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Aug 14, 2006 3:09 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
What exactly does "mid-life" crisis mean to you?...Do men really go through this...or is it an excuse to have a "last hurrah" before age catches up with them?...

This term generally applies to men...but in your opinion, do women go through mid-life crisis?
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Aug 14, 2006 3:34 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
urbanmyth
urbanmythurbanmythEDINBURGH, Lothian, Scotland UK10 Threads 435 Posts
well it's not an urban myth...


I prefer having a 'life-long crisis'...I'm all for staying-power.


-Myth
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Aug 14, 2006 3:37 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
urbanmyth
urbanmythurbanmythEDINBURGH, Lothian, Scotland UK10 Threads 435 Posts
"The Doctors say that 'staying young' is something to do with your genes...well I'm telling you: it's what's -in- your jeans that keeps you young!"
- Paul Stanley

handshake comfort hug
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Aug 14, 2006 3:54 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
urbanmyth
urbanmythurbanmythEDINBURGH, Lothian, Scotland UK10 Threads 435 Posts
"Trouble with dreams is, a lot of them do come true. By the time they do, you've turned into somebody else. That's what happens with time... It's always been important to me, that my dream come true, when I wanted. We turned our dream into reality by not even really pursuing either one. We didn't pursue the dream and we certainly didn't pursue reality!"
-David Lee Roth
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Aug 14, 2006 3:57 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
i don't know about all men...but i know that when MY husband hit forty...he changed DRASTICALLY...started partying with younger folk...staying out all night...jumping off naked in a pool full of women...tore his ACL wrestling an 18-year-old and was out of work for five months...

these behaviors led to our divorce.
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Aug 14, 2006 3:58 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
thevisionary
thevisionarythevisionaryGarner, North Carolina USA20 Threads 460 Posts
What is a, "Mid-life crisis"? I stop counting at 25.
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Aug 14, 2006 4:03 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada655 Threads 4 Polls 6,091 Posts
I'm afraid i'm trying to figure it all out myself my friend...

because the fact is when he is in his mid-life crisis...I'm in my "prime"...go figure huh?...I guess miscommunication strikes again!
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Aug 14, 2006 4:23 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
Hiho Wikked, i guess the so called mid life crisis, may be in realising:
a) i´m loosing my hair
b) hell what kinda dragon i have at home
c) oops my thongs look funny on me with ma belt hanging over
d) i need a pocket mirror to feel my end

I´m gradeful not matching at least one of above, i wear shortsrolling on the floor laughing

Lutz
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Aug 14, 2006 4:26 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
grrrr...i was SOOOO picturing you in them thongs, lol...
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Aug 15, 2006 2:48 AM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
I went through the whole mid life crisis thing.

It's kinda like having your monthly visitor everyday of your life. Or should I say minute?

Women don't suffer it.
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Aug 15, 2006 3:05 AM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
women do suffer it sweetheart.......

especially those that have worked all their adult lives to build something whole and productive and have invested 25 years in a marriage and all of a sudden turn around and wonder

WHAT THE HELL HAVE I DONE ALL THIS FOR AND WHO AM I.....

because they found their partner cheating or no longer interested or woke up to realize they were never honestly in love or interested in the first place...it happens to people so attached to their belief systems and concepts about religion , family life , work and they seriously and sincerely BELIEVE ALL OF IT and then see what a lie it all was./is.


ok it doesn't happen to everyone but these are the strongest symptoms and characteristics of the syndrome...and guess where it happens most!!!!?!?!??!?!?!????????


you got it sweetie good ole USA ...why ??? because the society is so rigidly conditioned from the playpen TO BELIEVE. the great white myth
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Aug 15, 2006 3:09 AM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
Ah.....O.K.
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Aug 15, 2006 3:11 AM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
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seeeeeeeeeeeeee ya gotta be toasted man!!!!!!!!!! you agreed with me!!!!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 15, 2006 3:12 AM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
I'm toasted
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Aug 15, 2006 6:34 AM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
That was too easy, did you tranquelize first (sorry left dictionary at home)

As to mid life crisis, I hit my wall in the year coming up to 50 and still climbing the damn thing!
This next birthday will be hard too, it will be me reaching the age at which my dad died.
Throw in the menopause and a whole truckload of stuff I'm not prepared to talk about here and you have my life nutshelled and snapped shut.

As to men, who the heck knows, I don't much worry about them any more.

devil
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Aug 15, 2006 6:47 AM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
photofreek
photofreekphotofreeksoda springs, USA23 Threads 2,495 Posts
I already hit it and am still going through it. Does that mean my life is half over. LOL
I quit my job and went back to school into something that makes me happy instead of a nine to five job
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Aug 15, 2006 8:59 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
urbanmyth
urbanmythurbanmythEDINBURGH, Lothian, Scotland UK10 Threads 435 Posts
I was with a girl not terribly long ago and she said "Mr. Roth, I think you’re the oldest person I've ever been with." I said "Honey I was gonna say the same thing to you." - David Lee Roth
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Aug 15, 2006 9:01 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
Jonquille
JonquilleJonquillePeace is its own reward, Ontario Canada98 Threads 897 Posts
Oh my God - yeah, you've nailed it right there. cheers
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Aug 15, 2006 9:21 PM CST Mid-Life Crisis....is it just a myth??
EnigmaticExistnc
EnigmaticExistncEnigmaticExistncSouthCoast, British Columbia Canada8 Threads 802 Posts
Man-o-pause exists and I 've seen it many times to varying degrees. Some men are extreme and protest too much. They do the typical things - seeking younger women, buying hot cars or motorcycles, changing their wardrobes.
I think its common and somehow we as a society have become tolerent of it and consumerism benefits the most.
Does the same happen for women - I think we're catching up. Women are making choices that are less traditional all around and adopting the "midlife crisis" mentality is one of the big changes.
But its not all negative. It can be the real catalyst for change for people (men and women) who have previously made decisions based on their family's needs.

Roxanne
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