I've only had that happen a very few times Sometimes it was unreasonable or irrational or psycotic or all that Like during a divorce Mostly it didn't last beyond the intensity of the moment
But sometimes you wonder-as I'm prone to do--if it was appropriate.... Maybe it was my full measure
I dont care about my former mother-in-laws' opinion
But what if it was someone who loved you once?
It's the most unpleasant thing in the progress of a lifetime to be hated
As far as I know there is presently no living human being who hates me and noone died hating me either
Have you ever been hated? How did it feel? Does anyone hate you at this moment?
If there's something you know you did wrong to earn the hatred then ok, think about it ...otherwise who cares if someone hates you for their own reasons ...........
Let's get serious about this before we start having fun These things happen The one who was once your soulmate hates your guts Your Mother hates you Your Child hates you
Or so I've heard
Does anyone have such a story? It would take great courage to share,I imagine But we're not busy just now
No never dealt with anyone hating me...nor have I hated anyone and I have told my daughter's to never use the word hate when talking about another person that is a very strong word--there are people I dislike but I do not go out of my way to avoid them--they are not worth my time is all....I am to upbeat of a person to let someone bring me down...
I've found out that what drives the person crazy even more is when they have this strong dislike for you, and you don't let it affect you. You continue to treat them with a certain degree of respect and continue being civilized. My ex-husband wants to hate me so bad, but I will not allow him to have the pleasure. When I do see him (It makes me physically sick) I just smile and talk normally. It kills him....he always loved to argue and I wouldn't do it. I love the theory of killing them with kindness.
woodzchick: I've found out that what drives the person crazy even more is when they have this strong dislike for you, and you don't let it affect you. You continue to treat them with a certain degree of respect and continue being civilized. My ex-husband wants to hate me so bad, but I will not allow him to have the pleasure. When I do see him (It makes me physically sick) I just smile and talk normally. It kills him....he always loved to argue and I wouldn't do it. I love the theory of killing them with kindness.
Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being.
That hatre left me feeling so sad and wondering what an earth it was I had done wrong. Loneliness can creep in and swamp your heart and soul. It made me feel like a lost soul drifting around neither here nor there.
Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being.
I guess it got to me yesterday.
I asked my house guests to leave; they've been here for a couple of months (instead of just a couple of weeks) and I guess I just wanted my place back to myself - I felt they were beginning to take over my home.
Nice people, but I've been upset and not fair on them or me when I just need to be quiet and not have to consider other people.
RobertC2: Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being. I guess it got to me yesterday.
I asked my house guests to leave; they've been here for a couple of months (instead of just a couple of weeks) and I guess I just wanted my place back to myself - I felt they were beginning to take over my home.
Nice people, but I've been upset and not fair on them or me when I just need to be quiet and not have to consider other people.
whoops! first para was LV's post and NOT mine - quotes didn't come out! Sorry!
RobertC2: Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being. I guess it got to me yesterday.
I asked my house guests to leave; they've been here for a couple of months (instead of just a couple of weeks) and I guess I just wanted my place back to myself - I felt they were beginning to take over my home.
Nice people, but I've been upset and not fair on them or me when I just need to be quiet and not have to consider other people.
well it was nice of you to let them stay at your house that long. imagine how long blondie and me will be staying.
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Sometimes it was unreasonable or irrational or psycotic or all that
Like during a divorce
Mostly it didn't last beyond the intensity of the moment
But sometimes you wonder-as I'm prone to do--if it was appropriate....
Maybe it was my full measure
I dont care about my former mother-in-laws' opinion
But what if it was someone who loved you once?
It's the most unpleasant thing in the progress of a lifetime to be hated
As far as I know there is presently no living human being who hates me and noone died hating me either
Have you ever been hated? How did it feel?
Does anyone hate you at this moment?
Well having said that,let's have some fun