How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom? ( Archived) (33)

Dec 16, 2009 2:26 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
sjanean
sjaneansjaneanSavannah, Georgia USA2 Threads 5 Posts
After being left will absolutely nothing, and my ex-husband cheating, I've healed from most of it and am getting back on my own feet again for my 2 year old daughter and I now. And I have not yet started dating - I want to wait at least a year- lol! That's what everyone tells me -to wait at least a year, it's been 6 months. Anyway my question is how hard is it honestly to find an awesome man who is willing to accept both you and a child as a package? confused
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Dec 16, 2009 2:29 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
sjanean: After being left will absolutely nothing, and my ex-husband cheating, I've healed from most of it and am getting back on my own feet again for my 2 year old daughter and I now. And I have not yet started dating - I want to wait at least a year- lol! That's what everyone tells me -to wait at least a year, it's been 6 months. Anyway my question is how hard is it honestly to find an awesome man who is willing to accept both you and a child as a package?


I dont think its hard at all to date a single mom

there are men out there that wouldnt have a problem with it..

I came here over a year ago and my husband had 2 daughters and i have 2 sons..

Just be careful and dont date to soon if its on the rebound..

but there are men out there who are decent and will love to have you and ur child as a package..

Merry Christmas to you and much luckbouquet
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Dec 16, 2009 2:33 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
sjanean
sjaneansjaneanSavannah, Georgia USA2 Threads 5 Posts
I know about the rebound thing and it's not my cup of tea...lol. I want to offer stability to my future partner and know that too much emotional baggage will ruin a realtionship. Also i'm looking out for my daughter and I's BEST INTERESTS, and I know that at the right time it will happen wink Thanks for the reply!
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Dec 16, 2009 2:34 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
sjanean: I know about the rebound thing and it's not my cup of tea...lol. I want to offer stability to my future partner and know that too much emotional baggage will ruin a realtionship. Also i'm looking out for my daughter and I's BEST INTERESTS, and I know that at the right time it will happen Thanks for the reply!


It will just do what you are doing..join in the forums and meet some great people..

I met my husband here..so there is great men herewave
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Dec 16, 2009 2:35 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
amelie13
amelie13amelie13Sydney, New South Wales Australia16 Threads 3 Polls 327 Posts
sjanean: After being left will absolutely nothing, and my ex-husband cheating, I've healed from most of it and am getting back on my own feet again for my 2 year old daughter and I now. And I have not yet started dating - I want to wait at least a year- lol! That's what everyone tells me -to wait at least a year, it's been 6 months. Anyway my question is how hard is it honestly to find an awesome man who is willing to accept both you and a child as a package?


I guess it's different for everyone, but I work with about 8 single guys who are meeting girls from online dating sites & meeting a single mum is no problem for them. I also work with 2 girls who had very young children and met and married guys who they met online. From what I'm hearing it's not an obstacle.
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Dec 18, 2009 9:41 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
I married a woman with 3 kids when I got married, after 8 years she left and I still had the kids plus two of my own.
now at my age every woman out there is a single mom.
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Dec 19, 2009 3:30 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
Lammycool
LammycoolLammycoolKöln, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany29 Threads 5 Polls 372 Posts
In response to: After being left will absolutely nothing, and my ex-husband cheating, I've healed from most of it and am getting back on my own feet again for my 2 year old daughter and I now. And I have not yet started dating - I want to wait at least a year- lol! That's what everyone tells me -to wait at least a year, it's been 6 months. Anyway my question is how hard is it honestly to find an awesome man who is willing to accept both you and a child as a package?


I would have no prob with it. If the Kids accept me and I can accept the Kids, why not give a chance? But if there is a prob, maybe she say yes, but the Kids say no, I would stop it.
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Dec 19, 2009 3:34 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000Michael211_2000Houston, Texas USA22 Threads 5 Polls 775 Posts
I hear that Tiger Woods will be single again soon... and he seems to have a thing for blonde caucasian women at that! dunno

Coincidence, or providence? Hmmmmm.... tongue

- Michael dancing
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Dec 19, 2009 3:43 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
you are sooo young, be selective ,goodluckwine
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Dec 19, 2009 3:50 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
blueeyes1950
blueeyes1950blueeyes1950forbes, New South Wales Australia10 Posts
when the right one comes along, it will make no difference to him at all, a package yes,.
so good luck for the new year , he is out there , take your time,.
if you rush into things too soon you will make bad choices , so just enjoy life till that time arrives for you.
merry xmas . from down under,.teddybear
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Dec 19, 2009 3:54 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
MiamiPetey
MiamiPeteyMiamiPeteySaint Julians, Majjistral Malta7 Threads 122 Posts
sjanean: After being left will absolutely nothing, and my ex-husband cheating, I've healed from most of it and am getting back on my own feet again for my 2 year old daughter and I now. And I have not yet started dating - I want to wait at least a year- lol! That's what everyone tells me -to wait at least a year, it's been 6 months. Anyway my question is how hard is it honestly to find an awesome man who is willing to accept both you and a child as a package?



I don't think hard at all.If he is sincere and loves you he will accept your package and will love your kid too.Take care.hug
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Dec 19, 2009 4:01 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
sjanean: After being left will absolutely nothing, and my ex-husband cheating, I've healed from most of it and am getting back on my own feet again for my 2 year old daughter and I now. And I have not yet started dating - I want to wait at least a year- lol! That's what everyone tells me -to wait at least a year, it's been 6 months. Anyway my question is how hard is it honestly to find an awesome man who is willing to accept both you and a child as a package?


Easy! cool
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Dec 19, 2009 6:48 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
sjanean: After being left will absolutely nothing, and my ex-husband cheating, I've healed from most of it and am getting back on my own feet again for my 2 year old daughter and I now. And I have not yet started dating - I want to wait at least a year- lol! That's what everyone tells me -to wait at least a year, it's been 6 months. Anyway my question is how hard is it honestly to find an awesome man who is willing to accept both you and a child as a package?


Its very different here, the guys know you have a kid, they run for the hills.
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Dec 19, 2009 8:32 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
Lammycool
LammycoolLammycoolKöln, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany29 Threads 5 Polls 372 Posts
navygirl1: Its very different here, the guys know you have a kid, they run for the hills.


Not all navygirl, not all.
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Dec 19, 2009 8:43 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
itsallme112
itsallme112itsallme112Surrey, British Columbia Canada78 Threads 11 Polls 441 Posts
It all depends on the type of characters you date. Everyone is different so you need time to find the right guy. You have an advantage over most on this site because of your age. Never-the- less, you still have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince. Hang in there and mark my words.santa waving
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Dec 19, 2009 8:58 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
Lammycool: Not all navygirl, not all.


Sorry, I meant here in Calgary not here on CS. Thought I better clarify that. doh
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Dec 19, 2009 9:01 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Kids don't scare me, although sometimes, their mothers do.laugh


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Dec 19, 2009 9:22 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
I don't know. do we have to do stuff and like stuff and do I have to share my stuff and then use your stuff or do we just keep our stuff seperate and make new stuff? This seems like a lot of stuff for having only just met you. I don't know, maybe I am happy with my stuff?

mumbling stupid voices
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Dec 19, 2009 9:53 PM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
Use to run when there was a single mom around, the thought of a relationship with her and her ex sent shivers up my spine, thing is had friends that would date single moms, so it's all in the connections I guess
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Dec 20, 2009 1:24 AM CST How hard is it really, to find someone willing to date a single mom?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
strict: you are sooo young, be selective ,goodluck


Young or older ...... people should be selective regardless. Why settle for second best at any age?
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