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Jan 25, 2010 2:54 AM CST what do you do ?
rosebud97
rosebud97rosebud97del city, Oklahoma USA1 Threads 2 Posts
i would like to know what do you do when the person you are with does not like your family?
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Jan 25, 2010 2:56 AM CST what do you do ?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
Keep them apart?? dunno
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Jan 25, 2010 3:00 AM CST what do you do ?
wordsmith99
wordsmith99wordsmith99Lyon, Rhone-Alpes France2 Threads 399 Posts
No question - dump the man and run.
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Jan 25, 2010 3:02 AM CST what do you do ?
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
Well you can't change your family ...


so if you don't want to avoid your family for the rest of your life, that only leaves one other solution.

Sorry I know that's not likely what you wanted to hear.
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Jan 25, 2010 3:04 AM CST what do you do ?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
rosebud97: i would like to know what do you do when the person you are with does not like your family?
Educate them, family are always there for you. If the person your with has decided they don't like your family,find out
WHY.
DO THEY LIKE THEIRS.
If they do not even like their own problems. Id walk away.
This person has issues. Also people who want to control you, their first move is to get you cut of from your support,ie family and friends. BE CAREFUL
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Jan 25, 2010 3:28 AM CST what do you do ?
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
he doesn't have to like them to show face just straight out refusing to go with you when you visit to me is unacceptable not to mention embarrassing been there done that won't happen again .
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Jan 25, 2010 3:30 AM CST what do you do ?
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
wordsmith99: No question - dump the man and run.


or maybe dump the woman and run rolling on the floor laughing


Do your family run your happiness
innocent
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Jan 25, 2010 3:31 AM CST what do you do ?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
patmac: Educate them, family are always there for you. If the person your with has decided they don't like your family,find out
WHY.
DO THEY LIKE THEIRS.
If they do not even like their own problems. Id walk away.
This person has issues. Also people who want to control you, their first move is to get you cut of from your support,ie family and friends. BE CAREFUL




Sorry, I don't agree with this...


Not all families are always there for you...

what if the family in question is totally dysfunctional???
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Jan 25, 2010 3:37 AM CST what do you do ?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Pack your bags and move to St.Thomas professor heart beating
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Jan 25, 2010 3:39 AM CST what do you do ?
trurorob
trurorobtrurorobAlicante, Valencia Spain1,741 Posts
rosebud97: i would like to know what do you do when the person you are with does not like your family?
I dont hink you have given enough info on this, in what way does he not like them?, and what are hes reasons.
You need to broaden this out to get any real constructive feed back.
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Jan 25, 2010 3:39 AM CST what do you do ?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
rosebud97: i would like to know what do you do when the person you are with does not like your family?

I could never go against my own flesh and blood ...no matter what they feel about me ...as for the Woman I am with... if we have real love between us ... well if she has a pet tarantula I would respect the spider ... the same applies to her
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Jan 25, 2010 3:41 AM CST what do you do ?
caswinchmore
caswinchmorecaswinchmorepenrith, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 14 Posts
Tough one.. Are you close with your family?
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Jan 25, 2010 3:44 AM CST what do you do ?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Olsojente: Sorry, I don't agree with this...Not all families are always there for you...

what if the family in question is totally dysfunctional???
Sorry, I'm going on the family I have and love. Assuming the best of others is a fault? of mine However if you had a totally disfunctional family you would not be asking the question. You'd get out at the first chance.I can only speak of the family I know they have been there for me through all my problems. They have backed me, told me I'm wrong, but always there for me.
cheers
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Jan 25, 2010 3:44 AM CST what do you do ?
kanokwan
kanokwankanokwanPetchabun, Northern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
Olsojente: Sorry, I don't agree with this...Not all families are always there for you...

what if the family in question is totally dysfunctional???
sawadee ka Olsojente,i must agree with u,families dont have to be totally dysfunctional but many are not exactly the 'perfect'example with what happens behind closed doors & the families themselves only'know'it.conversing
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Jan 25, 2010 3:47 AM CST what do you do ?
fishitfun
fishitfunfishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait31 Threads 646 Posts
Let him go to hell !!rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 25, 2010 3:47 AM CST what do you do ?
kanokwan
kanokwankanokwanPetchabun, Northern Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 1,984 Posts
patmac: Sorry, I'm going on the family I have and love. Assuming the best of others is a fault? of mine However if you had a totally disfunctional family you would not be asking the question. You'd get out at the first chance.I can only speak of the family I know they have been there for me through all my problems. They have backed me, told me I'm wrong, but always there for me.
sawadee ka patmac,yes that is u & your family & its very nice to hear.She is only talking in general terms as I am...what if?conversing
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Jan 25, 2010 3:47 AM CST what do you do ?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
patmac: Sorry, I'm going on the family I have and love. Assuming the best of others is a fault? of mine However if you had a totally disfunctional family you would not be asking the question. You'd get out at the first chance.I can only speak of the family I know they have been there for me through all my problems. They have backed me, told me I'm wrong, but always there for me.


Oh, I'm not talking about mine...laugh

cheers


See you sat!!!
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Jan 25, 2010 4:08 AM CST what do you do ?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Olsojente: Oh, I'm not talking about mine...

See you sat!!!
I'll bring you some gincheers
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Jan 25, 2010 4:27 AM CST what do you do ?
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
patmac: I'll bring you some gin



yay

Great, as my plan is to be a bit spiritual....laugh
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Jan 25, 2010 4:49 AM CST what do you do ?
Milanda
MilandaMilandabangkok, Central Thailand Thailand1,129 Posts
jeepers: Pack your bags and move to St.Thomas
gotta go on the way jeeps super giggle
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