Catsy: Just curious to know this.... It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it! What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him.... Something different maybe?????
I don't think I did like someone on this site and found out they were already taken. At the time I first join this site I wasn't interested in looking for someone at the time anyway.
You can have an interest in someone off dating sites and find out they're already taken.Some seem to hide the fact they are already taken pretty good by faking it.
somechick: I don't think I did like someone on this site and found out they were already taken. At the time I first join this site I wasn't interested in looking for someone at the time anyway.You can have an interest in someone off dating sites and find out they're already taken.Some seem to hide the fact they are already taken pretty good by faking it.
I agree with you 100%..... This certain person "was", I guess looking...not sure....and "I believe" has found somebody else...just my luck, right? Thanks, for sharing sweet
If he's taken....move swiftly on and dont waste any more time pondering.....plenty more fish in the sea.....
You´re right Stef....I guess I was just dumb, and got hung up on the wrong person! But I sure will move on...and not make a big deal of it either, THANKS for your Advice Sweetie!
Not only have I liked someone from this site but was chatting regularly to where I thought there might be something between us, only to have an announcement show up in the forums that he was officially a couple with someone else.
This actually happened several times so I gave up.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
Catsy: Just curious to know this.... It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it! What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him.... Something different maybe?????
I have liked many members that have been spoken for but not in the sense of wanting an intimate relationship, no.
I would not entertain getting together with someone who is already attached, it invariably leads to heartache. Chances are it will be a huge ego-boost for him and I would prefer to maintain my dignity.....?!
Assets52: Not only have I liked someone from this site but was chatting regularly to where I thought there might be something between us, only to have an announcement show up in the forums that he was officially a couple with someone else.
This actually happened several times so I gave up.
Assets52: Not only have I liked someone from this site but was chatting regularly to where I thought there might be something between us, only to have an announcement show up in the forums that he was officially a couple with someone else.
This actually happened several times so I gave up.
I guess this happens a lot given that most people probably maintain contact with a variety of people here.
The crucial thing is to differentiate between friendly banter and serious interest, that´s what seems to be difficult for some.
It´s one of the reasons I´ve never emailed all and sundry. I don´t want anyone to think writing to them because I have a romantic interest. Sad, but it happens, people do get the wrong idea, particularly after a lengthy correspondence time.
roseofsharon: I have liked many members that have been spoken for but not in the sense of wanting an intimate relationship, no.
I would not entertain getting together with someone who is already attached, it invariably leads to heartache. Chances are it will be a huge ego-boost for him and I would prefer to maintain my dignity.....?!
What do you mean you can't do anything about it?!
YOU CAN!!
Thanks Rose...all I CAN do is forget, no he has´nt been attached in years....now it seems he wants to....he has kind of told me he likes me alot.... Maybe the distance scares him....don´t know... But I am not wasting my time now.... I refuse to be somebody elses second dish, in case this one does´nt work out. Thank You once more Sweetie
JAN_is: I guess this happens a lot given that most people probably maintain contact with a variety of people here.
The crucial thing is to differentiate between friendly banter and serious interest, that´s what seems to be difficult for some.
It´s one of the reasons I´ve never emailed all and sundry. I don´t want anyone to think writing to them because I have a romantic interest. Sad, but it happens, people do get the wrong idea, particularly after a lengthy correspondence time.
Yes Jan, you are so right, I agree with you! Thanks for your Advice too!
Assets52: Not only have I liked someone from this site but was chatting regularly to where I thought there might be something between us, only to have an announcement show up in the forums that he was officially a couple with someone else.
This actually happened several times so I gave up.
Same here I had one also not long ago. But it's not our fault when these type of dishonest players do us this way. And some day they will do it again to the new mate I'm sure. I have no desire for a player like him, I just count my blessings I didn't get stuck with him.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
Catsy: Thanks Rose...all I CAN do is forget, no he has´nt been attached in years....now it seems he wants to....he has kind of told me he likes me alot.... Maybe the distance scares him....don´t know... But I am not wasting my time now.... I refuse to be somebody elses second dish, in case this one does´nt work out. Thank You once more Sweetie
Of course, I could've said what you wanted to hear, love, but it wouldn't have been the least bit helpful, would it?!
You seem a delightful lady and I have no doubt you deserve much better. Don't under-value yourself, that special man you eventually find WON'T?!!
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She forgot to turn the page in the history book..
You rambeling again.....