nottoo2525: Don't let it guilt you out now..... Yes, I have known friends who have been rushed out the door etc by well meaning relatives and friends while had they kept out of it, it may have worked out in the end. Chalk it up to new knowledge but don't let it get you down too much.
Thank You nottoo, No family member talked me into leaving. But because I moved in after only knowing him a week, they were all very much against that.
sassy49senior: Thank You nottoo, No family member talked me into leaving. But because I moved in after only knowing him a week, they were all very much against that.
Sometimes them being against it is enough to make you have second thoughts. Don't doubt yourself. Only you know what's best for you......
Never thought I should have done more to save the marriage but because I worked so hard at saving it, I find myself not wanting to completely commit to another relationship.
I also believe in doing everything I can to make a relationship work, but there's a line I have that, once crossed, can't be gone back over. I think once you lose respect for someone you aren't going to be able to make it work.
Assets52: Never thought I should have done more to save the marriage but because I worked so hard at saving it, I find myself not wanting to completely commit to another relationship.
Assets52: Never thought I should have done more to save the marriage but because I worked so hard at saving it, I find myself not wanting to completely commit to another relationship.
Being love is supposed to be easy and fun.
Hi Assets, Good to see you again. Been awhile. How are you? I'm not sure but I think you may have been here when I got together with Nick and was asking for advice even way back then. He was pretty much ready to boot me out the door because he was chatting with a woman on the other singles site before I was gone and married her 4 months later.
longhairedwoman: I also believe in doing everything I can to make a relationship work, but there's a line I have that, once crossed, can't be gone back over. I think once you lose respect for someone you aren't going to be able to make it work.
Thank You, I believe now that you brought that up, that I truly did start losing respect for him when he said I Love You &&&& which is not my name when we were in the bedroom. I confronted him, he said I do love her, she is my best friend.
sassy49senior: Thank You, I believe now that you brought that up, that I truly did start losing respect for him when he said I Love You &&&& which is not my name when we were in the bedroom. I confronted him, he said I do love her, she is my best friend.
sassy49senior: Hi MEDTECH, Thank You, I am feeling better with each answer I read. Very nice pic of you and your Dad. Us itty bittys need to try to meet someday.
Assets52: Never thought I should have done more to save the marriage but because I worked so hard at saving it, I find myself not wanting to completely commit to another relationship.
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