it seems to me that most of the people here on CS are either looking for friends! or long distance pen pals! i dont think this is a relationship based site! Or else there are those wonderful folks who are not single,but do not change their profile! i guess in case something better comes along!
if you have not notice it is a free for all,some come looking for love,some come looking for friendship,some come looking for someone to talk to.some come for other reason.
but what ever the reason everyone is welcome in join in.
Have you done a search in your local vicinity? How many are really there? Weed out the ones who haven't logged on in over a month, eliminate those who do not meet your age prerequisite, disregard those with no pictures if you are picture based, then, tell me what you are left with.....
It is called strength in numbers my friend. After having done the above said process, I am left with friends and long distance pen pals.
True, I have changed my profile as of late....to reflect just such a reality.....but I came on here single and still single.
Do yourself a favour and take what you can get. If it means that you merely make friends, you are still ahead....
I have been here since March and came on here for that same purpose. For someone to take my hand and be willing to walk beside me through the rest of my life's journey. But to my amazement, yes I am still looking, but I have acqiired so many dear friends, that I never would have met if I had given up. I would not trade that for anything. If that special gentleman is out there I guarantee he will become my friend first.
God...guy you are really too nice to be out in public or anywhere else for that matter everytime you make a forum i read it and feel like i am going to be ill
PanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA643 posts
If you aim to find only one thing here, you probably end up finding nothing...because you are not allowing yourself to see beyond your controlled thoughts.
When you open your mind to be free....you find you have things in common with others, you can learn a few things, you can share an experience. Along that open minded path, you can find a friend that can touch your heart and become the special loved one for you.
I came here with the readyness for friendship...and have found many friends and interesting people, I can even find something positive in the ones that completely different from me and are full of sarcastic remarks...somewhere along the lines something intelligent will escape.
Love has not found me yet....but I found a whole new experience on this site.
catwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA6,683 posts
There are many different types of relationships and each person is looking for a unique partner and/or friendship, email friend, dating, marriage ect..............
Although an online site is probably incapable of weeding out who is married and who is not, there will always be players on the internet.
There are players out in the " real " world as well.
I am fortunate enough to have actually gotten out from behind the screen and met some wonderful people on this site, so, it does happen.
There are real people out there just like you and just like me, searching and hoping for the best.
Will it happen? I don't know, however, I like to think that I have made some wonderful new friends and who knows.............
i must say i was kind of shocked to read this thread from you. the email i got from you was nice and my profile states clearly i am no longer looking. why? because i met my life match here....so relationship site it is!
setfree11Gosport, Hampshire, England UK1,397 posts
Hey chill out man, your sooo negative in fact you turn my screen black, loosen up
Theres more to life than rules buddy, you really have some issues that arent really doing you any favours airing them here. Ive met a goddess here but it wasnt through posting like yours. You really need to relax a bit. I know start with the sock drawer, it really doesnt matter which pair you wear and on which day and move on from there, chill man.
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