Do You Find Yourself Attracted To People Who Have The Qualities You Lack? (31)
Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts????? 
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so yes
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I do too. Not in an envious way but like an admiration.
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kind of...like-minded individuals, but who also can help me and vice-versa. like...someone who's good with tools and bad at cooking!
I'm afraid for falling for people who actually have strengths they could use against me.
and I try to stay away when I know the differences are emotional disparities I'm looking to compliment when I should really be working on them by myself
does that make any sense?
I'm afraid for falling for people who actually have strengths they could use against me.
and I try to stay away when I know the differences are emotional disparities I'm looking to compliment when I should really be working on them by myself
does that make any sense?
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Yup...you make total sense.
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If it is a good match between people then the weaknesses and strenghs of either person tend to balance each other out throughout time.
They may have qualities you lack but also lack qualities you have.
They may have qualities you lack but also lack qualities you have.
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i find myself attracted to the ones that i think have personalities that are strong enough to keep me from running right over the top of them.
these have a tendency to be a bit...wild.
most of my long-term relationships were with people that worked with their hands, however...my husband was an electrician...
i think that i'd be annoyed if my i had to go off of just MY strengths at times. if i was the only good cook, i'd decide i hated cooking. if he were the only one good at dishes...i might love it, but he's gonna get sick of it.
my best relationships were with those that were...similar enough to have things to discuss and do...and yet different enough for me to learn something from them.
these have a tendency to be a bit...wild.
most of my long-term relationships were with people that worked with their hands, however...my husband was an electrician...
i think that i'd be annoyed if my i had to go off of just MY strengths at times. if i was the only good cook, i'd decide i hated cooking. if he were the only one good at dishes...i might love it, but he's gonna get sick of it.
my best relationships were with those that were...similar enough to have things to discuss and do...and yet different enough for me to learn something from them.
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same here Lori i wanna learn things and teach also
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I know I do. At only 5'2", I definitely want someone taller LOL
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Sure.. And I a relationship functions better being able to complement each other with your different qualities..
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Well like they always say...Opposites attract.
Ya never know it could add a little spice to your life.
Ya never know it could add a little spice to your life.
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I can,t think of any that i,m lacking ?
Do manners count? 
Do manners count?
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Manners?What do ya need those for.Someone will just say you're being fake.
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Sometimes the influence of someone who is opposite is because usually their strong traits compliments your weaker traits and visa versa. What one isn't like the other is and together they blance each other out.
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Yes, i do. We can created a hell of a team.
EL Diablo
EL Diablo
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yup I agree with that....and for the most part I do tend to find myself attracted to my opposite.....even vice versa I tend to attract ones opposite of me too.....but it always seems to work out...
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I thought i was...but as it turns out those "qualities" were only hiding...
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Absolutely. Except for spelling...good spellers annoy me.
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You should like me then...I spelled "balance" wrong in my post..
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