If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married? ( Archived) (46)

Jan 12, 2010 1:36 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
Nope...
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Jan 12, 2010 3:43 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
ogdensburgbabe
ogdensburgbabeogdensburgbabeogdensburg, New York USA18 Threads 801 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?


I would say that marriage is not necessary for the contented upbringing of a child, especially if the parents are not in love and dont really want to be together.

Obviously, they should have taken better contraceptive precautions, but as long as the child is safe and happy, thats the most important thing; whether it is brought up by one or both parents..
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Jan 12, 2010 4:30 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
Omurchu65
Omurchu65Omurchu65Dundalk, Louth Ireland14 Threads 509 Posts
heavensmile: to get pregnant, u must marry first, and to marry someone, we must love our patner.



cheers cheers Well said and i applaud your values

What sort of person would get pregnant before Marraige dunno


If it did happen the Yes the Woman should certainly get married as soon as possible and hopefully to the father


tut tut tut human society is tearing itself apart
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Jan 12, 2010 4:36 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
isa000
isa000isa000dublin, Dublin Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 93 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?


no its not like years ago
where you had to get married anymore
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Jan 12, 2010 4:39 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
chunkypie
chunkypiechunkypielondon, Essex, England UK25 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?


If your not in love then Noooo, Nooooooo, Nooooo and Nooooo again
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Jan 12, 2010 4:44 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
No. I made this mistake. I would not recommend it.

You can raise a child without marriage.thumbs up
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Jan 12, 2010 8:35 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
heavensmile: to get pregnant, u must marry first, and to marry someone, we must love our patner.
dunno it may work in only asain culture comfort
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Jan 12, 2010 8:50 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
sxynite69
sxynite69sxynite69Greensboro, North Carolina USA4 Threads 259 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?


I suppose if her Daddy's got a shotgun on your back....YES!! rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 12, 2010 9:30 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
If a couple becomes pregnant? - I'd call that a civil union?laugh
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Jan 12, 2010 9:33 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
Nope
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Jan 12, 2010 9:34 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
No............I did this as well and it was a mistake. I got married for the worng reasons.
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Jan 12, 2010 9:38 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
heavensmile: if no love, why pregnant?


That's the real question.
The time to think is before getting into that situation, not after.
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Jan 12, 2010 9:40 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
MzDcent
MzDcentMzDcentSydney, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 1 Polls 93 Posts
RayfromUSA: That's the real question.
The time to think is before getting into that situation, not after.
thumbs up
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Jan 12, 2010 9:41 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?


Oh God NO! If you think raising a child is hard, trying doing it while in a loveless marriage.

In today's society, a child can be raised by both parents without a marriage license.
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Jan 12, 2010 9:52 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
Icymanx
IcymanxIcymanxStellarton, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 2 Polls 193 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
If there is a child born ,you are married ,maybe not on paper but through your child you are!Not saying to legaly get the paper work done but give it your best shot the longer the relationship lasts the better you will know what dirrection to take.
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Jan 12, 2010 9:55 PM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Mirr0rMirr0r: If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?


If a couple becomes pregnant it's because they're switch-hitters and living two very seperate lives .........doh
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Jan 13, 2010 12:28 AM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
Sammmmmi
SammmmmiSammmmmiGreen Sea, South Carolina USA1 Posts
no they shouldnt because it'll end very fast
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Jan 13, 2010 1:01 AM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,702 Posts
No smoking

popcorn



"And please don't confuse my point of view with cynicism; cynics are the ones who tell you everything's gonna be all right." ~George Carlin, Brain Droppings
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Jan 13, 2010 1:40 AM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
Nos_91
Nos_91Nos_91Craig, Colorado USA4 Threads 57 Posts
if you are deeply religious and your religion calls for it, then go ahead, but I think aside from religion and or a shotgun pressed to your temple, then it is a No, My parents did not love each other, but for the sake of my brother and I they got married, all they ever did was fight, trust me, my brother and I would have been a hell of a lot happier without having to see/hear that crap growing up, they got divorced and live happily with other people now, so yea, unless there is someone forcing you to do it at gun point, I would say No
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Jan 13, 2010 4:57 AM CST If a couple becomes pregnant but are not in love, should they still get married?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
RayfromUSA: That's the real question.
The time to think is before getting into that situation, not after.
thumbs up agree
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