Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken? ( Archived) (180)

Jan 3, 2010 3:53 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
HJFinAZ: After a short while together, the real "her" came out. He found out she forgot to check her baggage..

She forgot to turn the page in the history book..



You rambeling again.....mumbling
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Jan 3, 2010 3:55 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy: Just curious to know this....
It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it!
What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him....
Something different maybe?????



I don't think I did like someone on this site and found out they were already taken.
At the time I first join this site I wasn't interested in looking for someone at the time anyway.


You can have an interest in someone off dating sites and find out they're already taken.Some seem to hide the fact they are already taken pretty good by faking it.
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Jan 3, 2010 3:57 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Catsy: Don´t be silly Pat....or don´t you recognize me???????
Tooooooo funny dear!
How have you been????????


The ONLY time I have not been silly was long ago when I sent you an email..wink

"NEVER" take life to seriously, it ain't permanent..dancing
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Jan 3, 2010 3:59 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
stefonline: You rambeling again.....


Well, ya know I am old and senile, what do you expect.dunno

At least I ain't drooling on the keyboard (yet)..grin
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Jan 3, 2010 4:00 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Catsy: Don´t be silly Pat....or don´t you recognize me???????
Tooooooo funny dear!
How have you been????????


PS.......... I AM NOT taken..wink

grin
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Jan 3, 2010 4:03 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
somechick: I don't think I did like someone on this site and found out they were already taken.
At the time I first join this site I wasn't interested in looking for someone at the time anyway.You can have an interest in someone off dating sites and find out they're already taken.Some seem to hide the fact they are already taken pretty good by faking it.


I agree with you 100%.....
This certain person "was", I guess looking...not sure....and "I believe" has found somebody else...just my luck, right?
Thanks, for sharing sweet bouquet
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Jan 3, 2010 4:06 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
HJFinAZ: PS.......... I AM NOT taken..


Now, that´s INCREDIBLE, as sweet as YOU are!!!!!!
I´m dashing over to Arizona then...may take me awhile...but I´m coming dear!teddybear
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Jan 3, 2010 4:11 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Catsy: Now, that´s INCREDIBLE, as sweet as YOU are!!!!!!
I´m dashing over to Arizona then...may take me awhile...but I´m coming dear!



Hi Cat...

If he's taken....move swiftly on and dont waste any more time pondering.....plenty more fish in the sea.....hug
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Jan 3, 2010 4:16 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
stefonline: Hi Cat...

If he's taken....move swiftly on and dont waste any more time pondering.....plenty more fish in the sea.....


You´re right Stef....I guess I was just dumb, and got hung up on the wrong person!
But I sure will move on...and not make a big deal of it either,
THANKS for your Advice Sweetie!bouquet
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Jan 3, 2010 4:23 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
honeybee06: 's u tell us more...
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Jan 3, 2010 4:48 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
Not only have I liked someone from this site but was chatting regularly to where I thought there might be something between us, only to have an announcement show up in the forums that he was officially a couple with someone else.

This actually happened several times so I gave up.
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Jan 3, 2010 4:54 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Catsy: Just curious to know this....
It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it!
What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him....
Something different maybe?????


I have liked many members that have been spoken for but not in the sense of wanting an intimate relationship, no.

I would not entertain getting together with someone who is already attached, it invariably leads to heartache. Chances are it will be a huge ego-boost for him and I would prefer to maintain my dignity.....?!

What do you mean you can't do anything about it?! confused

YOU CAN!!

bouquet
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Jan 3, 2010 5:00 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Assets52: Not only have I liked someone from this site but was chatting regularly to where I thought there might be something between us, only to have an announcement show up in the forums that he was officially a couple with someone else.

This actually happened several times so I gave up.
NIL DESPORUNDUMcomfort sad flower
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Jan 3, 2010 5:02 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Assets52: Not only have I liked someone from this site but was chatting regularly to where I thought there might be something between us, only to have an announcement show up in the forums that he was officially a couple with someone else.

This actually happened several times so I gave up.


I guess this happens a lot given that most people probably maintain contact with a variety of people here.

The crucial thing is to differentiate between friendly banter and serious interest, that´s what seems to be difficult for some.

It´s one of the reasons I´ve never emailed all and sundry. I don´t want anyone to think writing to them because I have a romantic interest. Sad, but it happens, people do get the wrong idea, particularly after a lengthy correspondence time.
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Jan 3, 2010 5:14 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
roseofsharon: I have liked many members that have been spoken for but not in the sense of wanting an intimate relationship, no.

I would not entertain getting together with someone who is already attached, it invariably leads to heartache. Chances are it will be a huge ego-boost for him and I would prefer to maintain my dignity.....?!

What do you mean you can't do anything about it?!

YOU CAN!!


Thanks Rose...all I CAN do is forget, no he has´nt been attached in years....now it seems he wants to....he has kind of told me he likes me alot....
Maybe the distance scares him....don´t know...
But I am not wasting my time now....
I refuse to be somebody elses second dish, in case this one does´nt work out.
Thank You once more Sweetiebouquet
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Jan 3, 2010 5:18 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
JAN_is: I guess this happens a lot given that most people probably maintain contact with a variety of people here.

The crucial thing is to differentiate between friendly banter and serious interest, that´s what seems to be difficult for some.

It´s one of the reasons I´ve never emailed all and sundry. I don´t want anyone to think writing to them because I have a romantic interest. Sad, but it happens, people do get the wrong idea, particularly after a lengthy correspondence time.


Yes Jan, you are so right, I agree with you!
Thanks for your Advice too!teddybear
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Jan 3, 2010 5:25 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Assets52: Not only have I liked someone from this site but was chatting regularly to where I thought there might be something between us, only to have an announcement show up in the forums that he was officially a couple with someone else.

This actually happened several times so I gave up.
Same here I had one also not long ago.
But it's not our fault when these type of dishonest players do us this way.comfort And some day they will do it again to the new mate I'm sure.
I have no desire for a player like him, I just count my blessings I didn't get stuck with him.laugh wine
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Jan 3, 2010 5:28 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Catsy: Thanks Rose...all I CAN do is forget, no he has´nt been attached in years....now it seems he wants to....he has kind of told me he likes me alot....
Maybe the distance scares him....don´t know...
But I am not wasting my time now....
I refuse to be somebody elses second dish, in case this one does´nt work out.
Thank You once more Sweetie


Of course, I could've said what you wanted to hear, love, but it wouldn't have been the least bit helpful, would it?!

You seem a delightful lady and I have no doubt you deserve much better. Don't under-value yourself, that special man you eventually find WON'T?!!

bouquet
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Jan 3, 2010 5:39 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
roseofsharon: Of course, I could've said what you wanted to hear, love, but it wouldn't have been the least bit helpful, would it?!

You seem a delightful lady and I have no doubt you deserve much better. Don't under-value yourself, that special man you eventually find WON'T?!!


Thank you Rose....I love your sane advice...
You seem so sweet...and give honest good advice....
Huggies to you!kiss
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Jan 3, 2010 5:42 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Catsy: Thank you Rose....I love your sane advice...
You seem so sweet...and give honest good advice....
Huggies to you!


Ohhh yesss.... I'm only here to inject some sanity into the proceedings....!!
rolling on the floor laughing

All the best to you, here's hoping 2010 is YOUR year, yeah?! thumbs up
bouquet
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