BEING HATED ( Archived) (135)

Dec 10, 2009 9:37 PM CST BEING HATED
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
I've only had that happen a very few times
Sometimes it was unreasonable or irrational or psycotic or all that
Like during a divorce
Mostly it didn't last beyond the intensity of the moment

But sometimes you wonder-as I'm prone to do--if it was appropriate....
Maybe it was my full measure

I dont care about my former mother-in-laws' opinion

But what if it was someone who loved you once?

It's the most unpleasant thing in the progress of a lifetime to be hated

As far as I know there is presently no living human being who hates me and noone died hating me either

Have you ever been hated? How did it feel?
Does anyone hate you at this moment?

Well having said that,let's have some fun
cool
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Dec 10, 2009 9:42 PM CST BEING HATED
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Thankfully no, I've not experienced it. I know I wouldn't like it.

Perhaps you need to be a hater in order to be hated. Perhaps then you would know how to handle it ......dunno
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Dec 10, 2009 9:43 PM CST BEING HATED
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
If there's something you know you did wrong to earn the hatred then ok, think about it ...otherwise who cares if someone hates you for their own reasons ...........dunno
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Dec 10, 2009 9:45 PM CST BEING HATED
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Democrats hate me..sigh
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Dec 10, 2009 9:59 PM CST BEING HATED
spiderbulgaria
spiderbulgariaspiderbulgariaYambol, Bulgaria9 Threads 250 Posts
I don't know if anybody hates me, personally i don't care if there is or not, hate is an emotion that is just a waste of energy.wine
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Dec 10, 2009 10:09 PM CST BEING HATED
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
Let's get serious about this before we start having fun
These things happen
The one who was once your soulmate hates your guts
Your Mother hates you
Your Child hates you

Or so I've heard

Does anyone have such a story?
It would take great courage to share,I imagine
But we're not busy just now
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Dec 10, 2009 10:19 PM CST BEING HATED
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
My ex-husband hated me during the divorce and custody battle but that ended years ago.


Now we talk on the phone weekly - usually about our son.
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Dec 10, 2009 10:22 PM CST BEING HATED
tina_olson
tina_olsontina_olsonWestby, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 694 Posts
No never dealt with anyone hating me...nor have I hated anyone and I have told my daughter's to never use the word hate when talking about another person that is a very strong word--there are people I dislike but I do not go out of my way to avoid them--they are not worth my time is all....I am to upbeat of a person to let someone bring me down...grin
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Dec 10, 2009 10:22 PM CST BEING HATED
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
I've found out that what drives the person crazy even more is when they have this strong dislike for you, and you don't let it affect you. You continue to treat them with a certain degree of respect and continue being civilized. My ex-husband wants to hate me so bad, but I will not allow him to have the pleasure. When I do see him (It makes me physically sick) I just smile and talk normally. It kills him....he always loved to argue and I wouldn't do it. I love the theory of killing them with kindness.laugh
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Dec 10, 2009 10:23 PM CST BEING HATED
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
everybody loves me. or at the very least doesn't dislike me. head banger
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Dec 10, 2009 10:25 PM CST BEING HATED
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
AsleepInNJ: did you at least get the duty nurses number?


That's a good idea.

I could give her nice heavy breathing calls! grin thumbs up
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Dec 10, 2009 10:26 PM CST BEING HATED
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
AsleepInNJ: everybody loves me. or at the very least doesn't dislike me.


I hate you. You're a chick magnet. I'm jealous! tongue
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Dec 10, 2009 10:27 PM CST BEING HATED
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
woodzchick: I've found out that what drives the person crazy even more is when they have this strong dislike for you, and you don't let it affect you. You continue to treat them with a certain degree of respect and continue being civilized. My ex-husband wants to hate me so bad, but I will not allow him to have the pleasure. When I do see him (It makes me physically sick) I just smile and talk normally. It kills him....he always loved to argue and I wouldn't do it. I love the theory of killing them with kindness.


Darlin' - you could learn to hate me! batting laugh
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Dec 10, 2009 10:27 PM CST BEING HATED
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
RobertC2: I hate you. You're a chick magnet. I'm jealous!


hardly. i wish i was a chick magnet.cheers
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Dec 10, 2009 10:29 PM CST BEING HATED
conjor
conjorconjorSmithfield, North Carolina USA61 Threads 2,056 Posts
I do not hate you wondeworkerconversing You have never said anything offensive too me.Yes i know how it feels to be hatedmoping I love you man.
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Dec 10, 2009 10:32 PM CST BEING HATED
LaVerdad
LaVerdadLaVerdadBaghdad, Iraq1 Threads 1,897 Posts
Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being.

That hatre left me feeling so sad and wondering what an earth it was I had done wrong. Loneliness can creep in and swamp your heart and soul. It made me feel like a lost soul drifting around neither here nor there.thumbs up
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Dec 10, 2009 10:33 PM CST BEING HATED
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
conjor: I do not hate you wondeworker You have never said anything offensive too me.Yes i know how it feels to be hated I love you man.

I know you dont deal in hatred conjor
But tell us how it feels to be hated
Or crack a joke
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Dec 10, 2009 10:40 PM CST BEING HATED
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being.


I guess it got to me yesterday.

I asked my house guests to leave; they've been here for a couple of months (instead of just a couple of weeks) and I guess I just wanted my place back to myself - I felt they were beginning to take over my home.

Nice people, but I've been upset and not fair on them or me when I just need to be quiet and not have to consider other people.
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Dec 10, 2009 10:41 PM CST BEING HATED
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
RobertC2: Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being. I guess it got to me yesterday.

I asked my house guests to leave; they've been here for a couple of months (instead of just a couple of weeks) and I guess I just wanted my place back to myself - I felt they were beginning to take over my home.

Nice people, but I've been upset and not fair on them or me when I just need to be quiet and not have to consider other people.


whoops! first para was LV's post and NOT mine - quotes didn't come out! Sorry!
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Dec 10, 2009 10:42 PM CST BEING HATED
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
RobertC2: Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being. I guess it got to me yesterday.

I asked my house guests to leave; they've been here for a couple of months (instead of just a couple of weeks) and I guess I just wanted my place back to myself - I felt they were beginning to take over my home.

Nice people, but I've been upset and not fair on them or me when I just need to be quiet and not have to consider other people.


well it was nice of you to let them stay at your house that long. imagine how long blondie and me will be staying. rolling on the floor laughing
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