided a long time ago that their marriage was a farce. Then to have to waste even more years waiting for a formal divorce is simply ridiculous and unfair.
Incidentally, I´m not Irish, I was simply stating a legal fact and trying to say that things aren´t so simple for many people.
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HotrodLarrys: $&%#@* NOPE< What she said!
Hi Larry how are you?
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i think its alright if your sure your getting a divorce. the relationship is over. so you can start looking.
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somechick: Hi Larry how are you?
Hi Somechick, i am just riding te waves tho the sea is fairly calm
Just think i need to get out foe a while, even a couple hrs, just to stir... Doing Really well tho..... just Chillin!
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HotrodLarrys: Hi Somechick, i am just riding te waves tho the sea is fairly calm Just think i need to get out foe a while, even a couple hrs, just to stir... Doing Really well tho..... just Chillin!
I went out for awhile myself.Needed a small break from the rat race.I figured they could do without one more less rat.
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Jan1305: Well that may make sense for younger people who haven´t been married long and give up at the first hurdle, but for older. long married people, then I think many may have decided a long time ago that their marriage was a farce. Then to have to waste even more years waiting for a formal divorce is simply ridiculous and unfair.
Incidentally, I´m not Irish, I was simply stating a legal fact and trying to say that things aren´t so simple for many people.
Incidentally, I´m not Irish, I was simply stating a legal fact and trying to say that things aren´t so simple for many people.
Hi Jan and Petal, I do see it being about beyond tollerable, as Petal said legal Sep. But still that does slow them from marrying again in 6 months.... but yes a bad situation, and just glad i dont face any of that anymore, I am clean and Green, ha Been Free a long time, and just trying to be patient, as I seek one that I "DONT" have to face that stuff...
Hopefully I can make good Decisions, but anyone can trip, if not careful and sure.... One Day I will find one that will make me happy, till then, I just Sleep alone I guess.... Cause i dont need any Bad added to my life, I am just finally getting History behind me, and Clear Skies Creeping in
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HotrodLarrys: Hi Jan and Petal, I do see it being about beyond tollerable, as Petal said legal Sep. But still that does slow them from marrying again in 6 months.... but yes a bad situation, and just glad i dont face any of that anymore, I am clean and Green, ha Been Free a long time, and just trying to be patient, as I seek one that I "DONT" have to face that stuff...
Hopefully I can make good Decisions, but anyone can trip, if not careful and sure.... One Day I will find one that will make me happy, till then, I just Sleep alone I guess.... Cause i dont need any Bad added to my life, I am just finally getting History behind me, and Clear Skies Creeping in
Hopefully I can make good Decisions, but anyone can trip, if not careful and sure.... One Day I will find one that will make me happy, till then, I just Sleep alone I guess.... Cause i dont need any Bad added to my life, I am just finally getting History behind me, and Clear Skies Creeping in
Good luck to you Larry
keep your good and stay away from bad...
lose the history ... noo... it was part of you.. keep in the background... dont deny any part of your life.
Cheers hun
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somechick: I went out for awhile myself.Needed a small break from the rat race.I figured they could do without one more less rat.
I hear ya, I am like to the point , i will say just what i feel and i really dont care what too many think about it,,, If i say something too stupid, they cant throw rocks at me
I guess what i mean is I really dont have anything to hide, and if i say something that may help someone else out, ot just to show them i have no Hidden Monsters..... I have Old Monsters ha, but i have no reason to hide it or lie, i just feel i can be my own free Spirit for once in my life... My Friends Love Me, and know i tell it like it is, ha
But life teaches us how to live and how to be True to Thy Self,and others... so I do my best and Fake the rest 
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Merriweather: Good luck to you Larry
keep your good and stay away from bad...
lose the history ... noo... it was part of you.. keep in the background... dont deny any part of your life.
Cheers hun
keep your good and stay away from bad...
lose the history ... noo... it was part of you.. keep in the background... dont deny any part of your life.
Cheers hun
Why Thank you Merriweather,
I have REALLY been delt an unfair hand in earlier life, and I saw Mega Hard roads, but those are the ones that taught me and made me who I am today..... And I have Changed about 3 times over.... But I have Barely survived it a few times...
But for Now and the Situation, life is Really Looking up,
The Choices we make today, we live tomorrow, If we have nothing to hide, we live as an open Book
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Thats the ticket... tickety boo larry hun
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Merriweather: Thats the ticket... tickety boo larry hun
Oh I have lived and I have Learned, and got stuck in the Dryer when it was On a Couple Times too, Ha
and we ARE supposed to get Wiser, Arent We
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