Hi there,its Starlite,I have a question to ask, can you please help? (51)
heck i think i know what i want but when i get it i don't want it. But then when i'm ready to try again i go after it and once again i was wrong. hahaha. I'll know for sure i've found him when i can be with him 24/7 and he doesn't get on my nerves. lol Heck, why bother, i have no answer for this question. SOMEONE HELP US BOTH! lol
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I know for me...All I ask for is someone who is as crazy as I am. Someone who will be my best friend and get wild with me doing the things that I do. If theres anyone out there who can truly hang with me, the sparks will never go out. Thats what I would do woth it. Just strive to keep the flames burning...never get caught up in the norm of the typical home life.
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I'm crazy,pick me,and I'm the best friend one could ever ask for.
So what do ya think...lol
And fire,I'm burning,honest....lol
So what do ya think...lol
And fire,I'm burning,honest....lol
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I know that starlite, you keep this forum burning hot!
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If the forum was so hot,you couldn't touch the keys.Its me that wants to be hot...lol,I really made a funny didn't I?
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hey crazy what does she need to do ,hit ya over the head with a bat?
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Nice tangent, but back to Star's question -- you have it, what do you do with it?
I don't know either - I look at couples who are happy and have lasted years and years --- mainly that I see is that they are friends - best-friends -- and partners - he cooks, she cleans (or she cooks, he cleans); she does laundry, he takes the dog to the vet ... I don't know - they are just supportive and "there" for each other as well as compatible on the "energy" scale - if one's lazy and the other not -- problems will ensue (trust me on that one!)...
I don't know either - I look at couples who are happy and have lasted years and years --- mainly that I see is that they are friends - best-friends -- and partners - he cooks, she cleans (or she cooks, he cleans); she does laundry, he takes the dog to the vet ... I don't know - they are just supportive and "there" for each other as well as compatible on the "energy" scale - if one's lazy and the other not -- problems will ensue (trust me on that one!)...
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That's all very well Cathy, but what you are talking about really is just how two people can survive together,
can live side by side together, and survive, which is
not the surprisingly serious question that our
gamesmistress originially asked. Starlite wrote:
"Now you have it,what do you do with it? And where do you want it to take you?"
Now I take that as asking not how you are simply going to survive, but what are you going to DO, and where are you going to GO, where will it take you. That is a pretty heavy question. Personally I admire couples who work together to do something after they get together. You've all seen couples who are perhaps almost too cute with their little mission, project,
or thing they do together. Well, too cute or not,
I'd like to be part of one. I have my own slightly
too large and a bit too fuzzy set of goals, and I imagine meeting someone else like that, and finding a narrow and more approachable project where they intersect, something we could do together.
dpw
can live side by side together, and survive, which is
not the surprisingly serious question that our
gamesmistress originially asked. Starlite wrote:
"Now you have it,what do you do with it? And where do you want it to take you?"
Now I take that as asking not how you are simply going to survive, but what are you going to DO, and where are you going to GO, where will it take you. That is a pretty heavy question. Personally I admire couples who work together to do something after they get together. You've all seen couples who are perhaps almost too cute with their little mission, project,
or thing they do together. Well, too cute or not,
I'd like to be part of one. I have my own slightly
too large and a bit too fuzzy set of goals, and I imagine meeting someone else like that, and finding a narrow and more approachable project where they intersect, something we could do together.
dpw
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You are right, dpw, I was talking about coexistance ... but I said that I don't know about the GO part ...
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With regard to missions ... my step-father & his new wife grow veggies, herbs and other plants ... and sell them at a local farmers market all summer long ... it is really cute and they enjoy doing it together ... is that an answer? I, too, wish to be part of something bigger than me ...
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With regard to missions ... my step-father & his new wife grow veggies, herbs and other plants ... and sell them at a local farmers market all summer long ... it is really cute and they enjoy doing it together ... is that an answer? I, too, wish to be part of something bigger than me ...
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I'll take on changing the world. I am ready, willing, and, I believe, able. I was captured by the question, "Do we really know what we want?" All the rest comes after, in my humble opinion. I do not change what I want after I get it, although I have gone through some changes in life. I know what I want. Now, how do I get it? ;) Keep trying. And should I review my profile, I wonder, and make some changes? Have I made my desires clear? Hmmm... maybe I'll start my own post on that one! I don't want to hog this spotlight, but I'd love some input on the impression people get of me when they read my profile.
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The answer is simpler than you realise. It's Jesus. Period. The rest is just what we do while we are here for a brief season....
Marc
Marc
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Thanks toi all that answered,and I will always know that what you cant have is what is worth getting, in the long run,so the saying you get what you are ever so patiently waiting for is on it way,just justifies, that be who you are looking for all that you can be and you just might get what it is you a are looking for,if not ,hope the journey was all it could be,becaues life is a opem book,and ever page has new words!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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starlitesbritewell lets see u know that looks can be diceiving andactions speak lounder than words so u have to try a person to realy see if their words match up to what they say they r like getting to know them frist of all their u go darlin this will be a start have a great day .........truely jpfishvirgo...
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I think that we will never know what will make us happy until it happens.
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Its not doing what with it when you get it,its getting it and the work your willing to do to keep it alive.
I know from life experiance that life isn't as complex as most make it out to be.
I am strong enough to know,and open enough to be willing to expolore possablities,just not willing to settle,not a big menu,but one with morals,trust,honesty and committment in all aspects of the word.
I can live with myself,and except all of who I am,having lived and learnd,still always doing so,now its up to sharing,but only with the right one,and that will be,at the right time,whenever that may be,no rush,no hurry,I am a patient woman,not a desperate woman.I already have many life gifts,so any others that come into my space are all just added bonus"s,and are welcome and appreciated.
I know from life experiance that life isn't as complex as most make it out to be.
I am strong enough to know,and open enough to be willing to expolore possablities,just not willing to settle,not a big menu,but one with morals,trust,honesty and committment in all aspects of the word.
I can live with myself,and except all of who I am,having lived and learnd,still always doing so,now its up to sharing,but only with the right one,and that will be,at the right time,whenever that may be,no rush,no hurry,I am a patient woman,not a desperate woman.I already have many life gifts,so any others that come into my space are all just added bonus"s,and are welcome and appreciated.
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Cherie, great question! I for one am looking for that one special person that will truly wish to spend the rest of her life with me and not look around corners maybe thinking that there could have been something else. As my profile says, I’m looking for someone naturally beautiful inside and out. One who can be honest every day of our lives and not have any hidden agenda’s.
Once I find this person, I will reciprocate her love and her caring demeanor letting her know how much she means to me. Every waking moment I will in some way let her know just how special she is no mater what time of day it is.
Call it a fairytale romance and possible unrealistic if you will but, this is what I seek and this go around I will not short myself.
Once I find this person, I will reciprocate her love and her caring demeanor letting her know how much she means to me. Every waking moment I will in some way let her know just how special she is no mater what time of day it is.
Call it a fairytale romance and possible unrealistic if you will but, this is what I seek and this go around I will not short myself.
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Fantasy was meant to be reality Bill,so never change your train of thought,or what it is you want,and how you maintaine it.Life is what you make it,so why shoulnd;t it be the best it can,it should be.
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Cherie, I agree whole heartedly! Without our dreams we have nothing but with dream set too high we also have nothing. I don’t think my vision of my future relationship is set too low or too high.
Oh, thanks for you kind words in your flower gram Cherie! A hug and a kiss to ya.
Oh, thanks for you kind words in your flower gram Cherie! A hug and a kiss to ya.
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We all "think" we know what will make us content,and have a ever lasting exsistance of togetherness with total contentment,with all the love, and togetherness one can ask for.
Now you have it,what do you do with it?And where do you want it to take you?
Your imput will be much appreciated, thanks and all the best to all of you that continue to respond to my posts.