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Oct 25, 2009 8:39 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
How important is the financial situation of a potential partner to you? Does it influence your choice at all? Time and again I've seen complaints here by some men that they encounter women who show a great interest in their bank book. Are men(who are not scammers) as interested in knowing about the finances of their potential partner? Sooner or later the topic is bound to come up. And while money is not the be all and end all - it is important. After all these days it takes two hands to clap. While we don't have to be rich - there are bills to be paid. How important is it to you?

No Money, No Love - The Mighty Sparrow


No Romance without Finance - Gwen Gutherie
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Oct 25, 2009 8:48 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
gday sweetywave

just an honest answer,now we know the life is getting hard,everything are expensive but this is just my opinion .
the first thing enter of our mind when we feel inlove with someone is what situation he have or she have personally,we think if he or she has a good or permanent job?or if he is divorced how many kids he have to support,right?
these days in 100 people who will after just love and dont care about money,i bet if there is 10 in 100,thats is lucky..

now to those people who had already and never scared to be with someone with out money,i can say that is the real love..wine jmo..
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Oct 25, 2009 9:23 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
kanokwan
kanokwankanokwanPetchabun, Northern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
sawadee ka tainogirl,we have a saying this country long time now...'no money,no honey'conversing thumbs up
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Oct 25, 2009 9:27 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
tainogirl: How important is the financial situation of a potential partner to you? Does it influence your choice at all? Time and again I've seen complaints here by some men that they encounter women who show a great interest in their bank book. Are men(who are not scammers) as interested in knowing about the finances of their potential partner? Sooner or later the topic is bound to come up. And while money is not the be all and end all - it is important. After all these days it takes two hands to clap. While we don't have to be rich - there are bills to be paid. How important is it to you?

No Money, No Love - The Mighty Sparrow


No Romance without Finance - Gwen Gutherie

If...my future to be wife ,and i...would live on a desert island...money would `nt be of any use,what so ever

but lets face the cold reality

this is a materialistic world ,that we are living in
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Oct 25, 2009 9:29 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
kyriacos2009
kyriacos2009kyriacos2009Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire, England UK1 Threads 37 Posts
Ye ur right...Boom Boom, 10 dollar, me love you long time.

silly girl.
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Oct 25, 2009 9:32 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
kyriacos2009: Ye ur right...Boom Boom, 10 dollar, me love you long time.

silly girl.


confused You mean just 10 dollars for Boom Boom? Cheap! Huh?
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Oct 25, 2009 9:33 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Konigsberg: You mean just 10 dollars for Boom Boom? Cheap! Huh?


I give you boom boom boom boom boom.... you give me 50 dollah I say:

'tank u velly much!'

I nice man. blushing
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Oct 25, 2009 9:36 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
tainogirl: How important is the financial situation of a potential partner to you? Does it influence your choice at all? Time and again I've seen complaints here by some men that they encounter women who show a great interest in their bank book. Are men(who are not scammers) as interested in knowing about the finances of their potential partner? Sooner or later the topic is bound to come up. And while money is not the be all and end all - it is important. After all these days it takes two hands to clap. While we don't have to be rich - there are bills to be paid. How important is it to you?

No Money, No Love - The Mighty Sparrow


No Romance without Finance - Gwen Gutherie


It is the reality .... that's what we work and live for in Western countries: To pay bills.

Two people can do it easier. Less stress in relationships

Good topic thumbs up
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Oct 25, 2009 9:36 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
kyriacos2009: Ye ur right...Boom Boom, 10 dollar, me love you long time.

silly girl.



10 dollar?for boom boom?confused boxing
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Oct 25, 2009 9:37 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
My concern would not be so much with how much money he has. It would be with his work ethic. Where I live at, people are losing jobs like crazy. At this time, you really can't blame him if he has lost his job, unless it was not involuntary. The questions that I would be asking myself is...is he actively looking for another job or is he continuing his education to get a better job.

My concern is not what he can buy me. Since I have dated someone that could not hold a job and wanted to sit around and do nothing all the time, my only concern is that he has a good work ethic and a legal job. I don't like people that are lazy ALL the time. Sure, we all need to kick back and relax at times. But he needs to take having a job seriously.

I'm not really looking for anybody right now, but these things mentioned are what I find as desirable traits in a man. He doesn't have to have a fancy job. If he pulls 8-12 hours a day on a farm, it is a job. Is he happy with what he is doing? That makes a difference too. If he is not happy at his job, he may not be happy when he comes home.

I don't need anybody to buy me anything. If I do meet someone in the future and decide to have a relationship with them, I'm looking for someone that is willing to contribute equally with me. I don't need someone to support me, nor do I want that. Even though I don't have a job right now, I'm still able to provide for myself while getting my education. When I can't do that anymore, I will give up the education and start looking for a job to support my family. I never want to be in a situation where someone has to support me again. I can't handle that. I am an independent person and take pride in that.
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Oct 25, 2009 9:38 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
kyriacos2009
kyriacos2009kyriacos2009Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire, England UK1 Threads 37 Posts
When it comes to boom boom, 10 dollar or 50 dollar, as long as its money in their pocket.
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Oct 25, 2009 9:39 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Money doesn't ever cross my mind when considering a lady.
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Oct 25, 2009 9:39 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
RobertC2: I give you boom boom boom boom boom.... you give me 50 dollah I say:

'tank u velly much!'

I nice man.




Common Guys (Gypsy man and Robert) .. I just couldn't resist to play with "Boom Boom" and it is exceptionally cheap laugh
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Oct 25, 2009 9:40 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
kyriacos2009
kyriacos2009kyriacos2009Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire, England UK1 Threads 37 Posts
you are right, its easier with two people...but a relationship should never be based on someones bank balance or earning power.
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Oct 25, 2009 9:43 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
kyriacos2009: When it comes to boom boom, 10 dollar or 50 dollar, as long as its money in their pocket.


You mean like Them Pay for Boom Boom? jaw drop

*I need to go outside for a gulp of fresh air.*

But Kyriacos I do respect your point of view on a subject





conversing
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Oct 25, 2009 9:43 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
kyriacos2009
kyriacos2009kyriacos2009Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire, England UK1 Threads 37 Posts
Well said K.
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Oct 25, 2009 9:48 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
woodzchick: My concern would not be so much with how much money he has. It would be with his work ethic.


Listen!

I dislike even the concept of work!

I retired from 'work' in January 2006.

This year I had to work my butt off to recoup over $200,000 lost on my investments due to the recession; I've made it all back and more but it was bloody hard work..... I had to spend sometimes a whole hour per day doing complicated investment deals!

Thank God it's all over now, and I can relax and enjoy the fruit of my labours!

Work ethic? Nyet!

I prefer NOT to work, thank you! grin
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Oct 25, 2009 9:50 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
RobertC2: Listen!

I dislike even the concept of work!

I retired from 'work' in January 2006.

This year I had to work my butt off to recoup over $200,000 lost on my investments due to the recession; I've made it all back and more but it was bloody hard work..... I had to spend sometimes a whole hour per day doing complicated investment deals!

Thank God it's all over now, and I can relax and enjoy the fruit of my labours!

Work ethic? Nyet!

I prefer NOT to work, thank you!


Well, enjoy life Robert!hug
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Oct 25, 2009 9:50 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
kyriacos2009: you are right, its easier with two people...but a relationship should never be based on someones bank balance or earning power.


True - my last relationship was with a fantastic woman who earned more money, at the time, than I made in unearned investment income.

She was a workaholic, a perfectionist and a control freak. I loved her dearly and didn't wish her to give up her job until she wanted to...... her work meant a great deal to her and she loved the challenge it gave her each day of the working week.
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Oct 25, 2009 9:55 AM CST NO MONEY, NO LOVE
moneymagnet
moneymagnetmoneymagnetLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 53 Posts
The truth is that I’m looking for a professional woman to be friends. Someone entrepreneur who knows how to create money with her business ideas, and has created some success stories, in fact out side of dating sites all my girl friends are like that and we always pay everything 50/50 and we are happy that way. I know it might not be possible to find my ideal match in here but still I am giving a try.
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