nomindgames: If anyone does or did hate me,don't know who. No one has ever told me they do. Hate is a strong word. I am sure there are people who dislike or did dislike me. That's part of life.
There you go, nomindgames..... HATE is a very STRONG word.....dislike seems to fit better!
I had no idea where this Thread would go.But then,I never do. It's always fun to come back to several pages of exchanges. What stood out was how many people posted Disclaimers of PRACTICING hatred when the Topic was BEING the object of Hatred.
Noteworthy too that CS is full of split personalities.....but that's another story
Awwww being hated. Hmmmm how well I remember a few times my kids saying, " I hate you" for one reason or another. But for this type of post I am sure that is not the hate that is meant, as the kids were over it in a short time. I have had a couple of people and yes still to this day say they hate me. So be it.
wonderworker: I had no idea where this Thread would go.But then,I never do. It's always fun to come back to several pages of exchanges. What stood out was how many people posted Disclaimers of PRACTICING hatred when the Topic was BEING the object of Hatred.
Noteworthy too that CS is full of split personalities.....but that's another story
I was able to immediately dig up a couple of hate followers from the dark side........which quite honestly doesn't bother me since these are the few who join these sites attempting to control and share their misery..... So, knowing where their hatred comes from - is relief from being any part of their cause to be that way.
wonderworker: Let's get serious about this before we start having fun These things happen The one who was once your soulmate hates your guts Your Mother hates you Your Child hates you
Or so I've heard
Does anyone have such a story? It would take great courage to share,I imagine But we're not busy just now
I had a psychopathic mother who absolutely hated me from practically the moment I was born. She was extremely superstitious, and things about when I was born led her to believe I came from the devil, to the point where she refused to feed me herself. It went downhill from there. She took pride in telling me, and others, stories of ways that she made my life miserable, all her life. She died just over a year ago.
gingerb: I had a psychopathic mother who absolutely hated me from practically the moment I was born. She was extremely superstitious, and things about when I was born led her to believe I came from the devil, to the point where she refused to feed me herself. It went downhill from there. She took pride in telling me, and others, stories of ways that she made my life miserable, all her life. She died just over a year ago.
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
gingerb: I had a psychopathic mother who absolutely hated me from practically the moment I was born. She was extremely superstitious, and things about when I was born led her to believe I came from the devil, to the point where she refused to feed me herself. It went downhill from there. She took pride in telling me, and others, stories of ways that she made my life miserable, all her life. She died just over a year ago.
That cannot have been very nice for you at all.... sounds like hell to me. I hope you are looking at life differently and can move on from that.
LaVerdad: Yes I have and it was the most horrible feeling because no matter what this person did to me I could not bear such hatred in my heart as they did to any living being.
That hatre left me feeling so sad and wondering what an earth it was I had done wrong. Loneliness can creep in and swamp your heart and soul. It made me feel like a lost soul drifting around neither here nor there.
Great Post Laverdad How insightful for one so young
bettyboop63: ive lived through it too ..G ..we are survivors not victims... ...I wish you all the best in life ,,,you deserve it..
We learn to survive.... and learn to know that when things seem really bad it's just an illusion and life SHALL get good again - unless we wake up one day dead!
conjor: It caused me to want to find a way for that person to not hate me anymore.I had an inward desire to do something good for that person in hopes that they would no longer hate me even though it was no skin off my back either way. I still wanted to make there bad feelings of hate to go away.I wanted to learn how to be a person that would never again cause that emotion in a person.Love,and peace to you all.
Best Post of the Thread IMO Oh I know....You'll think I'm just patronizing all my Religious friends....
Englishman55: That cannot have been very nice for you at all.... sounds like hell to me. I hope you are looking at life differently and can move on from that.
I wish you happiness from here on in
I won't repeat gingerb's post but send my best wishes to her too; she seems a very well-adjusted young lady to me!
Englishman55: That cannot have been very nice for you at all.... sounds like hell to me. I hope you are looking at life differently and can move on from that.
I wish you happiness from here on in
Well it wasn't easy at the time, but I knew from being very young, that no matter what she threw at me figuratively, and literally, that I would not be like her, so I practiced a form of patience and distancing that has stayed with me all my life so far.
From that I found happiness some place in every day, no matter what it was like.
I just see life, anyone's life as being just what it is. It can be nothing else.
If the people that affect you could be different or be better people, then they would already be that.
Fact is, that everyone is doing their best at any given time, no matter how dysfunctional that appears to some. So, no blame to apportion. No hatred to dish out. Life just is.............
gingerb: I had a psychopathic mother who absolutely hated me from practically the moment I was born. She was extremely superstitious, and things about when I was born led her to believe I came from the devil, to the point where she refused to feed me herself. It went downhill from there. She took pride in telling me, and others, stories of ways that she made my life miserable, all her life. She died just over a year ago.
Thank you Gingerb. That must be very hard to share. And how Wondrous to know that you have Overcome.... Bright and beautiful Mavourneen that you are. John
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Hate is a strong word. I am sure there are people who dislike or did dislike me. That's part of life.
There you go, nomindgames.....
HATE is a very STRONG word.....dislike seems to fit better!