Online dating Nightmare. (long) (177)
DrHughGRekshyn54: Look, you made a fool out of yourself with this incident and that's it. Now don't add the trappings of a clown by continuing to perform in this prolonged thread. Learn from your mistakes and move on or would you rather endlessly whine about this and stay naive. You're 40 years old aren't you?
I hear ya on this thought, although I'm wanting to be a little nurturing to this guy. It's a hard knock, you know. We all like to believe we're sage enough to stay out of harm's way, but you know how it goes. I'm a decade older than this seemingly nice guy, and I get 'hurt' by others, still. (I thank God I still have humanitarian feelings, that's my "silver lining". Rather be naive than cynical, any day. I sleep better, too. cheers---)
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sweetie ,,,SHE WAS MARRIED OR WHAT EVER,,,, IM SOOO SORRY ,,,,
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Desertguy49: Probably a serial killer
A MALE ONE
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lmaf!!!
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DrHughGRekshyn54: I really hate to say this but stupid people seem to have their stupidity magnified by what they do when online. It astonishes me to hear what some have done with online contacts when common sense would normally prevent you from doing such things otherwise.
This is one of your earlier post above:
And one recently below:
Look, you made a fool out of yourself with this incident and that's it. Now don't add the trappings of a clown by continuing to perform in this prolonged thread. Learn from your mistakes and move on or would you rather endlessly whine about this and stay naive. You're 40 years old aren't you?
Am I not a online contact or do you know me. I am not Naive but I did get caught offgaurd on this,I dont feel I made a fool of myself at all! As far as the thread being long, I never exspected this many responses. I am amazed to see so many comment on this, I had no idea and almost didnt post.
Had it not been for your comments ,the thread would probally only be 8 pages long.There is no endlees whine and thread could have ended at the post just b4 your last.
A persons age in this format really doesnt matter if they are not informed. You seem you have alot of exspierience online but your last post,,, hmmmm,, what was your point???
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whiteflash: This is one of your earlier post above:
And one recently below:
Look, you made a fool out of yourself with this incident and that's it. Now don't add the trappings of a clown by continuing to perform in this prolonged thread. Learn from your mistakes and move on or would you rather endlessly whine about this and stay naive. You're 40 years old aren't you?
Am I not a online contact or do you know me. I am not Naive but I did get caught offgaurd on this,I dont feel I made a fool of myself at all! As far as the thread being long, I never exspected this many responses. I am amazed to see so many comment on this, I had no idea and almost didnt post.
Had it not been for your comments ,the thread would probally only be 8 pages long.There is no endlees whine and thread could have ended at the post just b4 your last.
A persons age in this format really doesnt matter if they are not informed. You seem you have alot of exspierience online but your last post,,, hmmmm,, what was your point???
And one recently below:
Look, you made a fool out of yourself with this incident and that's it. Now don't add the trappings of a clown by continuing to perform in this prolonged thread. Learn from your mistakes and move on or would you rather endlessly whine about this and stay naive. You're 40 years old aren't you?
Am I not a online contact or do you know me. I am not Naive but I did get caught offgaurd on this,I dont feel I made a fool of myself at all! As far as the thread being long, I never exspected this many responses. I am amazed to see so many comment on this, I had no idea and almost didnt post.
Had it not been for your comments ,the thread would probally only be 8 pages long.There is no endlees whine and thread could have ended at the post just b4 your last.
A persons age in this format really doesnt matter if they are not informed. You seem you have alot of exspierience online but your last post,,, hmmmm,, what was your point???
My point is clear isn't it? Yes you are an online contact and the situation you put yourself in was arranged online was it not? Not naive..sorry but it would seem that you certainly are. The details of your tale indicate that. Does 'inexperienced for a man of 43' sound better to you? Ok, I'll say that. I previously stated what you should and should not do, didn't I? Let it go! Learn from it and move on. Getting pissed about it won't solve anything. But at the very least you may be more detailed the next time you have a hot contact online. And DO NOT return to that house! You will only make it worse for yourself because I'm sure that "She" doesn't live there. Keep your eyes and your mind open. OK? No cam-No phone-No time to waste! Good luck next time! And my friend let me say...If you ever come back on here with a similiar story..we will ROAST you!
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Sounds scary 
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Perfect advice!
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Don't give up, we have all been through difficult situations in life, but all people are not the same, even in the net! Just be a bit more careful and try to talk over the phone as soon as possible, then you will know if it is woman.
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! Teres
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! Teres
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Well thank you,
I am over it,, I learned for sure.(What a terrible way to learn)
Since this has been brought back up.I'll give an update.
Their profile is still there, but has not logged in since. I have had no response from them and quit trying after a few times.I finally sent one last e-mail saying I was sorry,and not to let this stop them and I was completly baffled on what/why this happened. With no response.
As you can see, I do think she was real,gut feeling, she was a first timer at this too. But at this point it does not matter.
I have been talking to someone else and seems to be going well.
Thanks for all the responses on this BTW.
I am over it,, I learned for sure.(What a terrible way to learn)
Since this has been brought back up.I'll give an update.
Their profile is still there, but has not logged in since. I have had no response from them and quit trying after a few times.I finally sent one last e-mail saying I was sorry,and not to let this stop them and I was completly baffled on what/why this happened. With no response.
As you can see, I do think she was real,gut feeling, she was a first timer at this too. But at this point it does not matter.
I have been talking to someone else and seems to be going well.
Thanks for all the responses on this BTW.
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whiteflash: Please tell me what you think about this.
I am new to this online dating thing. Made me a profile and then looked at a few profiles. Next day I got a e-mail from one of the woman/profiles I was looking at.
Long story short, we started talking alot,,alot. Moved to Yahoo IM and was talking almost every night,for hours, for about 3 weeks. I gave her my phone number but she said she was too shy to call and she did not have a phone.
We talked about alot of very personell things and some intimate things and both agreed that we wanted to meet each other badly.This was to be a LTR and we had discussed this.
We was getting along extremely well.We always talked in the late nites and 3 nights ago we fianally decided for me to go to her Apartment to meet. I got an address and directions and was on my way. The last thing she said was "I like the sound of that hug. I will try to be laid back and relaxed as you are."
Well It was mid-nite BTW and about a 20 minute drive in 20 degree wheather. But I was on my way. I found the address right where she said it would be. But it was no Apartment. It was a very dark house out in the middle of nowhere.
I turned around in the driveway and went back home.
I have been trying to ask her about this ever since but I get no response. I am totally baffled.
This is a nightmare.I spent alot of time talking with this woman.(IF it is a woman) I feel like I have been used and abused.
I am really bothered by this. Tell me what you think?
I am new to this online dating thing. Made me a profile and then looked at a few profiles. Next day I got a e-mail from one of the woman/profiles I was looking at.
Long story short, we started talking alot,,alot. Moved to Yahoo IM and was talking almost every night,for hours, for about 3 weeks. I gave her my phone number but she said she was too shy to call and she did not have a phone.
We talked about alot of very personell things and some intimate things and both agreed that we wanted to meet each other badly.This was to be a LTR and we had discussed this.
We was getting along extremely well.We always talked in the late nites and 3 nights ago we fianally decided for me to go to her Apartment to meet. I got an address and directions and was on my way. The last thing she said was "I like the sound of that hug. I will try to be laid back and relaxed as you are."
Well It was mid-nite BTW and about a 20 minute drive in 20 degree wheather. But I was on my way. I found the address right where she said it would be. But it was no Apartment. It was a very dark house out in the middle of nowhere.
I turned around in the driveway and went back home.
I have been trying to ask her about this ever since but I get no response. I am totally baffled.
This is a nightmare.I spent alot of time talking with this woman.(IF it is a woman) I feel like I have been used and abused.
I am really bothered by this. Tell me what you think?
I think that was very dangerous. Think yourself lucky you were not held hostage or killed by her or someone pretending to be her.
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i'd never go to someones house for a first time meet,no way
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That's why there's a great invention called "WebCam" & Skype.. I've known ppl who have called a guy "their bf" and never seen them on cam or talked to them, or it was only a brief conversation. Of course there's the issue of being spontaneous, risk taking but have to be careful these days..
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whiteflash: Please tell me what you think about this.
I am new to this online dating thing. Made me a profile and then looked at a few profiles. Next day I got a e-mail from one of the woman/profiles I was looking at.
Long story short, we started talking alot,,alot. Moved to Yahoo IM and was talking almost every night,for hours, for about 3 weeks. I gave her my phone number but she said she was too shy to call and she did not have a phone.
We talked about alot of very personell things and some intimate things and both agreed that we wanted to meet each other badly.This was to be a LTR and we had discussed this.
We was getting along extremely well.We always talked in the late nites and 3 nights ago we fianally decided for me to go to her Apartment to meet. I got an address and directions and was on my way. The last thing she said was "I like the sound of that hug. I will try to be laid back and relaxed as you are."
Well It was mid-nite BTW and about a 20 minute drive in 20 degree wheather. But I was on my way. I found the address right where she said it would be. But it was no Apartment. It was a very dark house out in the middle of nowhere.
I turned around in the driveway and went back home.
I have been trying to ask her about this ever since but I get no response. I am totally baffled.
This is a nightmare.I spent alot of time talking with this woman.(IF it is a woman) I feel like I have been used and abused.
I am really bothered by this. Tell me what you think?
I am new to this online dating thing. Made me a profile and then looked at a few profiles. Next day I got a e-mail from one of the woman/profiles I was looking at.
Long story short, we started talking alot,,alot. Moved to Yahoo IM and was talking almost every night,for hours, for about 3 weeks. I gave her my phone number but she said she was too shy to call and she did not have a phone.
We talked about alot of very personell things and some intimate things and both agreed that we wanted to meet each other badly.This was to be a LTR and we had discussed this.
We was getting along extremely well.We always talked in the late nites and 3 nights ago we fianally decided for me to go to her Apartment to meet. I got an address and directions and was on my way. The last thing she said was "I like the sound of that hug. I will try to be laid back and relaxed as you are."
Well It was mid-nite BTW and about a 20 minute drive in 20 degree wheather. But I was on my way. I found the address right where she said it would be. But it was no Apartment. It was a very dark house out in the middle of nowhere.
I turned around in the driveway and went back home.
I have been trying to ask her about this ever since but I get no response. I am totally baffled.
This is a nightmare.I spent alot of time talking with this woman.(IF it is a woman) I feel like I have been used and abused.
I am really bothered by this. Tell me what you think?
Lucky you didn't get robbed ..or worse .....
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You said sorry to someone who gave you the run around
You're too nice, she/he...or whatever is just not worth the time it takes to send an email.
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I suggest to women or men, dont make a dating on night first. Try it at noon first, after we know each other we can make a date at night
whiteflash: Please tell me what you think about this.
I am new to this online dating thing. Made me a profile and then looked at a few profiles. Next day I got a e-mail from one of the woman/profiles I was looking at.
Long story short, we started talking alot,,alot. Moved to Yahoo IM and was talking almost every night,for hours, for about 3 weeks. I gave her my phone number but she said she was too shy to call and she did not have a phone.
We talked about alot of very personell things and some intimate things and both agreed that we wanted to meet each other badly.This was to be a LTR and we had discussed this.
We was getting along extremely well.We always talked in the late nites and 3 nights ago we fianally decided for me to go to her Apartment to meet. I got an address and directions and was on my way. The last thing she said was "I like the sound of that hug. I will try to be laid back and relaxed as you are."
Well It was mid-nite BTW and about a 20 minute drive in 20 degree wheather. But I was on my way. I found the address right where she said it would be. But it was no Apartment. It was a very dark house out in the middle of nowhere.
I turned around in the driveway and went back home.
I have been trying to ask her about this ever since but I get no response. I am totally baffled.
This is a nightmare.I spent alot of time talking with this woman.(IF it is a woman) I feel like I have been used and abused.
I am really bothered by this. Tell me what you think?
I am new to this online dating thing. Made me a profile and then looked at a few profiles. Next day I got a e-mail from one of the woman/profiles I was looking at.
Long story short, we started talking alot,,alot. Moved to Yahoo IM and was talking almost every night,for hours, for about 3 weeks. I gave her my phone number but she said she was too shy to call and she did not have a phone.
We talked about alot of very personell things and some intimate things and both agreed that we wanted to meet each other badly.This was to be a LTR and we had discussed this.
We was getting along extremely well.We always talked in the late nites and 3 nights ago we fianally decided for me to go to her Apartment to meet. I got an address and directions and was on my way. The last thing she said was "I like the sound of that hug. I will try to be laid back and relaxed as you are."
Well It was mid-nite BTW and about a 20 minute drive in 20 degree wheather. But I was on my way. I found the address right where she said it would be. But it was no Apartment. It was a very dark house out in the middle of nowhere.
I turned around in the driveway and went back home.
I have been trying to ask her about this ever since but I get no response. I am totally baffled.
This is a nightmare.I spent alot of time talking with this woman.(IF it is a woman) I feel like I have been used and abused.
I am really bothered by this. Tell me what you think?
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