rosebud97: i would like to know what do you do when the person you are with does not like your family?
Educate them, family are always there for you. If the person your with has decided they don't like your family,find out WHY. DO THEY LIKE THEIRS. If they do not even like their own problems. Id walk away. This person has issues. Also people who want to control you, their first move is to get you cut of from your support,ie family and friends. BE CAREFUL
he doesn't have to like them to show face just straight out refusing to go with you when you visit to me is unacceptable not to mention embarrassing been there done that won't happen again .
patmac: Educate them, family are always there for you. If the person your with has decided they don't like your family,find out WHY. DO THEY LIKE THEIRS. If they do not even like their own problems. Id walk away. This person has issues. Also people who want to control you, their first move is to get you cut of from your support,ie family and friends. BE CAREFUL
Sorry, I don't agree with this...
Not all families are always there for you...
what if the family in question is totally dysfunctional???
rosebud97: i would like to know what do you do when the person you are with does not like your family?
I dont hink you have given enough info on this, in what way does he not like them?, and what are hes reasons. You need to broaden this out to get any real constructive feed back.
rosebud97: i would like to know what do you do when the person you are with does not like your family?
I could never go against my own flesh and blood ...no matter what they feel about me ...as for the Woman I am with... if we have real love between us ... well if she has a pet tarantula I would respect the spider ... the same applies to her
Olsojente: Sorry, I don't agree with this...Not all families are always there for you...
what if the family in question is totally dysfunctional???
Sorry, I'm going on the family I have and love. Assuming the best of others is a fault? of mine However if you had a totally disfunctional family you would not be asking the question. You'd get out at the first chance.I can only speak of the family I know they have been there for me through all my problems. They have backed me, told me I'm wrong, but always there for me.
Olsojente: Sorry, I don't agree with this...Not all families are always there for you...
what if the family in question is totally dysfunctional???
sawadee ka Olsojente,i must agree with u,families dont have to be totally dysfunctional but many are not exactly the 'perfect'example with what happens behind closed doors & the families themselves only'know'it.
patmac: Sorry, I'm going on the family I have and love. Assuming the best of others is a fault? of mine However if you had a totally disfunctional family you would not be asking the question. You'd get out at the first chance.I can only speak of the family I know they have been there for me through all my problems. They have backed me, told me I'm wrong, but always there for me.
sawadee ka patmac,yes that is u & your family & its very nice to hear.She is only talking in general terms as I am...what if?
patmac: Sorry, I'm going on the family I have and love. Assuming the best of others is a fault? of mine However if you had a totally disfunctional family you would not be asking the question. You'd get out at the first chance.I can only speak of the family I know they have been there for me through all my problems. They have backed me, told me I'm wrong, but always there for me.
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