Just lost a friend named Joe ( Archived) (122)

May 3, 2010 9:22 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
We had just found each other, and I messed things up by a question I asked.
I really was so happy to have met him. Then we IMd for the first time,
and I messed up. He was upset at me and signed up, and I could have cried.
Then I tried to IM, email, flower, it all and had been blocked.

All I could think of was to ask my best friends on here to write to him
and say I was sorry.

That is about it. It no longer lays in my hands, but I really liked him.

The Doberman3
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May 3, 2010 9:24 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
doberman3: We had just found each other, and I messed things up by a question I asked.
I really was so happy to have met him. Then we IMd for the first time,
and I messed up. He was upset at me and signed up, and I could have cried.
Then I tried to IM, email, flower, it all and had been blocked.

All I could think of was to ask my best friends on here to write to him
and say I was sorry.

That is about it. It no longer lays in my hands, but I really liked him.

The Doberman3


Sorry for your loss!

comfort
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May 3, 2010 9:29 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
Geez..what the hell did you ask him?!?!?uh oh
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May 3, 2010 9:30 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
if you guys fell out over a misunderstanding sweetie let him goooooo

betterbouquet now

he doesnt seem forgiving or maybe he doesnt trust your explaining what he misunderstood


kiddo dont worry about it

it was 5 minutes of your life

there is someone for youhug
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May 3, 2010 9:31 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
AngelinBali
AngelinBaliAngelinBaliBali, Indonesia270 Posts
nanners2863: Geez..what the hell did you ask him?!?!?


Thanks for popping the question out! Was to shy and my imagination is working over time..
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May 3, 2010 9:33 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
doberman3: We had just found each other, and I messed things up by a question I asked.
I really was so happy to have met him. Then we IMd for the first time,
and I messed up. He was upset at me and signed up, and I could have cried.
Then I tried to IM, email, flower, it all and had been blocked.

All I could think of was to ask my best friends on here to write to him
and say I was sorry.

That is about it. It no longer lays in my hands, but I really liked him.

The Doberman3
comfort i'm sure it'll work itself out...hug
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May 3, 2010 9:34 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
AngelinBali: Thanks for popping the question out! Was to shy and my imagination is working over time..


forget what she asked

i bet what you 2 are imagining is funnier than the true storylaugh
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May 3, 2010 9:34 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
LILLYLADY
LILLYLADYLILLYLADYunknown, Ohio USA27 Threads 1,293 Posts
Doberman,

You won't be very compatible if you ever met in person. Whatever your question was, it must have offended him very much to block you like he did.

Chalk it up to an experience and move on. Best of luck on your new search. The right guy is out there for you.
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May 3, 2010 9:39 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
doberman3: We had just found each other, and I messed things up by a question I asked.
I really was so happy to have met him. Then we IMd for the first time,
and I messed up. He was upset at me and signed up, and I could have cried.
Then I tried to IM, email, flower, it all and had been blocked.

All I could think of was to ask my best friends on here to write to him
and say I was sorry.

That is about it. It no longer lays in my hands, but I really liked him.

The Doberman3


I'm so sorry you've had this experience, but don't beat yourself about it...It doesn't appear you've done anything that bad...just asking a question really shouldn't set someone off like that...

IMO, there's a problem if you've been blocked due to you just asking a question...I understand you really liked him, but you have to ask yourself...is he really worth the hurt feelings if he just disappeared over something that's really this minor...you need someone that's gonna be around when things get tough, not run away and hide...
You deserve someone that's more dependable, up front, and understanding...
I wish you the best of luck...

bouquet hug teddybear
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May 3, 2010 9:39 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
Sorry to hear it. Best of luck in future endeavors. It's not easy out there...
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May 3, 2010 9:52 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
nanners2863
nanners2863nanners2863Cayuga, Ontario Canada38 Threads 3,355 Posts
mindfful: forget what she asked

i bet what you 2 are imagining is funnier than the true story
Seriously though..What type of question could be that offensive that he would just drop out?!?!? Maybe she asked if he liked cheese and he is lactose intolerant?!?!? Maybe she asked if he was married and then his wife told him to get off the computer?!?!? Maybe she asked whether he preferred Pepsi to coke and that just put him over the edge?!?!? These are the things we need to know!!!grin
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May 3, 2010 10:00 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
AngelinBali
AngelinBaliAngelinBaliBali, Indonesia270 Posts
mindfful: forget what she asked

i bet what you 2 are imagining is funnier than the true story


I went through all the serious stuff, freaking myself out and finally arrived at the fun stuff.. Can't wait to find a chat buddy laugh
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May 3, 2010 10:07 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
doberman3: We had just found each other, and I messed things up by a question I asked.
I really was so happy to have met him. Then we IMd for the first time,
and I messed up. He was upset at me and signed up, and I could have cried.
Then I tried to IM, email, flower, it all and had been blocked.

All I could think of was to ask my best friends on here to write to him
and say I was sorry.

That is about it. It no longer lays in my hands, but I really liked him.

The Doberman3


Well, join the club. ...the "Never ask a question club".
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May 3, 2010 10:30 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Wow Dob...im so sorry...but if he gets his wig in a knot over a question...hes probably to uptight for you anyway doll hug
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May 3, 2010 10:32 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
nanners2863: Seriously though..What type of question could be that offensive that he would just drop out?!?!? Maybe she asked if he liked cheese and he is lactose intolerant?!?!? Maybe she asked if he was married and then his wife told him to get off the computer?!?!? Maybe she asked whether he preferred Pepsi to coke and that just put him over the edge?!?!? These are the things we need to know!!!
rolling on the floor laughing brutalrolling on the floor laughing
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May 3, 2010 10:34 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
AngelinBali: I went through all the serious stuff, freaking myself out and finally arrived at the fun stuff.. Can't wait to find a chat buddy
rolling on the floor laughing yes yes when you do torture him with questionsrolling on the floor laughing
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May 3, 2010 10:35 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
ladyfingers: Well, join the club. ...the "Never ask a question club".
secrets are sometimes a feeling of power

if someone feels they need to have power

eh who needs emdunno


hug
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May 3, 2010 10:39 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
mindfful: secrets are sometimes a feeling of power

if someone feels they need to have power

eh who needs em


wow ain't that the truth. thumbs up grin cheers
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May 3, 2010 10:42 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
AsleepInNJ: wow ain't that the truth.


even if its fear that makes us want to 'not tell' meaning keep a secret...

its power cuz we know and they dont

too much freakin anxiety for me anymore dood

i like to say "
ive become too old and tired to be able to hold up
a facade any more" grin


how you doin jersey?

long time no see
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May 3, 2010 10:45 PM CST Just lost a friend named Joe
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
i'm doing ok i guess. how r u doing?
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