Maybe It Wasn't Enough ( Archived) (34)

Nov 20, 2009 3:07 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Why do any of us know why we do some things??confused

dunno

hug
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Nov 20, 2009 3:08 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
WHy, after nearly 4 years am I still wasting my time here??doh
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Nov 20, 2009 3:11 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
HJFinAZ: WHy, after nearly 4 years am I still wasting my time here??



Because I luvzzzzz ya HJ wink teddybear
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Nov 20, 2009 3:14 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
nottoo2525: Don't let it guilt you out now.....
Yes, I have known friends who have been rushed out the door etc by well meaning relatives and friends while had they kept out of it, it may have worked out in the end.
Chalk it up to new knowledge but don't let it get you down too much.




Thank You nottoo, No family member talked me into leaving. But because I moved in after only knowing him a week, they were all very much against that. hug
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Nov 20, 2009 3:24 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
sassy49senior: Thank You nottoo, No family member talked me into leaving. But because I moved in after only knowing him a week, they were all very much against that.


Sometimes them being against it is enough to make you have second thoughts. Don't doubt yourself. hug hug Only you know what's best for you......
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Nov 20, 2009 3:40 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
Never thought I should have done more to save the marriage but because I worked so hard at saving it, I find myself not wanting to completely commit to another relationship.

Being love is supposed to be easy and fun.
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Nov 20, 2009 3:40 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
longhairedwoman
longhairedwomanlonghairedwomanRiverhead, New York USA3 Threads 1 Polls 187 Posts
I also believe in doing everything I can to make a relationship work, but there's a line I have that, once crossed, can't be gone back over. I think once you lose respect for someone you aren't going to be able to make it work.
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Nov 20, 2009 3:40 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
Assets52: Never thought I should have done more to save the marriage but because I worked so hard at saving it, I find myself not wanting to completely commit to another relationship.

Being love is supposed to be easy and fun.
thumbs up
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Nov 20, 2009 3:47 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Assets52: Never thought I should have done more to save the marriage but because I worked so hard at saving it, I find myself not wanting to completely commit to another relationship.

Being love is supposed to be easy and fun.




Hi Assets, Good to see you again. Been awhile. How are you? I'm not sure but I think you may have been here when I got together with Nick and was asking for advice even way back then.dunno He was pretty much ready to boot me out the door because he was chatting with a woman on the other singles site before I was gone and married her 4 months later. mumbling
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Nov 20, 2009 3:48 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
HJFinAZ: WHy, after nearly 4 years am I still wasting my time here??


Thoughtyou said you were in a relationship, in which case why are you still here?rolling on the floor laughing dunno grin
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Nov 20, 2009 3:52 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
longhairedwoman: I also believe in doing everything I can to make a relationship work, but there's a line I have that, once crossed, can't be gone back over. I think once you lose respect for someone you aren't going to be able to make it work.



Thank You, I believe now that you brought that up, that I truly did start losing respect for him when he said I Love You &&&& which is not my name when we were in the bedroom. I confronted him, he said I do love her, she is my best friend. dunno
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Nov 20, 2009 3:58 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
sassy49senior: Thank You, I believe now that you brought that up, that I truly did start losing respect for him when he said I Love You &&&& which is not my name when we were in the bedroom. I confronted him, he said I do love her, she is my best friend.
very mad very mad very mad Oooohhh that cad!!!!
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Nov 20, 2009 3:58 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
MEDTECH662
MEDTECH662MEDTECH662Ity Bity, Tennessee USA12 Threads 641 Posts
we all second guess ourselves at some point but I think you did the right thing comfort
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Nov 20, 2009 4:05 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
MEDTECH662: we all second guess ourselves at some point but I think you did the right thing




Hi MEDTECH, Thank You, I am feeling better with each answer I read. Very nice pic of you and your Dad. hug Us itty bittys need to try to meet someday.wave wine
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Nov 20, 2009 4:13 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
MEDTECH662
MEDTECH662MEDTECH662Ity Bity, Tennessee USA12 Threads 641 Posts
sassy49senior: Hi MEDTECH, Thank You, I am feeling better with each answer I read. Very nice pic of you and your Dad. Us itty bittys need to try to meet someday.


That would be awesome yay
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Nov 20, 2009 4:22 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Assets52: Never thought I should have done more to save the marriage but because I worked so hard at saving it, I find myself not wanting to completely commit to another relationship.

Being love is supposed to be easy and fun.


To love, is to risk not being loved in return..dunno
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Nov 20, 2009 4:23 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
sassy49senior: Because I luvzzzzz ya HJ

Well, I must admit, I do fall in "LUVZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ" very easily.uh oh

"Love" on the other hand....help
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Nov 20, 2009 4:25 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
gingerb: Thoughtyou said you were in a relationship, in which case why are you still here?


There you go "thinking" again...doh

tongue
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Nov 20, 2009 4:26 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
HJFinAZ: Well, I must admit, I do fall in "LUVZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ" very easily.

"Love" on the other hand....




For sure HJ, Two very different meanings and feelings. teddybear
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Nov 20, 2009 4:35 PM CST Maybe It Wasn't Enough
ketengel
ketengelketengelKoror, Palau6 Posts
You made a good choice. You did yourself an evaluation on that situation. Don't feel bad. Be happy and you still have a lot choices.wave thumbs up
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